Okay this is a little long but here goes. My fiancee have been together for over a year now. We have been together pretty much every single day since we got together. We are perfect for each other or so we think. We rarely ever argue and we always have fun together. We do do everything together this is true whether its grocery shopping or going out to the beach or taking a trip. Lately his friends girls and guys have been getting on him about how he doesnt call them anymore - this is untrue. He does call them and he always answers the phone when they call. He still hangs out, and I still hang out with my friends but they usually get us as a package deal. I can see I guess how this can be frustrating even though most of our friends are mutual they dont get any one on one time with us but thats just how it is. His friends keep telling him that its not right because they knew him first etc. etc. The way he sees it he isnt going to marry them so he isnt really to concerned if they are feeling slightly neglected... we have a family and our family comes first (I have a two year old daughter from a previous relationship but her dad is out of our lives and for all purposes my fiancee is her dad.) He doesnt want to go out and not have me there and the same way around. we dont get sick of each other! We spend a lot of time working, and I mean A LOT so thats usually our alone time from each other. On the very rare occasion we need a break we let each other know and we take a day off. His friends keep telling him that us spending so much time together isn't the way things are supposed to be and also that its going to be the downfall of our relationship. I want to tell them to shut up and butt out - most of their relationships are failing miserably and there is honestly NOTHING wrong with our relationship. They are mad because he doesnt go to the club anymore and doesnt go out drinking. He is almost thirty... I think you kind of have to hang that up at some point. They blame me for this but the funny thing is I never asked him to stop going he came to me one day and told me he wasnt going anymore because he feels like its a respect thing torwards me and because he feels like its time for him to settle downa little bit. Now the only reason any of this bothers me is because my fiancee does enjoy seeing his friends but when we all go places together now they give me dirty looks and dont talk to me because they think i'm brain washing him. I can honestly say although I appreciate all the attention he gives me and all the things he does for me I have NEVER once told him or asked him to be this way. I dont want to go out with his friends anymore. Its akward for me and I feel so hated. I dont mind if he goes by himself but he's upset when I say this because he feels like its something he did thats making me want to stay home and spend less time with him. How can I tell my fiancee I hate his friends and dont want to be around them without him kicking them to the curb?? He would probably quit hanging out with them because he would feel like they are disrespecting me. These are his childhood friends and I think he has every right to hang out with them... I just dont want to!!!How can I deal with this situation...?
He's a family man now so the partying and clubbing days need to be behind him or at least be put on the back burner, meaning you and the child come first and everything else is second. If his friends can't understand that then that's their problem and they need to check themselves but he still needs friends...they just need to respect the fact that life changes and goes on and he can't stay the same person they used to party with. People resent change so i can understand where the friends are coming from but if they're truly his friend then they need to respect you and your fiancees situation and just enjoy spending any time with him, even if that includes you being there hanging out.
My advice to you is for all of you to sit down and discuss this as reasonable adults and explain to them he's a family man now, which might be a problem as they sound like they haven't matured yet.How can I deal with this situation...?
First; there's nothing wrong with people in a relationship going out and hanging out with their friends now and then....perfectly normal. Too much isn't good....not enough isn't good either.
That said....each person in a relationship has to do what's right for them. If he's happy just being with you and not his friends, then that works for him. In my opinion I think he should go hang with them now and then ---- alone (you too with your friends), but if he doesn't, that's his choice.
Maybe you should tell him how things are from your point of view and maybe he can talk to his friends and let them know you aren't influencing him in any way. They (his friends) probably feel like they are losing, or lost his friendship, when in fact they haven't. Those are important as a romantic relationship. Necessary for a healthy emotional mind.
Good luck!
Set an allotted time for him to see his friend without you tagging along, both of you need friends and time away from each other otherwise you'll strangle the relationship to death.
Do you really expect us to wade through that very long, run-on paragraph? Didn't you learn to use some punctuation to help the reader get through to what you're trying to say?
I couldn't get as far as the problem you're asking about, here.
i understand that you love spending time with each other and that's cool, but i understand where his friend are coming from the reason they give you the stink eye is because when you are there, there are stuff they cant talk about in front of you (it might be nothing personal but its Just uncomfortable) they been with each other since childhood so it will take time for you to earn there trust. im sure you can understand that with your friends. your eventually gonna have to get this off your chest so things will be easy in the long run. sometimes things you say in a relationship will hurt at first but in time it will only make you two stronger.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
Well how do I began........I have a one and a half year old kid and now a 10 week pregnant girlfriend who I think is seeing someone else.She just moved out of her moms house and in to her own apt.For right now I live 4 hour away from her and go see her and my child every weekend.We had a big fight that went all the way to court ,and now we both just realized that we both still love each other and should give it a try again .Well when she told me she was pregnant,she said that she did not want to keep it and I did.She said that she just could not do this right now and there was no way right now that we could,so after that I was like maybe she is right and I was like we can't have this.So she went back home and it seemed like her mom and her friends told her they would help.so it as like if there is going to be someone there to help me then we our have this baby!!!I was mad as hell.To me it seem that she wanted out of her mom house to getting pregnant lead to her mom saying you have to go and I will pay half of your rent and that what is going on right now!I was mad as hell and I did say some mean things.There was a time I tried to brake up because I was not happy with what was going on,but she did not want to do that,but she did say if I don't love her then someone else will.Will a few weeks ago it seem like she stop caling me as much as she did, and she seemed like she only could talk for a few sec,and one time we just did not talk to each other for a day.Well the first day at her apt I picked up her cell phone and seen that she had been talking to some guy that she was dating right before we had got back together.She had said that she quit talking to him because she said she loved me.So in her cell I had seen that she had called him and he had called her.Then in the text it it said that he was going to get a room and she said yeah ok!So when I asked her about the text she lied and she she did not text him,and the about 3 min later she said im sorry I did talk with him.She hit me with well you said you were going to brake up with me and I just need someone to talk to.Every time I bring up the text she acts as if I did not read the dam thing.What should I do?I know she is the type of girl that if one guy ain't loving her she will go some where else and get it!How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
Sounds like she is very hormonal right now and needs affection from a man. If you are going to be there for her and the baby you need to step it up now. No more fighting and no more telling her you dont want to be with her any more. Tell her how you feel and that if you love her, tell her that too and say you want to be there for her and the baby. Only you, and going forward only you. That you want her to stop talking to the other guy. If you were technically not going out or about to break up she really didn't cheat on you with the other guy, they were just talking. Be grown up about all this, you are about to be a father again! GL!How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
I agree with the first answer. I am 20 years old and have a 18 month old baby boy and I went through the SAME EXACT thing as what you are typing I actually thought you were my sons father for a quick second and realized obvioulsy not lol but we are very hormonal and just want affection stop telling her crap and just take care of her take her out while she is pregnant do nice things together while you can because baby is coming soon and before you know it all that sweet stuff will be slightly over because you will be taking care of a baby. Get it together as a matter of fact get off this yahoo answers and drive 4 hours to her house right now. And tell her how you feel trust me she will LOVE IT I know I would.
Sounds like she is very hormonal right now and needs affection from a man. If you are going to be there for her and the baby you need to step it up now. No more fighting and no more telling her you dont want to be with her any more. Tell her how you feel and that if you love her, tell her that too and say you want to be there for her and the baby. Only you, and going forward only you. That you want her to stop talking to the other guy. If you were technically not going out or about to break up she really didn't cheat on you with the other guy, they were just talking. Be grown up about all this, you are about to be a father again! GL!How do I keep this going with a girl who is pregnant?
I agree with the first answer. I am 20 years old and have a 18 month old baby boy and I went through the SAME EXACT thing as what you are typing I actually thought you were my sons father for a quick second and realized obvioulsy not lol but we are very hormonal and just want affection stop telling her crap and just take care of her take her out while she is pregnant do nice things together while you can because baby is coming soon and before you know it all that sweet stuff will be slightly over because you will be taking care of a baby. Get it together as a matter of fact get off this yahoo answers and drive 4 hours to her house right now. And tell her how you feel trust me she will LOVE IT I know I would.
What will get a girl turned on sexually?
Well I'm wondering how to get my girlfriend really wet or even to orgasm through kissing and touching without really going down on her or anything..
It's just we are ready for that just I want to experiment with different things. I love her very much and I could go a whole session without asking for anything just to see her pleased.
What turns you girls on the most? I know in different people it's different but what can you reccomendWhat will get a girl turned on sexually?
you could play with her neck and ears. Some girls dont like that cuz it tickles. After you suck on them you can blow on them gently and into her ear. When you suck on parts of her body also experiment with blowing hot or cold air on them to have a temp. difference. Another thing is maybe you could keep your wiskers around for a bit...its nice to feel a little bit of scratching sometime or scuffing for a texture difference. Try food stuff too like whip cream and hot fudge...not enough to make you sick but enough for HER to feel the warmth and coolness in tender spots, like her lower tummy under the belly button. Hope that helps, thats about all i can think of. oh, and if she isnt ticklish you could give her a footrub with a couple licks, kisses, and sucks here and there....nibbles are good too..pretty much anywhere!What will get a girl turned on sexually?
You definitely won't give her an orgasm by just kissing. I'd suggest starting by making out, then kissing her neck, then massaging her breasts and touching/licking her nipples. If you want her to have an orgasm but aren't ready for oral sex or vaginal intercourse, try stimulating her manually by fingering her and rubbing her clit.
It would be pretty rare if she had an orgasm by not doing anything down there...but when you get in that moment, kiss her passionately. I'm sensitive to pretty much anywhere...
thighs, ears, neck, legs, waist, breasts, back..try giving her a back massage ;) She should be wet and turned on by then.
here's some suggestions,while making out, make your way down to her neck but do it in a slow fashion like kiss her mouth then slowly move but still be kissing like her chin while going down,another suggestion would be kissing her chest or even her
boobs,sorry for being graphic,
have fun !
Good man. One thing you can do is keep kissing her rub her breast, kiss her neck, rub her clitoris area with your hand, and just go down on her that Will please her a lot.
To Turn On A Girl Sexually you dont need to press her boobs or go down to her private things...
You can turn her on by just kissing her slowly and softly. Every girls has some points where by kissing or touching that points will turn her on.
Just try to kiss her on the Neck, Back side of her ears and below the neck and so on.
You can also just draw circles on her boobs and you dont need to press them. Play with her boobs and tights will rouse her very fastly.
read erotica ;)
yep do all of the above she will love it haha ^^
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It's just we are ready for that just I want to experiment with different things. I love her very much and I could go a whole session without asking for anything just to see her pleased.
What turns you girls on the most? I know in different people it's different but what can you reccomendWhat will get a girl turned on sexually?
you could play with her neck and ears. Some girls dont like that cuz it tickles. After you suck on them you can blow on them gently and into her ear. When you suck on parts of her body also experiment with blowing hot or cold air on them to have a temp. difference. Another thing is maybe you could keep your wiskers around for a bit...its nice to feel a little bit of scratching sometime or scuffing for a texture difference. Try food stuff too like whip cream and hot fudge...not enough to make you sick but enough for HER to feel the warmth and coolness in tender spots, like her lower tummy under the belly button. Hope that helps, thats about all i can think of. oh, and if she isnt ticklish you could give her a footrub with a couple licks, kisses, and sucks here and there....nibbles are good too..pretty much anywhere!What will get a girl turned on sexually?
You definitely won't give her an orgasm by just kissing. I'd suggest starting by making out, then kissing her neck, then massaging her breasts and touching/licking her nipples. If you want her to have an orgasm but aren't ready for oral sex or vaginal intercourse, try stimulating her manually by fingering her and rubbing her clit.
It would be pretty rare if she had an orgasm by not doing anything down there...but when you get in that moment, kiss her passionately. I'm sensitive to pretty much anywhere...
thighs, ears, neck, legs, waist, breasts, back..try giving her a back massage ;) She should be wet and turned on by then.
here's some suggestions,while making out, make your way down to her neck but do it in a slow fashion like kiss her mouth then slowly move but still be kissing like her chin while going down,another suggestion would be kissing her chest or even her
boobs,sorry for being graphic,
have fun !
Good man. One thing you can do is keep kissing her rub her breast, kiss her neck, rub her clitoris area with your hand, and just go down on her that Will please her a lot.
To Turn On A Girl Sexually you dont need to press her boobs or go down to her private things...
You can turn her on by just kissing her slowly and softly. Every girls has some points where by kissing or touching that points will turn her on.
Just try to kiss her on the Neck, Back side of her ears and below the neck and so on.
You can also just draw circles on her boobs and you dont need to press them. Play with her boobs and tights will rouse her very fastly.
read erotica ;)
yep do all of the above she will love it haha ^^
Cash, Cars and Boats.
How can i tell my other friends im not a tag along ?
Well i reccently joined a new clique and became
best mates with a girl in this group
cos im in a different class than her
and im let out first i go to her class
and wait for her
well now the people in my clique
think im just a follower and call me
it all the time.
how can i get them to see im not a tag on
and that im one of them ??
i need this asap
best answer get 5 stars and a great feedbackHow can i tell my other friends im not a tag along ?
being the third wheel is never fun..if these people are really treating you this way then they are not really your friends and you were probably never even part of their ';clique';. Forget about them and find some real friends, you don't deserve to be around those girls if they are going to make you feel that way and act that way towards you.How can i tell my other friends im not a tag along ?
Just tell them your not, you do you.
just tell them that your not and if your clique has plans and if they ask you if your going just say you have other plans and see what they'll say
Talk to your new friend, the best mate girl, and find out what interests her the most! Then when the rest of the gang is present, surprise everyone by leading the crowd with a new information about your new friend--something that interests your best mate, her ';heart-throb';, her hero, best singer {Madonna, Beyonce, etc}, or something about the best dance group, etc.
Enact some favorite star, sing / act like some famous star..... whatever appeals to your best mate.
Then the rest of the grp will see that you are more than a mere follower! You are capable of taking a lead role in this group!
Go ahead! Show your originality and skills!
Hey, YOU can do it!!
Actions speak louder than words. Maybe you don't want to be friends with those people anyway.verifying rental applications
best mates with a girl in this group
cos im in a different class than her
and im let out first i go to her class
and wait for her
well now the people in my clique
think im just a follower and call me
it all the time.
how can i get them to see im not a tag on
and that im one of them ??
i need this asap
best answer get 5 stars and a great feedbackHow can i tell my other friends im not a tag along ?
being the third wheel is never fun..if these people are really treating you this way then they are not really your friends and you were probably never even part of their ';clique';. Forget about them and find some real friends, you don't deserve to be around those girls if they are going to make you feel that way and act that way towards you.How can i tell my other friends im not a tag along ?
