Slept with a boy, what are chances of seeing him again?

had been chatting loads to this barman over the last couple of months - he works in a bar by my house. two weeks ago he asked for my number and called me when he left work but i'd gone to bed by then so didn't pick up. he called the next day though and was good - chatted about going for a drink but he was working til late that night and i wasn't going out so we arranged to meet the next night (and despite me telling him i wasn't going out, he still called at the end of his shift to see if i was aroung). we met up the next night and went well it would seem - he seemed happy and said he'd call me **to go out** the next week (this was on a saturday). next day in the shop he spotted me and came over over to say hi, was super flirty and repeated about calling me to go for a drink. the next day he called but cos i couldn't meet til late, i said to come over to mine (rather than get a drink) as we live close by....realise gunna get lots of abuse now but....we slept together...and was good...



when he left he asked if i'd be in his bar that week (his only night off is the night he saw me)...so i said yes, i'd be there on the thursday and we'd catch up then. but in the end on the thursday i wasn't gunna go out so i sent him a message saying that and also put ';but we'll meet/get a drink another day if you want'; and also put that i'd had a good time with him on the tuesday.



no reply....i know it didn't demand one - and that i guess he'd only get in contact if was for a reason (and cos he's working all these nights (and i'm working all days) we can't meet, so there's no ';reason';) ...but still - SOMETHING would have been nice...or is it just girls that text ';pointless'; things like ';ok'; to aknowledge messages??



so yep, on the saturday i went his bar and we chatted and was fine, he said sorry about not replying to the message ';but you're really great eh?'; and that he'd text to go out on tuesday (as in yesterday)...and NOTHING...STILL....



but is weird cos the last time we met up, last tuesday, right near the end, he asked how long i'd be here for (live in foreign country) ';to know how long we've got'; ( i live here permanently)...and he was also super tactile /chatty etc (after sex too) so don't really get how it's changed so much....



is it just now that i've slept with him he thinks am easy lay and he'll just get in touch when he feels like it?? or will i never see him again? or...? would probably go his bar tomorrow (have been going there for years ) but now not sure whether to go as don't want to be there ';hassling'; him but would kind of like to know what's going on...



he has two jobs and only one night off a week (which was last night and it coincided with his favourite football team important match) so get taht maybe in the end he didn't want to meet - so is the absense of message just a boy thing (no reason to message, no message) or...?





also,,,i actually slept with him the first night and he still wanted to meet after that so.......i mean, if he just wanted the one night stand and he came back once.... then maybe will see him again?Slept with a boy, what are chances of seeing him again?
first of all that is way too long....try to make it shorter



I think that there is a chance, but they are small, and most likely if he does see you he will want to sleep with you again.Slept with a boy, what are chances of seeing him again?
live and learn...it was a one night stand...forget him if he approaches u again and asks tell him no ..ull waste ur time over him...wouldnt be suprised if he is married or taken and ull be one of many......
yeah you'll meet some other day. no need of panicking, things will work out for you .you found him without strain and getting him will be easier