Just tell them your not, you do you.
just tell them that your not and if your clique has plans and if they ask you if your going just say you have other plans and see what they'll say
Talk to your new friend, the best mate girl, and find out what interests her the most! Then when the rest of the gang is present, surprise everyone by leading the crowd with a new information about your new friend--something that interests your best mate, her ';heart-throb';, her hero, best singer {Madonna, Beyonce, etc}, or something about the best dance group, etc.
Enact some favorite star, sing / act like some famous star..... whatever appeals to your best mate.
Then the rest of the grp will see that you are more than a mere follower! You are capable of taking a lead role in this group!
Go ahead! Show your originality and skills!
Hey, YOU can do it!!
Actions speak louder than words. Maybe you don't want to be friends with those people anyway.
How can i get my ex back?
My ex broke up with me just over 5 months ago.
He gave me so many reasons why he didn't want to be with me like i cracked it at everything and he wanted to fool around with other girls.
We went out for 13 months and loved eachother so much and our first time having sex was with eachother and we both don't regret it.
Since he broke up with me he had sex with this girl and hooked up with a few other girls and i have hooked up with 3 guys.
I haven't been sleeping and eating well and i'm crying all the time!
I want him in my life forever but i really want to get back with him!
Can anyone tell me how i can? I don't care that he has had sex with someone else i just want him back!!! :(How can i get my ex back?
You really need to talk to HIM about this, and see how he feels about you. Best of luck.How can i get my ex back?
Sounds like my life. Darling,
He's an idiot. Be smart enough to let him go.
Good luck.
brainwash him
nobody can tell u how 2 get him back. u should care hes had sex with others.use your head and not your heart. nothing last 4ever,not even life.hes just being a guy! welcome to the real world honey. get over it.
sounds to me as tho he has realised he wants time to play around, its no use crying that will not help, the best thing for u to do is get your own life together, show him how mature you are being, accepting even, give him something to come back for, and that does not mean sleeping around, because u are the one that will get hurt doing that.
Stop sleeping around! Thats only going to make you feel worse and make you look bad. LOVE YOURSELF 1ST. You obviously don't. Don't revolve your life around him. Go out, focus on school or something, do new things you havnt done before like hiking, golfland, movies fun stuff. Be more positive! only listen to happy songs and whenever you feel bad change the way you think, by thinking of something that makes you happy. IT WORKS. Get more in touch with yourself, become more spiritual. ';The heart is a door way to your soul, giving Everyone the key to it reduces it value'; You don't need him.
If you show him you don't need him or your better off, He will come back to you because no guy likes a needy girl.
Plus he seems like he just wants some ***. He doesn't seem serious, forget about him. He's a dog.
He gave me so many reasons why he didn't want to be with me like i cracked it at everything and he wanted to fool around with other girls.
We went out for 13 months and loved eachother so much and our first time having sex was with eachother and we both don't regret it.
Since he broke up with me he had sex with this girl and hooked up with a few other girls and i have hooked up with 3 guys.
I haven't been sleeping and eating well and i'm crying all the time!
I want him in my life forever but i really want to get back with him!
Can anyone tell me how i can? I don't care that he has had sex with someone else i just want him back!!! :(How can i get my ex back?
You really need to talk to HIM about this, and see how he feels about you. Best of luck.How can i get my ex back?
Sounds like my life. Darling,
He's an idiot. Be smart enough to let him go.
Good luck.
brainwash him
nobody can tell u how 2 get him back. u should care hes had sex with others.use your head and not your heart. nothing last 4ever,not even life.hes just being a guy! welcome to the real world honey. get over it.
sounds to me as tho he has realised he wants time to play around, its no use crying that will not help, the best thing for u to do is get your own life together, show him how mature you are being, accepting even, give him something to come back for, and that does not mean sleeping around, because u are the one that will get hurt doing that.
Stop sleeping around! Thats only going to make you feel worse and make you look bad. LOVE YOURSELF 1ST. You obviously don't. Don't revolve your life around him. Go out, focus on school or something, do new things you havnt done before like hiking, golfland, movies fun stuff. Be more positive! only listen to happy songs and whenever you feel bad change the way you think, by thinking of something that makes you happy. IT WORKS. Get more in touch with yourself, become more spiritual. ';The heart is a door way to your soul, giving Everyone the key to it reduces it value'; You don't need him.
If you show him you don't need him or your better off, He will come back to you because no guy likes a needy girl.
Plus he seems like he just wants some ***. He doesn't seem serious, forget about him. He's a dog.
Teenage girl moving from Tn to Ohio..?
So yea, I'm 15 year old girl. I've lived in Tennessee my whole life, but I have to move to Columbus, Ohio by the end of this month. Uhm, so I was just wondering how teens were up there. Like if for the most part, our personalities would clash. Or whatever.
Some things about me:
I Listen to all music, mostly Indie, pop, and boy bands. (NeverShoutNever, spose, all time low, lady gaga, etc.)
I cheer.
And i just like to have fun. I'm down to earth and easy to get along with, but I guess movign to a completely different place has me a lil worried. So yeaa. Let me know somethings about Ohio.? Thanks.(:
Uhm, I'm not ghetto.Teenage girl moving from Tn to Ohio..?
Well i dont live in ohio, im 14 btw, I live in phoenix, which is huge and a big city. but were on the west side just out of los angeles. so anyways, yeah I was born in the south, but moved (luckily) when i was about 3 but i go there often to visit. if you were to take a highschool from the south, and a high school from the north, or west, or even east, they would not,well ,get along. there are many differences. at my high school we go to concerts,parties,mall,movies,listen to rock,hiphop,ect. no one really listens to country. haha not that you do, you sound like you'd fit it. but my friend goes to school in the south and they all wear camo, hunt, go mudding, and ahh those southern accents -_-. chances are the only thing that will make you stand out is your southern accent if youve got one. but if your all southernfied and countryfied, you will stand out, but that doesnt mean people wont like you.
Some things about me:
I Listen to all music, mostly Indie, pop, and boy bands. (NeverShoutNever, spose, all time low, lady gaga, etc.)
I cheer.
And i just like to have fun. I'm down to earth and easy to get along with, but I guess movign to a completely different place has me a lil worried. So yeaa. Let me know somethings about Ohio.? Thanks.(:
Uhm, I'm not ghetto.Teenage girl moving from Tn to Ohio..?
Well i dont live in ohio, im 14 btw, I live in phoenix, which is huge and a big city. but were on the west side just out of los angeles. so anyways, yeah I was born in the south, but moved (luckily) when i was about 3 but i go there often to visit. if you were to take a highschool from the south, and a high school from the north, or west, or even east, they would not,well ,get along. there are many differences. at my high school we go to concerts,parties,mall,movies,listen to rock,hiphop,ect. no one really listens to country. haha not that you do, you sound like you'd fit it. but my friend goes to school in the south and they all wear camo, hunt, go mudding, and ahh those southern accents -_-. chances are the only thing that will make you stand out is your southern accent if youve got one. but if your all southernfied and countryfied, you will stand out, but that doesnt mean people wont like you.
How common is girl on boy bullying?
One of my cousins was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. She got in my face and was like, ';come on... let's fight.'; She had me backed up against a bed, and then totally made me look like a b*tch by pushing me down onto the bed and standing there like ';come on, get up, are you afraid to fight a girl.'; I got up and she pushed me down again and kept egging me on ';come on, get up, let's fight.'; I just kept saying I wouldn't fight her. She finally slapped me in the face and left me alone. We were both 15. I know sometimes younger kids get beaten up by girls, but I was surprised that a girl thought she could beat up a 15 yo guy.
a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy?
b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl?
c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up?
d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl?How common is girl on boy bullying?
i would say 3/4 all men secretly bully there wife/girlfriend. especially the ones that bully other guys in public.How common is girl on boy bullying?
a) more common than people realize. This happened to me a lot in grade, middle, and hs.
b) sometimes they really are ready to fight. sounds like she was just by the amt of physical contact (pushing you down twice, slapping you in the face)
c) Yes, a really tough girl can beat up some boys (your cousin sounds pretty tough, so if you are not so tough, there's a pretty good chance she can kick your butt)
c) Yes and no. A lot of guys wouldn't admit it, but faced with your cousin, I think a lot of guys would be pretty intimidated. She sounds tough and mean. I would probs be a little scared.
a - it isn't common but it is not rare - i think that there are some fairly angry girls out there
b - i think that she wants to cause harm and to hurt but if she would get hit she would be a cow about it
c - yes
d - no. it would've been very hard not to slap her back so therefore you restrained yourself and you did the right thing - good for you.
Perhaps talk to her mum or your even better your mum and dad and say that you are concerned for her. She has some sort of anger issue that will hurt her so the sooner she deals with it the better
A) Although it is unlikely for girls to bully boys it does happen.
B) I dont think she actually wanted to fight but was using the fact that she was A; jacked up after being in a fight and B; yes using that you were a boy and therefore wouldnt hit her.
C) If you let her then yes she could.
D) No you are not a 'wimp' it happens and your allowed to feel afraid. Just know that you could deck her if needed.
If you count ';shaming tactics'; and guilt trips, I say that girl on boy bullying is very common.
Female bullies don't grow up; they just become politicians.
First of all, she's is probably fighting you for a reason. She might be angry about something. Maybe she's just crazy. You never know.
a) I don't think it is that common, like I said it could have happened for a reason.
c) maybe, only one way to find out and that's having a fight.
d) you must have been suprised, so no.
100% have you ever seen a married guy who stands up to his wife, manipulation using violence, sex and emotional blackmail are all they do.
It's a power trip because even if she starts it and you win, you get hammered by the double standard the C**** hide behind.
Are you a total wimp? Do you know how to fight? When push comes to shove women always lose at hand to hand with men. We are build for it, they are not. That's why they attack men in their sleep, because in a stand up fight they get crushed.
YES.
i dont have specific answers and apparently neither does anyone else, but i do know that physical strength is not the issue necessarily. one well-studied phenomenon in biology is the intimidation of a stronger animal by a weaker one if the weaker one is willing to risk more serious damage. this applies to the behavior of nations as well, e.g., the vietnamese victiory over the u.s.
You need to grow a pair seriously if you are getting bullied by girls then you got problems.
She wants to fight, beat her up swiftly and she won't bother you again, this works on boy bullies as well, beat the crap out of those that try to bully you it's all about status.
a) Who knows?
b) She is probably just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl
c) Probably not
d) Yes
a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy? It probably happens more than we think. The stats likely say otherwise but it is a fact that guys don't report things of this nature as much as girls do.
b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl? She is playing on the fact that no matter if she beats you up or you beat her up you will be the one who looks stupid.
c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up? Sure she can but that doesn't matter as you lose either way.
d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl? No she has you in a tight spot and you will be the one who suffers in any outcome. UNLESS you report it now before it snowballs any further. This will still make you lose because your guy friends will make fun of you for being afraid of a girl. So she wins again.
Male bullies are scary but usually stupid and easy to expose. Female bullies are scary but smart. We cover our ases.
a) Girls doing physical bullying is of younger brothers is pretty common. Girls doing it to boys their age is less common, but it is increasing as some girls feel less constrained by traditional roles and experiment with physical aggression.
b) Some girls do want to fight and some of them have the strength, skill, and aggression to fight and beat up boys. A friend of mine was like that, but she wasn't really a bully. If someone is bullying, there is usually some underlying issue. It sounds like your cousin really wanted to fight.
c) Its hard to know if she could beat you up without more information. The average 15 year old girl couldn't beat up a boy her age. But athletic girls, particularly if they have grown up fighting, can beat up a boy who isn't experienced at fighting.
d) No, you're not a wimp - you're a decent kid who found himself in a difficult situation and handled it the best he could.
a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy?
b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl?
c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up?
d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl?How common is girl on boy bullying?
i would say 3/4 all men secretly bully there wife/girlfriend. especially the ones that bully other guys in public.How common is girl on boy bullying?
a) more common than people realize. This happened to me a lot in grade, middle, and hs.
b) sometimes they really are ready to fight. sounds like she was just by the amt of physical contact (pushing you down twice, slapping you in the face)
c) Yes, a really tough girl can beat up some boys (your cousin sounds pretty tough, so if you are not so tough, there's a pretty good chance she can kick your butt)
c) Yes and no. A lot of guys wouldn't admit it, but faced with your cousin, I think a lot of guys would be pretty intimidated. She sounds tough and mean. I would probs be a little scared.
a - it isn't common but it is not rare - i think that there are some fairly angry girls out there
b - i think that she wants to cause harm and to hurt but if she would get hit she would be a cow about it
c - yes
d - no. it would've been very hard not to slap her back so therefore you restrained yourself and you did the right thing - good for you.
Perhaps talk to her mum or your even better your mum and dad and say that you are concerned for her. She has some sort of anger issue that will hurt her so the sooner she deals with it the better
A) Although it is unlikely for girls to bully boys it does happen.
B) I dont think she actually wanted to fight but was using the fact that she was A; jacked up after being in a fight and B; yes using that you were a boy and therefore wouldnt hit her.
C) If you let her then yes she could.
D) No you are not a 'wimp' it happens and your allowed to feel afraid. Just know that you could deck her if needed.
If you count ';shaming tactics'; and guilt trips, I say that girl on boy bullying is very common.
Female bullies don't grow up; they just become politicians.
First of all, she's is probably fighting you for a reason. She might be angry about something. Maybe she's just crazy. You never know.
a) I don't think it is that common, like I said it could have happened for a reason.
c) maybe, only one way to find out and that's having a fight.
d) you must have been suprised, so no.
100% have you ever seen a married guy who stands up to his wife, manipulation using violence, sex and emotional blackmail are all they do.
It's a power trip because even if she starts it and you win, you get hammered by the double standard the C**** hide behind.
Are you a total wimp? Do you know how to fight? When push comes to shove women always lose at hand to hand with men. We are build for it, they are not. That's why they attack men in their sleep, because in a stand up fight they get crushed.
YES.
i dont have specific answers and apparently neither does anyone else, but i do know that physical strength is not the issue necessarily. one well-studied phenomenon in biology is the intimidation of a stronger animal by a weaker one if the weaker one is willing to risk more serious damage. this applies to the behavior of nations as well, e.g., the vietnamese victiory over the u.s.
You need to grow a pair seriously if you are getting bullied by girls then you got problems.
She wants to fight, beat her up swiftly and she won't bother you again, this works on boy bullies as well, beat the crap out of those that try to bully you it's all about status.
a) Who knows?
b) She is probably just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl
c) Probably not
d) Yes
a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy? It probably happens more than we think. The stats likely say otherwise but it is a fact that guys don't report things of this nature as much as girls do.
b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl? She is playing on the fact that no matter if she beats you up or you beat her up you will be the one who looks stupid.
c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up? Sure she can but that doesn't matter as you lose either way.
d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl? No she has you in a tight spot and you will be the one who suffers in any outcome. UNLESS you report it now before it snowballs any further. This will still make you lose because your guy friends will make fun of you for being afraid of a girl. So she wins again.
Male bullies are scary but usually stupid and easy to expose. Female bullies are scary but smart. We cover our ases.
a) Girls doing physical bullying is of younger brothers is pretty common. Girls doing it to boys their age is less common, but it is increasing as some girls feel less constrained by traditional roles and experiment with physical aggression.
b) Some girls do want to fight and some of them have the strength, skill, and aggression to fight and beat up boys. A friend of mine was like that, but she wasn't really a bully. If someone is bullying, there is usually some underlying issue. It sounds like your cousin really wanted to fight.
c) Its hard to know if she could beat you up without more information. The average 15 year old girl couldn't beat up a boy her age. But athletic girls, particularly if they have grown up fighting, can beat up a boy who isn't experienced at fighting.
d) No, you're not a wimp - you're a decent kid who found himself in a difficult situation and handled it the best he could.
Ok VERY serious question:: am i supposed to do anything with a guy's balls?!?!? if so, WHAT?
ok i have always ignored guys balls whenever i've been intimate, or given head or anything. but i've talk to some of my girl friends about it- and apparently that is a big no no. is it a big no no? i don't know what to do with them! i don't want to hurt the guy, but i want it to feel good for him...so how should i hold them? or what should i do to them? what do guys like girls to do to their balls? does it even make anything feel better...like do they get hornier??? or should i just stick to ignoring them?
sorry kind of graphic BUT I REALLY NEED TO KNOWOk VERY serious question:: am i supposed to do anything with a guy's balls?!?!? if so, WHAT?
LOL.Ok VERY serious question:: am i supposed to do anything with a guy's balls?!?!? if so, WHAT?
juggle them in ur hand lightly and stroke them...my man thinks it feels good,so. yeah.
in my own personal opinon it really would not bother me if u did or didnt but thats just me but there are some guys out there that want there balls played with
OMG, i have this issue too! :)) I think it really depends on what the guy is into, my ex liked tea bagging and just, fondle em. :)) But my current boyfriend says that he doesn't really mind his balls.
When in doubt, ask your lover, not the computer mob.
Communication in relationships is very important. If you're bold enough to have sex, I don't see why you would be shy about asking him what he likes.
I just caress them :) He loves it.
try licking them. we guys really enjoy it and it shows no pain what so ever
It's not mandatory to do anything with them, but guys can get a bit of sensation when a woman kinda tickles them or gently rubs them during oral sex. There's an area beneath/behind there that's a little sensitive %26amp; feels good when touched. Just DON'T SQUEEZE THEM or apply any type of pressure and everything should be fine.
I dont know. maybe ask if he likes them to be stroked or fondled with while being intimate with him.
Im not into that but its worth a try. I will do anything to please my girlfriend
Try talking to him... or just feel him up if he says anyything which doubt he will ask him then what he prefers.
you dumb *****
lick the balls fo course
and suck on them just like you suck on that cock
then slowly stick your finger up his butthole
then shove it in there hard
he will loveeeee it i swear
If you're uncomfortable with doing it you don't have to, but I'd definitely recommend giving it a shot.
If you touch them, you'll be able to feel the different sort of 'parts' of the testes. Feels a bit like a rubber egg in a skin sack. Be gentle with the eggs and stimulate the sack. (Sorry, it's late, and this is the best analogy I can come up with! xD)
You don't have to do anything particularly porn-star-esque. Just reach down and massage them - not too hard, just gently. Rub them, roll them around in your fingers. Lick them if you feel so inclined.
And ask your partner what he likes! Different dudes like different stuff, so get him to tell you what gets him off.
It's all a matter of experimentation. Have fun with it!
you have two hands, a mouth, and a tongue, use them, gently squeeze them, rub them, kiss, lick, suck them, whoever told you that it is a no,no, dont know what they are up to, of course a guy likes his nuts played with, i havent met a guy yet who doesnt, and as i said, you got two hands, think about it?.
juggle them, lick them, and suck on them
sorry kind of graphic BUT I REALLY NEED TO KNOWOk VERY serious question:: am i supposed to do anything with a guy's balls?!?!? if so, WHAT?
LOL.Ok VERY serious question:: am i supposed to do anything with a guy's balls?!?!? if so, WHAT?
juggle them in ur hand lightly and stroke them...my man thinks it feels good,so. yeah.
in my own personal opinon it really would not bother me if u did or didnt but thats just me but there are some guys out there that want there balls played with
OMG, i have this issue too! :)) I think it really depends on what the guy is into, my ex liked tea bagging and just, fondle em. :)) But my current boyfriend says that he doesn't really mind his balls.
When in doubt, ask your lover, not the computer mob.
Communication in relationships is very important. If you're bold enough to have sex, I don't see why you would be shy about asking him what he likes.
I just caress them :) He loves it.
try licking them. we guys really enjoy it and it shows no pain what so ever
It's not mandatory to do anything with them, but guys can get a bit of sensation when a woman kinda tickles them or gently rubs them during oral sex. There's an area beneath/behind there that's a little sensitive %26amp; feels good when touched. Just DON'T SQUEEZE THEM or apply any type of pressure and everything should be fine.
I dont know. maybe ask if he likes them to be stroked or fondled with while being intimate with him.
Im not into that but its worth a try. I will do anything to please my girlfriend
Try talking to him... or just feel him up if he says anyything which doubt he will ask him then what he prefers.
you dumb *****
lick the balls fo course
and suck on them just like you suck on that cock
then slowly stick your finger up his butthole
then shove it in there hard
he will loveeeee it i swear
If you're uncomfortable with doing it you don't have to, but I'd definitely recommend giving it a shot.
If you touch them, you'll be able to feel the different sort of 'parts' of the testes. Feels a bit like a rubber egg in a skin sack. Be gentle with the eggs and stimulate the sack. (Sorry, it's late, and this is the best analogy I can come up with! xD)
You don't have to do anything particularly porn-star-esque. Just reach down and massage them - not too hard, just gently. Rub them, roll them around in your fingers. Lick them if you feel so inclined.
And ask your partner what he likes! Different dudes like different stuff, so get him to tell you what gets him off.
It's all a matter of experimentation. Have fun with it!
you have two hands, a mouth, and a tongue, use them, gently squeeze them, rub them, kiss, lick, suck them, whoever told you that it is a no,no, dont know what they are up to, of course a guy likes his nuts played with, i havent met a guy yet who doesnt, and as i said, you got two hands, think about it?.
juggle them, lick them, and suck on them
How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
I got a girlfriend from Australia and want her to come live with me here in the U.S., I know I can sponsor her but, whats the proper way to do it ?How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
u have to marry her. are u ready to settle down yet?? that's the one way.
another is she can look for an employer that willing to sponsor her work visa which is hard to find and not very common.How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
Marriage. You file the following forms and it will take about 6 months for her to get the proper visa to come here and get married to you..... I-129F, I-134 and G-325A http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
simplest way: file a petition for alien fiance(e) (I-129F), both must complete forms 325 biographic and us citizen must also file affidavit of support, she will be summoned to embassy/consulate for interview and must have her paperwork (325 bio, medical forms, police clearance, passport, etc), if OK, she will be issued K-1 visa for 90 days in which time she must marry us citizen; then us spouse must file for adjustment of status (I-485) which gives alien spouse conditional residency, after 2 years, must file for removal of conditionality, which allows perm residence status. after 3 years as perm resident, may apply for citizenship based on marriage
u have to marry her. are u ready to settle down yet?? that's the one way.
another is she can look for an employer that willing to sponsor her work visa which is hard to find and not very common.How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
Marriage. You file the following forms and it will take about 6 months for her to get the proper visa to come here and get married to you..... I-129F, I-134 and G-325A http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
simplest way: file a petition for alien fiance(e) (I-129F), both must complete forms 325 biographic and us citizen must also file affidavit of support, she will be summoned to embassy/consulate for interview and must have her paperwork (325 bio, medical forms, police clearance, passport, etc), if OK, she will be issued K-1 visa for 90 days in which time she must marry us citizen; then us spouse must file for adjustment of status (I-485) which gives alien spouse conditional residency, after 2 years, must file for removal of conditionality, which allows perm residence status. after 3 years as perm resident, may apply for citizenship based on marriage
How to Get Her to be My Girlfriend + plus Love Problems?
Well the whole story plays out like this....brace yourself its long ...
here's the details
Shes 17 I'm 16
Shes 2nd year college I'm going into first
She lived in the Philippines her whole life, me only 3 months
We have known each other for almost 3 weeks now
Were both Filipino citizens
Now the story
My cousin invites me to church to teach small children, yeah weird right haha, but then i meet the most amazing girl in the world, she gets my jokes she looks wonderful when she smiles shes not too excited or too boring and shes smart and mature, shes beautiful in every direction i see her, and she makes me smile every time i look in her eyes.
The church thing lasts a week and everyday i was there we got closer, from similar talks, to our legs touching when we sit really close to each other.
Eventually we had ....that talk.... we sat out side the church and she said she couldn't be with me because she has a boyfriend....but, her boyfriends a dick he smoke drinks and cheats the whole shabang, but i convinced her that she should leave him for me and for herself because she deserves way more than him
....so everything's all right now, right, wrong....
First of all, i have to go back to the states (I'm Filipino but lived in the sates for a good part of my life) for my permanent residence-ship, so she gets the news and becomes sad and pissed, so she decides that she'll try to wait for me to get back, which i will, and i told her id contact her everyday no matter what. After that storm passes our relationship i get increasingly curious o\about whats our status.
So now after awhile i asked her....what are we.... then she hit me with her answer, were still not going out....we hold hands, kiss on the cheeks, hug, all that but were still not going out?!?!?!
So i asked her why not, and she said that she doesn't want to rush things.. i mean she left her shitty boyfriend for me (which by the way, has a really stalker-ish personality and texts her ****** up **** that really makes me mad and if you have any idea how to get him off of us then please say so, thanks.) and i know its hard to have me go to the states, and i know I've only know her for a short time, but i really do like her and she likes me so is it so wrong to want to be together as a boyfriend and girlfriend i mean its only a title but then what are we really if not together, just to friends who are romantic? friends with benefits? or just friends? i mean what should i do, does she not want to get hurt if i cant comeback?
she said something about age, thinking I'm too young to know love but I've proven myself time and again on that. why does she want to wait, wait for what????,....am i just being too impatient, i don't even like her anymore, i love her. but i cant tell her that yet because I'm scared for our relationship, what if she takes it as too much pressure and breaks it off i don't want that.
In the end our we have a lot of problems i need help with our relationship is really great but i guess you could say i want more and i don't want to ruin it, by, wanting more.
So any help you give is help ill take thank you.How to Get Her to be My Girlfriend + plus Love Problems?
I know your situation. I was in a similar one before. If you really want this girl, text her all the time. Even if it is just to say hi or how are you. Show her how much you care for her. be with her and just hold her and tell her how much you care for her. She will like that. Then one day take her somewhere really special to her and give her something like a rose or w.e and ask her to go steady.How to Get Her to be My Girlfriend + plus Love Problems?
Don't just tell her that you love her; SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. Maybe she just wanted to make sure that you are serious and that you truly love her.
Here are some tips:
- You can write a letter for her. Write down everything you want to to tell her if you find it hard to talk to her. That way, she can keep it and she will always remember it even when you're far away.
- Serenade her. It might sound very, very corny but it is the most romantic thing you can do for a girl. Trust me, she'll love you even more.
- Give her something very special. If you want to give her flowers, make sure you don't give her roses. She deserves something more special and unique than that. Someone said this,';I HATE roses.I just really don't ';prefer'; getting them cause they feel too usual and common. They're like the default setting for giving/getting flowers.';
Good luck!!
Tell me what you did and what happened. :)
here's the details
Shes 17 I'm 16
Shes 2nd year college I'm going into first
She lived in the Philippines her whole life, me only 3 months
We have known each other for almost 3 weeks now
Were both Filipino citizens
Now the story
My cousin invites me to church to teach small children, yeah weird right haha, but then i meet the most amazing girl in the world, she gets my jokes she looks wonderful when she smiles shes not too excited or too boring and shes smart and mature, shes beautiful in every direction i see her, and she makes me smile every time i look in her eyes.
The church thing lasts a week and everyday i was there we got closer, from similar talks, to our legs touching when we sit really close to each other.
Eventually we had ....that talk.... we sat out side the church and she said she couldn't be with me because she has a boyfriend....but, her boyfriends a dick he smoke drinks and cheats the whole shabang, but i convinced her that she should leave him for me and for herself because she deserves way more than him
....so everything's all right now, right, wrong....
First of all, i have to go back to the states (I'm Filipino but lived in the sates for a good part of my life) for my permanent residence-ship, so she gets the news and becomes sad and pissed, so she decides that she'll try to wait for me to get back, which i will, and i told her id contact her everyday no matter what. After that storm passes our relationship i get increasingly curious o\about whats our status.
So now after awhile i asked her....what are we.... then she hit me with her answer, were still not going out....we hold hands, kiss on the cheeks, hug, all that but were still not going out?!?!?!
So i asked her why not, and she said that she doesn't want to rush things.. i mean she left her shitty boyfriend for me (which by the way, has a really stalker-ish personality and texts her ****** up **** that really makes me mad and if you have any idea how to get him off of us then please say so, thanks.) and i know its hard to have me go to the states, and i know I've only know her for a short time, but i really do like her and she likes me so is it so wrong to want to be together as a boyfriend and girlfriend i mean its only a title but then what are we really if not together, just to friends who are romantic? friends with benefits? or just friends? i mean what should i do, does she not want to get hurt if i cant comeback?
she said something about age, thinking I'm too young to know love but I've proven myself time and again on that. why does she want to wait, wait for what????,....am i just being too impatient, i don't even like her anymore, i love her. but i cant tell her that yet because I'm scared for our relationship, what if she takes it as too much pressure and breaks it off i don't want that.
In the end our we have a lot of problems i need help with our relationship is really great but i guess you could say i want more and i don't want to ruin it, by, wanting more.
So any help you give is help ill take thank you.How to Get Her to be My Girlfriend + plus Love Problems?
I know your situation. I was in a similar one before. If you really want this girl, text her all the time. Even if it is just to say hi or how are you. Show her how much you care for her. be with her and just hold her and tell her how much you care for her. She will like that. Then one day take her somewhere really special to her and give her something like a rose or w.e and ask her to go steady.How to Get Her to be My Girlfriend + plus Love Problems?
Don't just tell her that you love her; SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. Maybe she just wanted to make sure that you are serious and that you truly love her.
Here are some tips:
- You can write a letter for her. Write down everything you want to to tell her if you find it hard to talk to her. That way, she can keep it and she will always remember it even when you're far away.
- Serenade her. It might sound very, very corny but it is the most romantic thing you can do for a girl. Trust me, she'll love you even more.
- Give her something very special. If you want to give her flowers, make sure you don't give her roses. She deserves something more special and unique than that. Someone said this,';I HATE roses.I just really don't ';prefer'; getting them cause they feel too usual and common. They're like the default setting for giving/getting flowers.';
Good luck!!
Tell me what you did and what happened. :)
Is he Playing Hard to Get With me?
Okay so This guy and i have been talking every single day for like 4 Months straight. We Text All the time and E-mail all The time. Always asking how each other how we are doing or telling funny stories of what happened today or something. Anyways we have gotten to the the point of hanging out and we've hung out only 2 times so far. ANYWAYS Recently a friend got right up in my business and Went to him and asked Him if he liked me or not. He said i was a ';cool Girl';. I texted him afterwards freaking out and said ';Omg what did she say?'; ....No Reply. I waited for the next day and texted. ';Hey whats up?';.....No reply.....I waited like 4 hours later and texted ';Hey what are you up too?';..... No reply. I feel like to him it looks like i had her go up to him...and I DIDNT!!! Therefore now i look immature and stupid. Is he mad at me? Did my 'friend' **** everything up between us? Or is he just playing hard to get with me?Is he Playing Hard to Get With me?
yaIs he Playing Hard to Get With me?
Guys NEVER do that. It's strictly a girl thing.
That only leaves one option.
Sounds to me like your friend scared him away... but that's just a guess... try calling him, if he doesn't answer then he's not interested
i'm a girl so i don't know for sure... but it does sound like your friend stuffed things up. :/
you sound desperate
yeah your friend ****** it all up im so sorry:( the same thing just did happen to me i know what it fells like it just shows how my friends are its just crazy
hope you get over it but i know i sure wont get over the girl i had
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;We Text All the time and E-mail all The time.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
So you're his email *****, right?
Surely he has other women for other purposes as well.
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No Reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
Are you sure he isn't banging your friend instead?
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;Did my 'friend' **** everything up between us? %26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
No, of course not. There was nothing between you two. Well, just a couple of computers, but that's all.
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;is he just playing hard to get with me?%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
Nah, he's just afraid of women. Don't worry, it's more common nowadays than you think.
yaIs he Playing Hard to Get With me?
Guys NEVER do that. It's strictly a girl thing.
That only leaves one option.
Sounds to me like your friend scared him away... but that's just a guess... try calling him, if he doesn't answer then he's not interested
i'm a girl so i don't know for sure... but it does sound like your friend stuffed things up. :/
you sound desperate
yeah your friend ****** it all up im so sorry:( the same thing just did happen to me i know what it fells like it just shows how my friends are its just crazy
hope you get over it but i know i sure wont get over the girl i had
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;We Text All the time and E-mail all The time.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
So you're his email *****, right?
Surely he has other women for other purposes as well.
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No Reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;....No reply.%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
Are you sure he isn't banging your friend instead?
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;Did my 'friend' **** everything up between us? %26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
No, of course not. There was nothing between you two. Well, just a couple of computers, but that's all.
%26lt;QUOTE%26gt;is he just playing hard to get with me?%26lt;/QUOTE%26gt;
Nah, he's just afraid of women. Don't worry, it's more common nowadays than you think.
Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
ok, i am 11 and i am 5'2 and i am 100pounds and i ama girl. this is my (food) schedule:
breakfast: i have nothing for breakfast, and if i do, its about 5 strawberries. but i usualy have nothing.
lunch: i have nothing, exept for SOME tuesdays and thursday i get hot lunch from school. but i sometimes just give my hot lunch to my freinds.
dinner/supper: this is the only time of day that i actually eat a full meal, i have a peice of meat about the size of my palm, about one cup of vegtiables (somtimes its corn somtimes green beans, brocli, ect.) and usually i get aabout 2 cups of rice or mashed potatoes.
snack: all i will have after supper/dinner is a orange before bed.
thats all i have in a day. do you think i eat a good amount? or should i eat more or less, i always think i am fat, but other people think i am not. but i disagree with them..........
can you give me some good lunch ideas to bring to school for my lunch? cuz everyone is starting to wonder y i never eat and they think ia have a eating disrder (the one were you think your fat but your not and you eat like nothing) and we ARE alowed microwavable lunches.
what are some things i should eat for breakfast? i love cereal, but i dont like it with milk, so i just put like cinnamon toast crunch in a bag with no ,ilk and eat it like that. cuz the cereal puts a weird taste to the milk so i just dont drink it then my parents get mad cuz i am wasting. but my mom gets mad at me when i put cereal in a bag, because she says thats not what its ment for. so any ideas?????do you think i am overweight or underweight? not depending on how much i eat but how much i weigh (100 lbs)
plz help!!! and thx in advance.Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
not really. u are a growing girl and eating like thats not very healthy i would reccomend eating more even if ur not hungry eat somethin small hope i helped:)Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
Your diet sounds very similar to the one I ate when I was a teenager. I skipped breakfast and lunch. But I also felt tired all the time, felt very weak, and almost fainted a few times in school. You need to eat more as your body is running on empty. Start with a good breakfast, get some cereal at least (feel free to eat it anyway you want, there are no rules!), and make sure you eat lunch. Otherwise you are hurting your body and your concentration and energy levels will be very low. You are certainly not fat based on what you have said! You are in fact underweight, with a BMI (body mass index) of 18.3. It should be between 20-25 so you need to put on some weight or you may experience problems. Eating breakfast and lunch should help.
breakfast: i have nothing for breakfast, and if i do, its about 5 strawberries. but i usualy have nothing.
lunch: i have nothing, exept for SOME tuesdays and thursday i get hot lunch from school. but i sometimes just give my hot lunch to my freinds.
dinner/supper: this is the only time of day that i actually eat a full meal, i have a peice of meat about the size of my palm, about one cup of vegtiables (somtimes its corn somtimes green beans, brocli, ect.) and usually i get aabout 2 cups of rice or mashed potatoes.
snack: all i will have after supper/dinner is a orange before bed.
thats all i have in a day. do you think i eat a good amount? or should i eat more or less, i always think i am fat, but other people think i am not. but i disagree with them..........
can you give me some good lunch ideas to bring to school for my lunch? cuz everyone is starting to wonder y i never eat and they think ia have a eating disrder (the one were you think your fat but your not and you eat like nothing) and we ARE alowed microwavable lunches.
what are some things i should eat for breakfast? i love cereal, but i dont like it with milk, so i just put like cinnamon toast crunch in a bag with no ,ilk and eat it like that. cuz the cereal puts a weird taste to the milk so i just dont drink it then my parents get mad cuz i am wasting. but my mom gets mad at me when i put cereal in a bag, because she says thats not what its ment for. so any ideas?????do you think i am overweight or underweight? not depending on how much i eat but how much i weigh (100 lbs)
plz help!!! and thx in advance.Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
not really. u are a growing girl and eating like thats not very healthy i would reccomend eating more even if ur not hungry eat somethin small hope i helped:)Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
Your diet sounds very similar to the one I ate when I was a teenager. I skipped breakfast and lunch. But I also felt tired all the time, felt very weak, and almost fainted a few times in school. You need to eat more as your body is running on empty. Start with a good breakfast, get some cereal at least (feel free to eat it anyway you want, there are no rules!), and make sure you eat lunch. Otherwise you are hurting your body and your concentration and energy levels will be very low. You are certainly not fat based on what you have said! You are in fact underweight, with a BMI (body mass index) of 18.3. It should be between 20-25 so you need to put on some weight or you may experience problems. Eating breakfast and lunch should help.
DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
Name all blood tests for infecion, bacteria, viruses,parasites,molds,yeast etc plus other tests for these.? I HAVE MULTIPLE INFECTIONS WOT DO I DO THEY ARE RECURRENT ONES AS WELL AS NEW ONES. DOCTOR NEVER GAVE ME ANTIBIOTICS, SHOULD I GET A DRIP TO CLEAR OUT ALL THE INFECTIONS OR WOULD THAT TAKE OUT THE GOOD ONES OUT TOO? IM A NUN TYPE SO THAT MEANS NOT THE VULGAR INFECTIONS DONT SO NAME VULGAR VACINES.I HAVE EXCELLENT HYGEINE. APART FROM TETNUS WOT OTHER VACINES
1.i have severe impaction for 10 months now but the doctor wont do anything, its constpation with tiny amount olny coming out followed by diaria plus for my sinus infection he didnt give me anything .so give me home remedies for spots on my scalp that i have since 4 years now that wont go and come back i did use a kentozale shampoo not given by the gp but from the pharmacy, plus for my sinus infection my impaction,i do have a high wcc count since 4 years but will the dr do anything NO plus i do have some undiagnosed illness which the doctor wont do anything about wot are these doctors for then y dont ppl do anything about these doctors y r they getting money then .money or not they are supposed to do their work. ihave acromegaly symtoms, premature early aging symtoms im 20 a girl.
2. wot other illneses are/have similar (symtoms ) to acromegaly /giantism?
3.name all the heretedory, genes,dna,rna,genetic tests for dieases,illneseS TESTS
ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… 12345
4.Is the bone scan the same as the skeleton scan?
5.CLINICAL AND BIOCHEMICAL CORRELATION IS RECOMMENDED WOT DOES THIS MEAN?
6,IM NOT OVERWEIGHT BUT HOW DO U GET RID OF A DOUBLE CHIN (NOT REDUCE IT BUT GET RID OF IT COMPLETLY PERMENTLY )WITHOUT SURGERY I DID MANY EXCERCIES OF THE CHIN.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
1. When you feel a sinus infection or cold or whatever coming on, take sudafed. It dries up the mucous membranes and stops your nose from draining down teh back of your throat while you sleep, making you sick. Also, up your fiber intake. Eat at least one meal a day of only cereal, as much as you want but only that.
There's too many tests... So many it makes my head spin.
2. Marfans is one.
3. Holy CoW... too many again!
4. Bone scan is for a small region and skeletal is the whole skeletal system.
5. Where did you see this? It means that they need to compare notes from tests done and what they physically can see.
6. Watch what you eat. Cut back on sugars and sodas. Run or swim daily. This will all help.
Anyway... hope that this has helped a little.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
You've posted this question, or ones like it, multiple times.
I'm not going to list all tests for all diseases. There are 100s and even doctors don't try to memorize them. Here's a link to some info :www.labtestsonline.org.
A bone scan is the same as a skeleton scan.
As for #5, it means that the results of the test may or may not mean something, depending on the your situation.
It sounds like you might have irritable bowel syndrome, a hard to treat condition.
Most sinus infections are viral, so there's not much to do.
Honestly, it sounds like you've also got some anxiety. You ought to find someone to help you with it.
First, calm down.
I know how difficult it is to deal with mystery illnesses, but you have to be realistic. 2 things are well known to cause immunological problems:
1. Stress
2. Antibiotics
Both of those are well established, so keep it in mind. Getting sleep is very important, as well as keeping your mind at ease (as much as possible). Also keep in mind that over-treating with antibiotics can destroy your intestinal flora, which serve to keep your immune system balanced and constantly stimulate it correctly so it only responds to real infectious diseases. This is real. In fact, I'm pretty sure a long stint of antibiotics can cause major problems based on observation.
But please calm down. Suffice it to say I might understand your distress, but there are so many possibilities -- autoimmune malfunctions, etc., that nobody here would be able to explain better than a doctor. Unfortunately, doctors either don't know, or only pretend they know oftentimes.
Hope some of this helps.
Search Results (Find AAEM Member)
COUNTRY: UNITED KINGDOM
MEMBER TYPE: MD / DO
Listed by city, sorted alphabetically.
Monro, Jean A., MB BSLRCPMRCS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011(44) 144-2261333
Website: www.breakspearmedical.com
Member Since: Feb. 10, 1986
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivies, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2008 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Clinical Immunology
Dermatology
Environmental Medicine
Immuno-Metabolic Disorders
Internal Medicine
Nutritional Medicine
Otolaryngology
Pediatrics
Preventive Medicine
Toxicology
Certifications
Environmental Medicine
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Serial Endpoint Titration
Sublingual P/N
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Dietary Elimination
Dietary Rotary Diversified
Immunologic RASTIGE
the names I posted draw from this USA drs group who have been around and treating immune
maladaptaion syndromes since 1965,if they accept payment form UKs NHS,you'll be ducky,
if not,it would be unfortunate,which is always the case in the US,as the AAEM are as picky and independant as housecats,they do meticulous work,the best in the profession,but require payment upfront ,and refuse to deal with insurance companies,or the nationa; medical aid programmes.
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Optimal Dose
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…
Yeoh, Christabelle , MB BS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011 44 1442 26
Member Since: Dec. 5, 2006
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivities, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2009 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Environmental Medicine
MRCP, MSC
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Immunologic RASTIGE
Immunologic RASTIGG
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Food Sublingual
Food Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…how do ex smokers deal with
1.i have severe impaction for 10 months now but the doctor wont do anything, its constpation with tiny amount olny coming out followed by diaria plus for my sinus infection he didnt give me anything .so give me home remedies for spots on my scalp that i have since 4 years now that wont go and come back i did use a kentozale shampoo not given by the gp but from the pharmacy, plus for my sinus infection my impaction,i do have a high wcc count since 4 years but will the dr do anything NO plus i do have some undiagnosed illness which the doctor wont do anything about wot are these doctors for then y dont ppl do anything about these doctors y r they getting money then .money or not they are supposed to do their work. ihave acromegaly symtoms, premature early aging symtoms im 20 a girl.
2. wot other illneses are/have similar (symtoms ) to acromegaly /giantism?
3.name all the heretedory, genes,dna,rna,genetic tests for dieases,illneseS TESTS
ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… 12345
4.Is the bone scan the same as the skeleton scan?
5.CLINICAL AND BIOCHEMICAL CORRELATION IS RECOMMENDED WOT DOES THIS MEAN?
6,IM NOT OVERWEIGHT BUT HOW DO U GET RID OF A DOUBLE CHIN (NOT REDUCE IT BUT GET RID OF IT COMPLETLY PERMENTLY )WITHOUT SURGERY I DID MANY EXCERCIES OF THE CHIN.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
1. When you feel a sinus infection or cold or whatever coming on, take sudafed. It dries up the mucous membranes and stops your nose from draining down teh back of your throat while you sleep, making you sick. Also, up your fiber intake. Eat at least one meal a day of only cereal, as much as you want but only that.
There's too many tests... So many it makes my head spin.
2. Marfans is one.
3. Holy CoW... too many again!
4. Bone scan is for a small region and skeletal is the whole skeletal system.
5. Where did you see this? It means that they need to compare notes from tests done and what they physically can see.
6. Watch what you eat. Cut back on sugars and sodas. Run or swim daily. This will all help.
Anyway... hope that this has helped a little.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
You've posted this question, or ones like it, multiple times.
I'm not going to list all tests for all diseases. There are 100s and even doctors don't try to memorize them. Here's a link to some info :www.labtestsonline.org.
A bone scan is the same as a skeleton scan.
As for #5, it means that the results of the test may or may not mean something, depending on the your situation.
It sounds like you might have irritable bowel syndrome, a hard to treat condition.
Most sinus infections are viral, so there's not much to do.
Honestly, it sounds like you've also got some anxiety. You ought to find someone to help you with it.
First, calm down.
I know how difficult it is to deal with mystery illnesses, but you have to be realistic. 2 things are well known to cause immunological problems:
1. Stress
2. Antibiotics
Both of those are well established, so keep it in mind. Getting sleep is very important, as well as keeping your mind at ease (as much as possible). Also keep in mind that over-treating with antibiotics can destroy your intestinal flora, which serve to keep your immune system balanced and constantly stimulate it correctly so it only responds to real infectious diseases. This is real. In fact, I'm pretty sure a long stint of antibiotics can cause major problems based on observation.
But please calm down. Suffice it to say I might understand your distress, but there are so many possibilities -- autoimmune malfunctions, etc., that nobody here would be able to explain better than a doctor. Unfortunately, doctors either don't know, or only pretend they know oftentimes.
Hope some of this helps.
Search Results (Find AAEM Member)
COUNTRY: UNITED KINGDOM
MEMBER TYPE: MD / DO
Listed by city, sorted alphabetically.
Monro, Jean A., MB BSLRCPMRCS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011(44) 144-2261333
Website: www.breakspearmedical.com
Member Since: Feb. 10, 1986
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivies, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2008 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Clinical Immunology
Dermatology
Environmental Medicine
Immuno-Metabolic Disorders
Internal Medicine
Nutritional Medicine
Otolaryngology
Pediatrics
Preventive Medicine
Toxicology
Certifications
Environmental Medicine
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Serial Endpoint Titration
Sublingual P/N
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Dietary Elimination
Dietary Rotary Diversified
Immunologic RASTIGE
the names I posted draw from this USA drs group who have been around and treating immune
maladaptaion syndromes since 1965,if they accept payment form UKs NHS,you'll be ducky,
if not,it would be unfortunate,which is always the case in the US,as the AAEM are as picky and independant as housecats,they do meticulous work,the best in the profession,but require payment upfront ,and refuse to deal with insurance companies,or the nationa; medical aid programmes.
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Optimal Dose
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…
Yeoh, Christabelle , MB BS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011 44 1442 26
Member Since: Dec. 5, 2006
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivities, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2009 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Environmental Medicine
MRCP, MSC
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Immunologic RASTIGE
Immunologic RASTIGG
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Food Sublingual
Food Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…
How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
I got a girlfriend from Australia and want her to come live with me here in the U.S., I know I can sponsor her but, whats the proper way to do it ?How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
u have to marry her. are u ready to settle down yet?? that's the one way.
another is she can look for an employer that willing to sponsor her work visa which is hard to find and not very common.How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
Marriage. You file the following forms and it will take about 6 months for her to get the proper visa to come here and get married to you..... I-129F, I-134 and G-325A http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
simplest way: file a petition for alien fiance(e) (I-129F), both must complete forms 325 biographic and us citizen must also file affidavit of support, she will be summoned to embassy/consulate for interview and must have her paperwork (325 bio, medical forms, police clearance, passport, etc), if OK, she will be issued K-1 visa for 90 days in which time she must marry us citizen; then us spouse must file for adjustment of status (I-485) which gives alien spouse conditional residency, after 2 years, must file for removal of conditionality, which allows perm residence status. after 3 years as perm resident, may apply for citizenship based on marriage
u have to marry her. are u ready to settle down yet?? that's the one way.
another is she can look for an employer that willing to sponsor her work visa which is hard to find and not very common.How can I make my girl a U.S. citizen ?
Marriage. You file the following forms and it will take about 6 months for her to get the proper visa to come here and get married to you..... I-129F, I-134 and G-325A http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
simplest way: file a petition for alien fiance(e) (I-129F), both must complete forms 325 biographic and us citizen must also file affidavit of support, she will be summoned to embassy/consulate for interview and must have her paperwork (325 bio, medical forms, police clearance, passport, etc), if OK, she will be issued K-1 visa for 90 days in which time she must marry us citizen; then us spouse must file for adjustment of status (I-485) which gives alien spouse conditional residency, after 2 years, must file for removal of conditionality, which allows perm residence status. after 3 years as perm resident, may apply for citizenship based on marriage
DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
Name all blood tests for infecion, bacteria, viruses,parasites,molds,yeast etc plus other tests for these.? I HAVE MULTIPLE INFECTIONS WOT DO I DO THEY ARE RECURRENT ONES AS WELL AS NEW ONES. DOCTOR NEVER GAVE ME ANTIBIOTICS, SHOULD I GET A DRIP TO CLEAR OUT ALL THE INFECTIONS OR WOULD THAT TAKE OUT THE GOOD ONES OUT TOO? IM A NUN TYPE SO THAT MEANS NOT THE VULGAR INFECTIONS DONT SO NAME VULGAR VACINES.I HAVE EXCELLENT HYGEINE. APART FROM TETNUS WOT OTHER VACINES
1.i have severe impaction for 10 months now but the doctor wont do anything, its constpation with tiny amount olny coming out followed by diaria plus for my sinus infection he didnt give me anything .so give me home remedies for spots on my scalp that i have since 4 years now that wont go and come back i did use a kentozale shampoo not given by the gp but from the pharmacy, plus for my sinus infection my impaction,i do have a high wcc count since 4 years but will the dr do anything NO plus i do have some undiagnosed illness which the doctor wont do anything about wot are these doctors for then y dont ppl do anything about these doctors y r they getting money then .money or not they are supposed to do their work. ihave acromegaly symtoms, premature early aging symtoms im 20 a girl.
2. wot other illneses are/have similar (symtoms ) to acromegaly /giantism?
3.name all the heretedory, genes,dna,rna,genetic tests for dieases,illneseS TESTS
ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… 12345
4.Is the bone scan the same as the skeleton scan?
5.CLINICAL AND BIOCHEMICAL CORRELATION IS RECOMMENDED WOT DOES THIS MEAN?
6,IM NOT OVERWEIGHT BUT HOW DO U GET RID OF A DOUBLE CHIN (NOT REDUCE IT BUT GET RID OF IT COMPLETLY PERMENTLY )WITHOUT SURGERY I DID MANY EXCERCIES OF THE CHIN.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
1. When you feel a sinus infection or cold or whatever coming on, take sudafed. It dries up the mucous membranes and stops your nose from draining down teh back of your throat while you sleep, making you sick. Also, up your fiber intake. Eat at least one meal a day of only cereal, as much as you want but only that.
There's too many tests... So many it makes my head spin.
2. Marfans is one.
3. Holy CoW... too many again!
4. Bone scan is for a small region and skeletal is the whole skeletal system.
5. Where did you see this? It means that they need to compare notes from tests done and what they physically can see.
6. Watch what you eat. Cut back on sugars and sodas. Run or swim daily. This will all help.
Anyway... hope that this has helped a little.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
You've posted this question, or ones like it, multiple times.
I'm not going to list all tests for all diseases. There are 100s and even doctors don't try to memorize them. Here's a link to some info :www.labtestsonline.org.
A bone scan is the same as a skeleton scan.
As for #5, it means that the results of the test may or may not mean something, depending on the your situation.
It sounds like you might have irritable bowel syndrome, a hard to treat condition.
Most sinus infections are viral, so there's not much to do.
Honestly, it sounds like you've also got some anxiety. You ought to find someone to help you with it.
First, calm down.
I know how difficult it is to deal with mystery illnesses, but you have to be realistic. 2 things are well known to cause immunological problems:
1. Stress
2. Antibiotics
Both of those are well established, so keep it in mind. Getting sleep is very important, as well as keeping your mind at ease (as much as possible). Also keep in mind that over-treating with antibiotics can destroy your intestinal flora, which serve to keep your immune system balanced and constantly stimulate it correctly so it only responds to real infectious diseases. This is real. In fact, I'm pretty sure a long stint of antibiotics can cause major problems based on observation.
But please calm down. Suffice it to say I might understand your distress, but there are so many possibilities -- autoimmune malfunctions, etc., that nobody here would be able to explain better than a doctor. Unfortunately, doctors either don't know, or only pretend they know oftentimes.
Hope some of this helps.
Search Results (Find AAEM Member)
COUNTRY: UNITED KINGDOM
MEMBER TYPE: MD / DO
Listed by city, sorted alphabetically.
Monro, Jean A., MB BSLRCPMRCS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011(44) 144-2261333
Website: www.breakspearmedical.com
Member Since: Feb. 10, 1986
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivies, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2008 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Clinical Immunology
Dermatology
Environmental Medicine
Immuno-Metabolic Disorders
Internal Medicine
Nutritional Medicine
Otolaryngology
Pediatrics
Preventive Medicine
Toxicology
Certifications
Environmental Medicine
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Serial Endpoint Titration
Sublingual P/N
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Dietary Elimination
Dietary Rotary Diversified
Immunologic RASTIGE
the names I posted draw from this USA drs group who have been around and treating immune
maladaptaion syndromes since 1965,if they accept payment form UKs NHS,you'll be ducky,
if not,it would be unfortunate,which is always the case in the US,as the AAEM are as picky and independant as housecats,they do meticulous work,the best in the profession,but require payment upfront ,and refuse to deal with insurance companies,or the nationa; medical aid programmes.
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Optimal Dose
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…
Yeoh, Christabelle , MB BS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011 44 1442 26
Member Since: Dec. 5, 2006
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivities, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2009 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Environmental Medicine
MRCP, MSC
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Immunologic RASTIGE
Immunologic RASTIGG
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Food Sublingual
Food Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
--------------------------------------…
1.i have severe impaction for 10 months now but the doctor wont do anything, its constpation with tiny amount olny coming out followed by diaria plus for my sinus infection he didnt give me anything .so give me home remedies for spots on my scalp that i have since 4 years now that wont go and come back i did use a kentozale shampoo not given by the gp but from the pharmacy, plus for my sinus infection my impaction,i do have a high wcc count since 4 years but will the dr do anything NO plus i do have some undiagnosed illness which the doctor wont do anything about wot are these doctors for then y dont ppl do anything about these doctors y r they getting money then .money or not they are supposed to do their work. ihave acromegaly symtoms, premature early aging symtoms im 20 a girl.
2. wot other illneses are/have similar (symtoms ) to acromegaly /giantism?
3.name all the heretedory, genes,dna,rna,genetic tests for dieases,illneseS TESTS
ANSWER ALL QUESTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!… 12345
4.Is the bone scan the same as the skeleton scan?
5.CLINICAL AND BIOCHEMICAL CORRELATION IS RECOMMENDED WOT DOES THIS MEAN?
6,IM NOT OVERWEIGHT BUT HOW DO U GET RID OF A DOUBLE CHIN (NOT REDUCE IT BUT GET RID OF IT COMPLETLY PERMENTLY )WITHOUT SURGERY I DID MANY EXCERCIES OF THE CHIN.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
1. When you feel a sinus infection or cold or whatever coming on, take sudafed. It dries up the mucous membranes and stops your nose from draining down teh back of your throat while you sleep, making you sick. Also, up your fiber intake. Eat at least one meal a day of only cereal, as much as you want but only that.
There's too many tests... So many it makes my head spin.
2. Marfans is one.
3. Holy CoW... too many again!
4. Bone scan is for a small region and skeletal is the whole skeletal system.
5. Where did you see this? It means that they need to compare notes from tests done and what they physically can see.
6. Watch what you eat. Cut back on sugars and sodas. Run or swim daily. This will all help.
Anyway... hope that this has helped a little.DO I NEED IMMUNOIGIST/INFECTIOUS DIEASE DR OR WOT? HAVE A VERY WEAK IMMUNE SYSTEM,WHAT VACINES HELP TO GET RID?
You've posted this question, or ones like it, multiple times.
I'm not going to list all tests for all diseases. There are 100s and even doctors don't try to memorize them. Here's a link to some info :www.labtestsonline.org.
A bone scan is the same as a skeleton scan.
As for #5, it means that the results of the test may or may not mean something, depending on the your situation.
It sounds like you might have irritable bowel syndrome, a hard to treat condition.
Most sinus infections are viral, so there's not much to do.
Honestly, it sounds like you've also got some anxiety. You ought to find someone to help you with it.
First, calm down.
I know how difficult it is to deal with mystery illnesses, but you have to be realistic. 2 things are well known to cause immunological problems:
1. Stress
2. Antibiotics
Both of those are well established, so keep it in mind. Getting sleep is very important, as well as keeping your mind at ease (as much as possible). Also keep in mind that over-treating with antibiotics can destroy your intestinal flora, which serve to keep your immune system balanced and constantly stimulate it correctly so it only responds to real infectious diseases. This is real. In fact, I'm pretty sure a long stint of antibiotics can cause major problems based on observation.
But please calm down. Suffice it to say I might understand your distress, but there are so many possibilities -- autoimmune malfunctions, etc., that nobody here would be able to explain better than a doctor. Unfortunately, doctors either don't know, or only pretend they know oftentimes.
Hope some of this helps.
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COUNTRY: UNITED KINGDOM
MEMBER TYPE: MD / DO
Listed by city, sorted alphabetically.
Monro, Jean A., MB BSLRCPMRCS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011(44) 144-2261333
Website: www.breakspearmedical.com
Member Since: Feb. 10, 1986
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivies, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2008 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Clinical Immunology
Dermatology
Environmental Medicine
Immuno-Metabolic Disorders
Internal Medicine
Nutritional Medicine
Otolaryngology
Pediatrics
Preventive Medicine
Toxicology
Certifications
Environmental Medicine
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Serial Endpoint Titration
Sublingual P/N
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Dietary Elimination
Dietary Rotary Diversified
Immunologic RASTIGE
the names I posted draw from this USA drs group who have been around and treating immune
maladaptaion syndromes since 1965,if they accept payment form UKs NHS,you'll be ducky,
if not,it would be unfortunate,which is always the case in the US,as the AAEM are as picky and independant as housecats,they do meticulous work,the best in the profession,but require payment upfront ,and refuse to deal with insurance companies,or the nationa; medical aid programmes.
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Optimal Dose
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
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Yeoh, Christabelle , MB BS (Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD)
Breakspear Hospital
Hertfordshire House
Wood Lane, Paradise Estate
Hemel Hempstead, Herts HP2 4FD, Other
United Kingdom
Phone: 011 44 1442 26
Member Since: Dec. 5, 2006
Coursework Completed: Inhalant Allergies, Food Sensitivities, Chemical Sensitivities, Nutrition/Endocrinology
Last Meeting Attended: Oct 2009 Annual Meeting
Practice Emphasis
Allergy
Chelation
Environmental Medicine
MRCP, MSC
Diagnostic Techniques
Ecological Oriented History
Intradermal P/N
Preservative-free Antigens
Immunologic RASTIGE
Immunologic RASTIGG
Treatment Techniques
Inhalant Neutralization
Inhalant Sublingual
Inhalant Subcutaneous
Food Sublingual
Food Subcutaneous
Avoidance
Chemical Sublingual
Chemical Subcutaneous
Preservative-free Antigen Therapy
Rotary Diversified Diet
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Do guys tend to respect a girl more if she doesn't put out or have sex as easy?
I've been talking to this guy in college for about 4 months. we hang out a lot and he shows interest in me, as i do him. , ive helped him through his hard family times, we get along really well. im there for him when he needs me etc. we are very attracted to each other and he watches out for me. the thing is we've done things in the past. ( not actual sexual intercourse) but he still makes the effort to talk to me, and spend time w/me. i mean we can sleep in a bed together naked and he doesn't start anything. he also mentioned before if he ever got me pregnant he would want to keep the baby because that's just how much he adores me. this is just random talk.
we aren't official yet but do you think he respects me because i haven't had sex so easily as other girls he's been with?Do guys tend to respect a girl more if she doesn't put out or have sex as easy?
Yes. He respects you, girls tend to think that guys will only b interested if they do it real easily, but that's not true, because girls like that, to guys are just play toys for a one night stand. If a guy really cares about a girl then he wont want to do it that easy cause then he feels like that girl has probably been around, when you wait that shows you respect yourself, which will make him respect you. Do guys tend to respect a girl more if she doesn't put out or have sex as easy?
yes
unless its love
Yeah that basically is the case to most men but not all.
It seems like it. I have never known a boy (not even my boyfriend) to not start something when were lying naked in a bed together. And if hes honest about the baby thing it seems like a good guy. I would play for keeps if I were you!
Yes, if your not like the girls that have sex for one night spend your money and leave.. you actually are real to him and he likes knowing that you really Care about him. I would most certainly give you my full respect!
I think you guys should take it easy. Guys like girls who respect themselves and who don't jump at every opportunity for ';sexual intercourse'; If he really adores you that much you should wait it out and he will probably respect you more and more as time goes by and eventually you might be his Mrs.
Yes, it DEFINITELY does produce respectful results. Keep holdin out ya know? It's human nature to get what we want fast and easy with no effort, but it makes humans TRULY happy when they have to put forth effort and work for the things they want because when they do get that thing, it's meaningful to them and that goes for men with sex.
yea...guys appreciate a little challenge
WOW!!! He said he would keepp a baby!!! What an IDIOT!!!!
ANYWAYS....
I went out with this chick who didn't put out to me for like two weeks but she was like 14 and im 17 so i felt like it was cool you knwo?
(But then I broke up with her..)
But if it were a chick my age and she wasnt doing any thing then i would be outa there. UNLESS She was HELLA bomb..
He is:
1) Too pussy to do anything and uses the ';Respect'; card to excuse his lameness.
2) A closet bible thumper
3) A closet homosexual
4) REALLY weird and ACTUALLY 'respects' you because you don't put out.
idk it depends on his personality but, if you dont have sex as easy for men its a challange to make you fall inlove with him and go to bed, wich when there is a hard girl, its a long lasting relation for the most part, maybe its respect, maybe its a challange, idk maybe its instinct, or love, but what i do know for sure you might be a challange for him. and if you like him a lot and want a long lasting relation try being hard, but not to hard to get, and for the time of sex let him seduce you, and the first 3 or 2 times dont do it even if he seduces you on the 3rd or 4th do it. remember dont be to hard. but dont be to easy either. so try to chalange him dont show you need him, but show you want him, shine your eyesso bright and blind to love you. remember what i sed
He respects you ALOT. Be very gifted you have a friend that isnt thinking of mainly getting inside you. Im 14, and havent acutally been in a sexually relationship (tbh ive only been in 2 relationships total) but i respect my best friend so much that if we did sleep together naked, i wouldnt start anything. Shes also very pretty
I know I once dated someone who was more in love with me than I was with her, she would have put out if I asked, but I felt like I was leading her on and something about the way she would let me get away with things made me not even give myself a chance to develop feelings for her, I also hated myself when I was with her because I felt like I was using her for sex, and I decided to end it before it got any worse. I know I broke her heart, and I still feel regret for even dating her. I guess what I'm trying to say is for someone like me, usually sweet as can be, the sex drive sometimes takes control and if a girl isn't willing to say no then I might do something I'll regret because I'll stop respecting her and just use her for sex.
For a while.
Once two people are adults it is perfectly okay for the woman to wait, however it doesn't say much if she doesn't. If he likes you, he likes you. Point Blank.
If you wait, and he just held out long enough to get his, the end result will still be heartbreak on your end, and he will probably have just been really annoyed.
The saving yourself game is played out, s e x is not dirty and should not be taboo.
I'm not saying get drunk girls gone wild style and sleep with every boy on the first date (however if thats your thing who is anyone to judge) yes, a guy will def look at you differently for waiting.
But the overly long waiting thing is frustrating for all parties involved.
How can i continue with this girl?
i was seeing a girl in my class.. we belonged to different departments but for one year we were put in the same class.. I used to make eye contacts with her often and i got good results and so i started talking to her now and then and sometimes teasing her.. then just a week or so before i asked for her number.. and from that day we smile at each other, wave hands, and talked more often.. but now the year is over and i feel very sad.. i dont know about her... but i think i am in love with her.. we have to go to our departments now.... but still i may see her around.... pls help me
how can i continue meeting and talking with her?? some tips.. thankssHow can i continue with this girl?
you cant be ';in love'; with her.. thats just not right lol
if you still have her number, randomly surprise her with a text or call.
%26amp; then, see how she is and stuff blah blah
then ask her to go out to eat? or what she likes doing..How can i continue with this girl?
just ask her out. i mean what harm can it do...
~Sincerly Gillian~
maybe exchange phone numbers? text messages? or email or something. but if you feel that way you shoudl tell her before its too late.
don't be such a chicken. Call her and ask her out to lunch or something. You will never know unless you be more assertive.
JUST ASK HER OUT
how can i continue meeting and talking with her?? some tips.. thankssHow can i continue with this girl?
you cant be ';in love'; with her.. thats just not right lol
if you still have her number, randomly surprise her with a text or call.
%26amp; then, see how she is and stuff blah blah
then ask her to go out to eat? or what she likes doing..How can i continue with this girl?
just ask her out. i mean what harm can it do...
~Sincerly Gillian~
maybe exchange phone numbers? text messages? or email or something. but if you feel that way you shoudl tell her before its too late.
don't be such a chicken. Call her and ask her out to lunch or something. You will never know unless you be more assertive.
JUST ASK HER OUT
Have you been to a male strip show?
Probably only for the girls lol.
I went recently and was quite shocked as to what was going on. Let's just say, I am sure there would be a lot of unhappy husbands and boyfriends out there if they knew how intimate their partners had been with the strippers.
And since when were strippers permitted to get erections during a show?!Have you been to a male strip show?
';Permitted'; to get an erection? This is something a man has little-to-no control over.Have you been to a male strip show?
I've videotaped a number of such shows for a variety of patrons, most of them being the business people who operate the shows. I've had some very well-known clients, but confidentiality issues prevent me from naming them.
In reality, most of them are absolutely silly. Guy prance around onstage trying to emulate experienced female strippers, starting with absolutely asinine costumes...cowboy outfits no real cowboy would be caught dead in, policeman's outfits that somehow simply fall apart as they gyrate, costumes that resemble a sultan's, or a pirate... The highlight of the evening is when the guys drop the last pretense at modesty and ';let it all hang out';. The women find the sight funny as hell, not stimulating - but by then, most of the gals have had more than a little to drink, and like men, will do outrageous things to impress their companions...and because they're drunk and trying to impress the other women, they're not often as gentle and careful as the guys would like - I have had to put my cameras away and drive guys to the hospital emergency room because a female patron was careless with her teeth. I leave the nature of the injury to your imagination - suffice it to say she didn't bite him on the a$s....
Um - as to your last question - being a guy myself, I can tell you without fear of contradiction that it's often quite difficult to get a hard on in front of a crowd of critical, drunken women! The guys who can manage that are the ones who go on near the end of the show. And the women usually laugh their behinds off at how silly the guy looks with that wobbly thing poking out in front of them. As a husband, I'd have no problem at all with my wife attending one of those shows - they're usually called ';all male reviews'; - with me or without me. But being that she's a businesswoman who represent her employer whenever she's out in public, whether she likes it or not, she won't go to one. Any jackass with a cell phone camera could destroy her career simply by snapping a pic or making a vid that happens to show her at such a place - the pic or vid gets seen by someone she works with, or the boss, and all of a sudden she's looking for a new job. Ain't gonna happen, kiddo!
Most women recognize that risk, so you're seeing far fewer attend male strip shows, and more than a few such shows have had to shut down due to lack of patrons. Ya wanna see us guys nekked? Buy a porn vid and view it in the privacy of your own home.
Yes I have been to them. I really do not like strange men sweating on me. Most of those men have on cups so it looks like they have an erection but they really do not. I saw some girls do some pretty wild things.
I went recently and was quite shocked as to what was going on. Let's just say, I am sure there would be a lot of unhappy husbands and boyfriends out there if they knew how intimate their partners had been with the strippers.
And since when were strippers permitted to get erections during a show?!Have you been to a male strip show?
';Permitted'; to get an erection? This is something a man has little-to-no control over.Have you been to a male strip show?
I've videotaped a number of such shows for a variety of patrons, most of them being the business people who operate the shows. I've had some very well-known clients, but confidentiality issues prevent me from naming them.
In reality, most of them are absolutely silly. Guy prance around onstage trying to emulate experienced female strippers, starting with absolutely asinine costumes...cowboy outfits no real cowboy would be caught dead in, policeman's outfits that somehow simply fall apart as they gyrate, costumes that resemble a sultan's, or a pirate... The highlight of the evening is when the guys drop the last pretense at modesty and ';let it all hang out';. The women find the sight funny as hell, not stimulating - but by then, most of the gals have had more than a little to drink, and like men, will do outrageous things to impress their companions...and because they're drunk and trying to impress the other women, they're not often as gentle and careful as the guys would like - I have had to put my cameras away and drive guys to the hospital emergency room because a female patron was careless with her teeth. I leave the nature of the injury to your imagination - suffice it to say she didn't bite him on the a$s....
Um - as to your last question - being a guy myself, I can tell you without fear of contradiction that it's often quite difficult to get a hard on in front of a crowd of critical, drunken women! The guys who can manage that are the ones who go on near the end of the show. And the women usually laugh their behinds off at how silly the guy looks with that wobbly thing poking out in front of them. As a husband, I'd have no problem at all with my wife attending one of those shows - they're usually called ';all male reviews'; - with me or without me. But being that she's a businesswoman who represent her employer whenever she's out in public, whether she likes it or not, she won't go to one. Any jackass with a cell phone camera could destroy her career simply by snapping a pic or making a vid that happens to show her at such a place - the pic or vid gets seen by someone she works with, or the boss, and all of a sudden she's looking for a new job. Ain't gonna happen, kiddo!
Most women recognize that risk, so you're seeing far fewer attend male strip shows, and more than a few such shows have had to shut down due to lack of patrons. Ya wanna see us guys nekked? Buy a porn vid and view it in the privacy of your own home.
Yes I have been to them. I really do not like strange men sweating on me. Most of those men have on cups so it looks like they have an erection but they really do not. I saw some girls do some pretty wild things.
My brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
so he got a girl pregnant, and she is wanting to give the baby up for adoption, he told her he wants the baby, and he wants to raise it, how can he do that, who does he need to talk too, can they just do all of this custody stuff at the hospital???? i need help! please help me, my brother lives with me and my husband, and i have a child also and am more than willing to help him with his baby, but how would we know for sure she would hand over the papers? is there something legal they could both sign or something? she wants nothing to do with the baby, not even see it when its born.... i know! but he does, want the baby. please help me???!My brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
lawyer and make sure he signs the birth certificate when the baby is bornMy brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
hi the mother can not put the baby up for adoption unless both parents are willing to hand over there perental writes get a family loyer and talk to them about the situation so that u no where u stand make sure that u can prove that he can support this child good luck i hope everything works out
Im sorry I dont know the answer to your question- a lot of it depends on the state you live in.
I just wanted to commend your brother on the responsible decision he is making to step up and handle his responsibilities. %26amp; to you... You are such a wonderful person for helping him out!
May god bless yall and may things work out for you in the end!
Goodluck
He needs to get a lawyer today. Tell him to not sign anything till his lawyer tells him to. Get the lawyer for himself not with her.
He needs to legitimize the baby as soon as possible. Legitimizing the baby is like telling the state ';I'm the father of this baby, I'm going to be responsible for him/her and there's no way in hell anyone is taking them away from me.'; To do that legally, he needs to contact a lawyer.
He should see a lawyer, as soon as possible. You never know how things are going to go with this girl. She may cause a lot of problems if she wants to give it up, yet doesn't want him to have it. Also, before he goes through with full custody, he needs to have a paternity test done, just to be sure it's his (you never know).
she can't give the baby up for adoption without his permission that would be illegal.
he should get a lawyer.
she can't give the baby up for adoption with out his permission and/or him signing adoptions papers. which means someone is going to have to contact him..an adoption person or lawyer on her side.
he could ask her parents how they are going about things and contact those people or he could wait until they contact him..
He has to get a lawyer before the baby is born. With the lawyer's help, he has to file with the Court to ask a Judge to order a paternity test, as soon as the child is born. The filing asking for the paternity test should also indicate that the mother of the child has expressed that she has no intention of raising the child, and if the paternity test shows the child to be your brothers then he wants full custody. If the child is his (don't be surprised if it isn't) and she doesn't want it, then he'll get sole custody. It will require a separate filing to ask the Court to award him child support to be paid by the mother, and even if she never wanted to keep the child, she'll have to pay child support, if he's the father and keeps the baby.
She will not be able to unless he signs off. Tell him to get a lawyer and be ready for a fight
Despite the morals and ethics involved with the right a father has as far as custody of his child it really depends on the state as far as what the mother can and cannot due. For example in the state of Oregon in order for the father to have any real standing in the court the father must be providing for the mother at the time of consumption and the time in between and prior to the birth. In most cases that is financially such as living with her, paying for food, clothes, medical, etc. He must also PROVE he is the father by taking a paternity test which often costs SO much that the case will usually not be seen before a court because the father simply cannot afford it.
I advise you to check the laws in your state as far as custody rights. It might even be best to just call an adoption agency near you and ask because they are very up-to-date on the laws and regulation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
lawyer and make sure he signs the birth certificate when the baby is bornMy brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
hi the mother can not put the baby up for adoption unless both parents are willing to hand over there perental writes get a family loyer and talk to them about the situation so that u no where u stand make sure that u can prove that he can support this child good luck i hope everything works out
Im sorry I dont know the answer to your question- a lot of it depends on the state you live in.
I just wanted to commend your brother on the responsible decision he is making to step up and handle his responsibilities. %26amp; to you... You are such a wonderful person for helping him out!
May god bless yall and may things work out for you in the end!
Goodluck
He needs to get a lawyer today. Tell him to not sign anything till his lawyer tells him to. Get the lawyer for himself not with her.
He needs to legitimize the baby as soon as possible. Legitimizing the baby is like telling the state ';I'm the father of this baby, I'm going to be responsible for him/her and there's no way in hell anyone is taking them away from me.'; To do that legally, he needs to contact a lawyer.
He should see a lawyer, as soon as possible. You never know how things are going to go with this girl. She may cause a lot of problems if she wants to give it up, yet doesn't want him to have it. Also, before he goes through with full custody, he needs to have a paternity test done, just to be sure it's his (you never know).
she can't give the baby up for adoption without his permission that would be illegal.
he should get a lawyer.
she can't give the baby up for adoption with out his permission and/or him signing adoptions papers. which means someone is going to have to contact him..an adoption person or lawyer on her side.
he could ask her parents how they are going about things and contact those people or he could wait until they contact him..
He has to get a lawyer before the baby is born. With the lawyer's help, he has to file with the Court to ask a Judge to order a paternity test, as soon as the child is born. The filing asking for the paternity test should also indicate that the mother of the child has expressed that she has no intention of raising the child, and if the paternity test shows the child to be your brothers then he wants full custody. If the child is his (don't be surprised if it isn't) and she doesn't want it, then he'll get sole custody. It will require a separate filing to ask the Court to award him child support to be paid by the mother, and even if she never wanted to keep the child, she'll have to pay child support, if he's the father and keeps the baby.
She will not be able to unless he signs off. Tell him to get a lawyer and be ready for a fight
Despite the morals and ethics involved with the right a father has as far as custody of his child it really depends on the state as far as what the mother can and cannot due. For example in the state of Oregon in order for the father to have any real standing in the court the father must be providing for the mother at the time of consumption and the time in between and prior to the birth. In most cases that is financially such as living with her, paying for food, clothes, medical, etc. He must also PROVE he is the father by taking a paternity test which often costs SO much that the case will usually not be seen before a court because the father simply cannot afford it.
I advise you to check the laws in your state as far as custody rights. It might even be best to just call an adoption agency near you and ask because they are very up-to-date on the laws and regulation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
What should i do, i care about her but how do i get her to stay with me..?
One of my mates (shes a girl and 13) i have to admit is a bit of a slut as shes slept with a couple of people she also smokes, but she never used to be like this she changed about 6 months ago, i got her to quit smoking but still being with the people she hangs around with she started again,but i really like her and i want to be with her maybe even sleep with her, wat should i do..? I'm 14What should i do, i care about her but how do i get her to stay with me..?
DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?what you do is you tell her to quit smoking or you will tell the police...of course you wont..if that doesnt work sorry your screwed:(
DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?what you do is you tell her to quit smoking or you will tell the police...of course you wont..if that doesnt work sorry your screwed:(
How do i get someone to Split up and get with them (like a girlfriend)?
i liked this girl and before i could ask her out she found someone elas. i was gutted i now she likes me but i don't know the guy she is going out with. help i like herHow do i get someone to Split up and get with them (like a girlfriend)?
just talk to her about it, find out where you two stand. but keep in mind if she leaves him for you, who's to say that she won't do that to you. that'd only prove that she can't be trusted.How do i get someone to Split up and get with them (like a girlfriend)?
alright...get in the picture...become her really good friend...then convince her that this other guy is the wrong one...then u go in (after a month or so) and ask her out...it will show her that u have gone through something with her and that u have a clue :) trust me :) oh and good luck
haaaa I contemplate this question but I'm going thru some crap and angry so here we go...first of all you have got to show her how bad of a catch she has with her someone else- and how wonderful of a catch you would BE- I guess if he were cheating on her-she could accidently find evidence or pic but I think it's evil, if they are truly in love and happy you should leave them alone-don't be a homewrecker!!
Did you just meet her or what. Talk to her some.
dont do anything until she is single
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are you sure she likes you? find out for sure and talk to her about it, if she does its her choice which one to go out with
dude thats just not Cool! if you'd do that to them how would you feel?
its wrong to try and break up a relationship. It causes alot of hurt and pain. How would u feel if that other person was u.
It just wrong. Simple as that
just talk to her about it, find out where you two stand. but keep in mind if she leaves him for you, who's to say that she won't do that to you. that'd only prove that she can't be trusted.How do i get someone to Split up and get with them (like a girlfriend)?
alright...get in the picture...become her really good friend...then convince her that this other guy is the wrong one...then u go in (after a month or so) and ask her out...it will show her that u have gone through something with her and that u have a clue :) trust me :) oh and good luck
haaaa I contemplate this question but I'm going thru some crap and angry so here we go...first of all you have got to show her how bad of a catch she has with her someone else- and how wonderful of a catch you would BE- I guess if he were cheating on her-she could accidently find evidence or pic but I think it's evil, if they are truly in love and happy you should leave them alone-don't be a homewrecker!!
Did you just meet her or what. Talk to her some.
dont do anything until she is single
Minee??
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are you sure she likes you? find out for sure and talk to her about it, if she does its her choice which one to go out with
dude thats just not Cool! if you'd do that to them how would you feel?
its wrong to try and break up a relationship. It causes alot of hurt and pain. How would u feel if that other person was u.
It just wrong. Simple as that
How can i tell if she wants to go out with me?
there was a girl i really liked 2 years back, but then i had to change schools. we recently started talking again on facebook and i still like her (for the past two years). how can i tell if she feels the same way? Could i ask her out? We are always laughing and talk everyday and i just can't get her out of my mind.How can i tell if she wants to go out with me?
If you have dare ask her directlyHow can i tell if she wants to go out with me?
Use these steps
1.Ask her whether she has any bf
2.If no thn gud
3.Ask her abt her dream girl and tell abt urs too (i.e abt her)
4.thn ask her Is it ok for her to have a boy like u.
I normally lyk this way
Gud luck
If you like her this much, get into the conversation of her relationship status. If shes single, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime! You have nothing to lose! and who knows, even if things dont go as youd hope they would, you could be making a good friend in the process.
Also, even if she doesnt like you, you could become her friend first, then it could easily develop into something more.what is the best way to get
If you have dare ask her directlyHow can i tell if she wants to go out with me?
Use these steps
1.Ask her whether she has any bf
2.If no thn gud
3.Ask her abt her dream girl and tell abt urs too (i.e abt her)
4.thn ask her Is it ok for her to have a boy like u.
I normally lyk this way
Gud luck
If you like her this much, get into the conversation of her relationship status. If shes single, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime! You have nothing to lose! and who knows, even if things dont go as youd hope they would, you could be making a good friend in the process.
Also, even if she doesnt like you, you could become her friend first, then it could easily develop into something more.
How would people react to an Indian guy - Black girl or Indian guy - Latina relationship in your area?
So currently I live in the deep south, I am a high school senior and soon I will be going to college in Connecticut (Yale University in New Haven). In the area I live in most Black and White people don't really care but some Hispanic people (mainly the ones who came here from NYC and Los Angeles) really throw a fit and as do Indian people. The girl I am currently dating is Hispanic.
Recently I ran into a Mexican guy who found out that my girlfriend was Hispanic, at first he thought I was Hispanic and when he found out that I wasn't, trouble came out. My girlfriend doesn't even know him but he walks up to her and starts flirting with her, she ignores him, he says ';oh you gonna give Borat slum rat over there a chance but you can't appreciate a man of your own culture?';. My girlfriend (being as mean as she is) told the guy to grow some height and grab some tweezers to pleasure himself with, since his hands can't do the job. I tried not to laugh but a guy near me laughed real loud.
Now today I was talking to my Black friend who is originally from Los Angeles. He told me that out there I would run into so much trouble because the Hispanics there hate it when my ';type'; go with their women. I don't plan on moving out west since they are generally more racist towards my type anyways.
So I was wondering, if people in your area saw an Indian guy with a Black girl or Latina, how would they react? (by Indian I mean from India)
**also guys I know this question may be getting old but I am just a bit stressed about this ya know, moving to a brand new area and what not.How would people react to an Indian guy - Black girl or Indian guy - Latina relationship in your area?
I've answered your question before... I've been in such a relationship.. Where I live Hispanic/black and Indians intermingling is extremely common. I can understand the stress you are under dealing with all the issues you and your girlfriend are going through In the south and the west coast, there seems to be less of an accepting attitude in general. People from those areas tend to be more colorstruck/racist.. I was shocked to find out in the south they still have ';redbone get discount admission'; parties. Over on the eastern coast, IR relationships are much more accepted and common. Just hang in there, times are changing and people are getting less and less unaccepting, and turning with the tide. As long as you and your gf keep your love for one another strong, nobody else will matter.How would people react to an Indian guy - Black girl or Indian guy - Latina relationship in your area?
i have a black aunt that was married to an indian man for over 30 years until death parted them
Black girls never seem with indian
Hispanic girls one time with an indian
White girls one time also.
kool stuff lol
In Miami it's nothing but Latin people here and you would probably face racism here.
I was in a similar situation as you I had a bf from Pakistan and a lot of people in the Hispanic community did say hurtful things about us, like that I was betraying my community and that I wanted to be beat and covered (Muslim stereotypes). My parents didn't like it, his didn't even know. So, now it's over.
I hope you don't let the pressures of society cause your relationship to end. :D
I currently live in Rhode Island and I have seen tons of Indian guy - Latina relationships but I have only seen Indian guy - Black girl only once or twice. As for how people react.
Indian guy - Latina: Usually most people don't care because they think the two look alike but sometimes you may see a Hispanic guy or two who would not like the couples. Other than Hispanic guy nobody really cares, it is not that rare here and in Canada it is very common.
Indian guy - Black girl: Some people may stare to see what is up but most don't care that much.
It's not a big deal here in Philadelphia. People would not mind.
No one would give them a second thought, interracial couples of all kinds are very common where I live, and I love that about my city. When my children were growing up, my house look like the united nations, some of every race in and out of my house daily, my children had friends from all races because they were raised to look at the inner person, not their skin color.I have 2 sons and they have dated white girls, mexican, korean, interracial girls,Jamaican, one of my sons is married to his mexican childhood sweetheart and they have 4 beautiful children.I have no problem with any race.
We don't take kind to black with non-black, that's just how we were brought up. As for your Latina, your race mixing doesn't bother us.
Hopefully people would even notice and go on with their lives. It's perfectly normal, it's ok.
it depends... in my area its a lot culture friendly even in some parts of the city but sometimes theres other areas that discriminate that type of sh*t luckly for me im hispanic so not a lot of black people will say sh*t just b/c im not white (sry but thats the truth) but if a couple was a black/white relationship it would be very bad.
I live in Canada and I can't see there being a problem with you dating anyone here. There are a lot of interracial couples in my neighbourhood and everyone is completely fine with it. We don't really care who dates who. We all get a long and we all have respect for eachother.
I feel bad that you're so stressed over something that you shouldn't have to be stressed about. You should be able to date whoever you want to date without having to be bothered by idiots. Live you life the way that makes you the most happiest and quit worrying about what jerks have to say. Their opinion doesn't matter.
Recently I ran into a Mexican guy who found out that my girlfriend was Hispanic, at first he thought I was Hispanic and when he found out that I wasn't, trouble came out. My girlfriend doesn't even know him but he walks up to her and starts flirting with her, she ignores him, he says ';oh you gonna give Borat slum rat over there a chance but you can't appreciate a man of your own culture?';. My girlfriend (being as mean as she is) told the guy to grow some height and grab some tweezers to pleasure himself with, since his hands can't do the job. I tried not to laugh but a guy near me laughed real loud.
Now today I was talking to my Black friend who is originally from Los Angeles. He told me that out there I would run into so much trouble because the Hispanics there hate it when my ';type'; go with their women. I don't plan on moving out west since they are generally more racist towards my type anyways.
So I was wondering, if people in your area saw an Indian guy with a Black girl or Latina, how would they react? (by Indian I mean from India)
**also guys I know this question may be getting old but I am just a bit stressed about this ya know, moving to a brand new area and what not.How would people react to an Indian guy - Black girl or Indian guy - Latina relationship in your area?
I've answered your question before... I've been in such a relationship.. Where I live Hispanic/black and Indians intermingling is extremely common. I can understand the stress you are under dealing with all the issues you and your girlfriend are going through In the south and the west coast, there seems to be less of an accepting attitude in general. People from those areas tend to be more colorstruck/racist.. I was shocked to find out in the south they still have ';redbone get discount admission'; parties. Over on the eastern coast, IR relationships are much more accepted and common. Just hang in there, times are changing and people are getting less and less unaccepting, and turning with the tide. As long as you and your gf keep your love for one another strong, nobody else will matter.How would people react to an Indian guy - Black girl or Indian guy - Latina relationship in your area?
i have a black aunt that was married to an indian man for over 30 years until death parted them
Black girls never seem with indian
Hispanic girls one time with an indian
White girls one time also.
kool stuff lol
In Miami it's nothing but Latin people here and you would probably face racism here.
I was in a similar situation as you I had a bf from Pakistan and a lot of people in the Hispanic community did say hurtful things about us, like that I was betraying my community and that I wanted to be beat and covered (Muslim stereotypes). My parents didn't like it, his didn't even know. So, now it's over.
I hope you don't let the pressures of society cause your relationship to end. :D
I currently live in Rhode Island and I have seen tons of Indian guy - Latina relationships but I have only seen Indian guy - Black girl only once or twice. As for how people react.
Indian guy - Latina: Usually most people don't care because they think the two look alike but sometimes you may see a Hispanic guy or two who would not like the couples. Other than Hispanic guy nobody really cares, it is not that rare here and in Canada it is very common.
Indian guy - Black girl: Some people may stare to see what is up but most don't care that much.
It's not a big deal here in Philadelphia. People would not mind.
No one would give them a second thought, interracial couples of all kinds are very common where I live, and I love that about my city. When my children were growing up, my house look like the united nations, some of every race in and out of my house daily, my children had friends from all races because they were raised to look at the inner person, not their skin color.I have 2 sons and they have dated white girls, mexican, korean, interracial girls,Jamaican, one of my sons is married to his mexican childhood sweetheart and they have 4 beautiful children.I have no problem with any race.
We don't take kind to black with non-black, that's just how we were brought up. As for your Latina, your race mixing doesn't bother us.
Hopefully people would even notice and go on with their lives. It's perfectly normal, it's ok.
it depends... in my area its a lot culture friendly even in some parts of the city but sometimes theres other areas that discriminate that type of sh*t luckly for me im hispanic so not a lot of black people will say sh*t just b/c im not white (sry but thats the truth) but if a couple was a black/white relationship it would be very bad.
I live in Canada and I can't see there being a problem with you dating anyone here. There are a lot of interracial couples in my neighbourhood and everyone is completely fine with it. We don't really care who dates who. We all get a long and we all have respect for eachother.
I feel bad that you're so stressed over something that you shouldn't have to be stressed about. You should be able to date whoever you want to date without having to be bothered by idiots. Live you life the way that makes you the most happiest and quit worrying about what jerks have to say. Their opinion doesn't matter.
Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
ok, i am 11 and i am 5'2 and i am 100pounds and i ama girl. this is my (food) schedule:
breakfast: i have nothing for breakfast, and if i do, its about 5 strawberries. but i usualy have nothing.
lunch: i have nothing, exept for SOME tuesdays and thursday i get hot lunch from school. but i sometimes just give my hot lunch to my freinds.
dinner/supper: this is the only time of day that i actually eat a full meal, i have a peice of meat about the size of my palm, about one cup of vegtiables (somtimes its corn somtimes green beans, brocli, ect.) and usually i get aabout 2 cups of rice or mashed potatoes.
snack: all i will have after supper/dinner is a orange before bed.
thats all i have in a day. do you think i eat a good amount? or should i eat more or less, i always think i am fat, but other people think i am not. but i disagree with them..........
can you give me some good lunch ideas to bring to school for my lunch? cuz everyone is starting to wonder y i never eat and they think ia have a eating disrder (the one were you think your fat but your not and you eat like nothing) and we ARE alowed microwavable lunches.
what are some things i should eat for breakfast? i love cereal, but i dont like it with milk, so i just put like cinnamon toast crunch in a bag with no ,ilk and eat it like that. cuz the cereal puts a weird taste to the milk so i just dont drink it then my parents get mad cuz i am wasting. but my mom gets mad at me when i put cereal in a bag, because she says thats not what its ment for. so any ideas?????do you think i am overweight or underweight? not depending on how much i eat but how much i weigh (100 lbs)
plz help!!! and thx in advance.Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
not really. u are a growing girl and eating like thats not very healthy i would reccomend eating more even if ur not hungry eat somethin small hope i helped:)Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
Your diet sounds very similar to the one I ate when I was a teenager. I skipped breakfast and lunch. But I also felt tired all the time, felt very weak, and almost fainted a few times in school. You need to eat more as your body is running on empty. Start with a good breakfast, get some cereal at least (feel free to eat it anyway you want, there are no rules!), and make sure you eat lunch. Otherwise you are hurting your body and your concentration and energy levels will be very low. You are certainly not fat based on what you have said! You are in fact underweight, with a BMI (body mass index) of 18.3. It should be between 20-25 so you need to put on some weight or you may experience problems. Eating breakfast and lunch should help.
breakfast: i have nothing for breakfast, and if i do, its about 5 strawberries. but i usualy have nothing.
lunch: i have nothing, exept for SOME tuesdays and thursday i get hot lunch from school. but i sometimes just give my hot lunch to my freinds.
dinner/supper: this is the only time of day that i actually eat a full meal, i have a peice of meat about the size of my palm, about one cup of vegtiables (somtimes its corn somtimes green beans, brocli, ect.) and usually i get aabout 2 cups of rice or mashed potatoes.
snack: all i will have after supper/dinner is a orange before bed.
thats all i have in a day. do you think i eat a good amount? or should i eat more or less, i always think i am fat, but other people think i am not. but i disagree with them..........
can you give me some good lunch ideas to bring to school for my lunch? cuz everyone is starting to wonder y i never eat and they think ia have a eating disrder (the one were you think your fat but your not and you eat like nothing) and we ARE alowed microwavable lunches.
what are some things i should eat for breakfast? i love cereal, but i dont like it with milk, so i just put like cinnamon toast crunch in a bag with no ,ilk and eat it like that. cuz the cereal puts a weird taste to the milk so i just dont drink it then my parents get mad cuz i am wasting. but my mom gets mad at me when i put cereal in a bag, because she says thats not what its ment for. so any ideas?????do you think i am overweight or underweight? not depending on how much i eat but how much i weigh (100 lbs)
plz help!!! and thx in advance.Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
not really. u are a growing girl and eating like thats not very healthy i would reccomend eating more even if ur not hungry eat somethin small hope i helped:)Is this how much i should eat a day at my age?! plzzzz, i need to no this!!!!!!?
Your diet sounds very similar to the one I ate when I was a teenager. I skipped breakfast and lunch. But I also felt tired all the time, felt very weak, and almost fainted a few times in school. You need to eat more as your body is running on empty. Start with a good breakfast, get some cereal at least (feel free to eat it anyway you want, there are no rules!), and make sure you eat lunch. Otherwise you are hurting your body and your concentration and energy levels will be very low. You are certainly not fat based on what you have said! You are in fact underweight, with a BMI (body mass index) of 18.3. It should be between 20-25 so you need to put on some weight or you may experience problems. Eating breakfast and lunch should help.
How to confront people?
I have been a quiet kid in my grade forever. People get exited when I talk, and im not that popular. Ive never gone out with a girl and I get nervous when people try to talk to me. How do I become more ';Social';.How to confront people?
Honestly, don't do any public speaking that will terrify you. I was like that and I still am now. Now what are you get at? Sports, reading, eating? Join clubs and think abotu the things that you are good at or things that you like and then just join. It's hard going up to people who are already talking about things, but if you just smile a little and talk about things that you have in common. Say some simple things like if you decide to join a book club. ';What did you think about the last book?'; Popularity isn't everything in the world, I honestly believe one solid friendship is better then anything. Since you've known these people for awhile complain about the homework or about a teacher or maybe how you like that teacher or even talk a little about the assignments.How to confront people?
Take an interest in other people. Ask them questions about their interests, their opinions, their families, their pets... anything. People loooove to talk about themselves, and appreciate when someone takes an interest. Make sure to compliment freely, and criticize rarely.
Try getting into sports or take a speech class.
Honestly, don't do any public speaking that will terrify you. I was like that and I still am now. Now what are you get at? Sports, reading, eating? Join clubs and think abotu the things that you are good at or things that you like and then just join. It's hard going up to people who are already talking about things, but if you just smile a little and talk about things that you have in common. Say some simple things like if you decide to join a book club. ';What did you think about the last book?'; Popularity isn't everything in the world, I honestly believe one solid friendship is better then anything. Since you've known these people for awhile complain about the homework or about a teacher or maybe how you like that teacher or even talk a little about the assignments.How to confront people?
Take an interest in other people. Ask them questions about their interests, their opinions, their families, their pets... anything. People loooove to talk about themselves, and appreciate when someone takes an interest. Make sure to compliment freely, and criticize rarely.
Try getting into sports or take a speech class.
Leo sun with a pisces moon?
i like a guy that has a leo sun with a pisces moon
im a scorpio sun with a scorpio moon.
will he be attracted to a scorpio?
how can i get him to fall in love with me?
since deep down he really is a pisces, would he want a girl that leos like, or a girl that pisces like?Leo sun with a pisces moon?
Yep.
Hes both Leo and Pisces. Not realy Pisces. He likely has values, tastes and behaviours of both signs.
im a scorpio sun with a scorpio moon.
will he be attracted to a scorpio?
how can i get him to fall in love with me?
since deep down he really is a pisces, would he want a girl that leos like, or a girl that pisces like?Leo sun with a pisces moon?
Yep.
Hes both Leo and Pisces. Not realy Pisces. He likely has values, tastes and behaviours of both signs.
Have you been to a male strip show?
Probably only for the girls lol.
I went recently and was quite shocked as to what was going on. Let's just say, I am sure there would be a lot of unhappy husbands and boyfriends out there if they knew how intimate their partners had been with the strippers.
And since when were strippers permitted to get erections during a show?!Have you been to a male strip show?
';Permitted'; to get an erection? This is something a man has little-to-no control over.Have you been to a male strip show?
I've videotaped a number of such shows for a variety of patrons, most of them being the business people who operate the shows. I've had some very well-known clients, but confidentiality issues prevent me from naming them.
In reality, most of them are absolutely silly. Guy prance around onstage trying to emulate experienced female strippers, starting with absolutely asinine costumes...cowboy outfits no real cowboy would be caught dead in, policeman's outfits that somehow simply fall apart as they gyrate, costumes that resemble a sultan's, or a pirate... The highlight of the evening is when the guys drop the last pretense at modesty and ';let it all hang out';. The women find the sight funny as hell, not stimulating - but by then, most of the gals have had more than a little to drink, and like men, will do outrageous things to impress their companions...and because they're drunk and trying to impress the other women, they're not often as gentle and careful as the guys would like - I have had to put my cameras away and drive guys to the hospital emergency room because a female patron was careless with her teeth. I leave the nature of the injury to your imagination - suffice it to say she didn't bite him on the a$s....
Um - as to your last question - being a guy myself, I can tell you without fear of contradiction that it's often quite difficult to get a hard on in front of a crowd of critical, drunken women! The guys who can manage that are the ones who go on near the end of the show. And the women usually laugh their behinds off at how silly the guy looks with that wobbly thing poking out in front of them. As a husband, I'd have no problem at all with my wife attending one of those shows - they're usually called ';all male reviews'; - with me or without me. But being that she's a businesswoman who represent her employer whenever she's out in public, whether she likes it or not, she won't go to one. Any jackass with a cell phone camera could destroy her career simply by snapping a pic or making a vid that happens to show her at such a place - the pic or vid gets seen by someone she works with, or the boss, and all of a sudden she's looking for a new job. Ain't gonna happen, kiddo!
Most women recognize that risk, so you're seeing far fewer attend male strip shows, and more than a few such shows have had to shut down due to lack of patrons. Ya wanna see us guys nekked? Buy a porn vid and view it in the privacy of your own home.
Yes I have been to them. I really do not like strange men sweating on me. Most of those men have on cups so it looks like they have an erection but they really do not. I saw some girls do some pretty wild things.
I went recently and was quite shocked as to what was going on. Let's just say, I am sure there would be a lot of unhappy husbands and boyfriends out there if they knew how intimate their partners had been with the strippers.
And since when were strippers permitted to get erections during a show?!Have you been to a male strip show?
';Permitted'; to get an erection? This is something a man has little-to-no control over.Have you been to a male strip show?
I've videotaped a number of such shows for a variety of patrons, most of them being the business people who operate the shows. I've had some very well-known clients, but confidentiality issues prevent me from naming them.
In reality, most of them are absolutely silly. Guy prance around onstage trying to emulate experienced female strippers, starting with absolutely asinine costumes...cowboy outfits no real cowboy would be caught dead in, policeman's outfits that somehow simply fall apart as they gyrate, costumes that resemble a sultan's, or a pirate... The highlight of the evening is when the guys drop the last pretense at modesty and ';let it all hang out';. The women find the sight funny as hell, not stimulating - but by then, most of the gals have had more than a little to drink, and like men, will do outrageous things to impress their companions...and because they're drunk and trying to impress the other women, they're not often as gentle and careful as the guys would like - I have had to put my cameras away and drive guys to the hospital emergency room because a female patron was careless with her teeth. I leave the nature of the injury to your imagination - suffice it to say she didn't bite him on the a$s....
Um - as to your last question - being a guy myself, I can tell you without fear of contradiction that it's often quite difficult to get a hard on in front of a crowd of critical, drunken women! The guys who can manage that are the ones who go on near the end of the show. And the women usually laugh their behinds off at how silly the guy looks with that wobbly thing poking out in front of them. As a husband, I'd have no problem at all with my wife attending one of those shows - they're usually called ';all male reviews'; - with me or without me. But being that she's a businesswoman who represent her employer whenever she's out in public, whether she likes it or not, she won't go to one. Any jackass with a cell phone camera could destroy her career simply by snapping a pic or making a vid that happens to show her at such a place - the pic or vid gets seen by someone she works with, or the boss, and all of a sudden she's looking for a new job. Ain't gonna happen, kiddo!
Most women recognize that risk, so you're seeing far fewer attend male strip shows, and more than a few such shows have had to shut down due to lack of patrons. Ya wanna see us guys nekked? Buy a porn vid and view it in the privacy of your own home.
Yes I have been to them. I really do not like strange men sweating on me. Most of those men have on cups so it looks like they have an erection but they really do not. I saw some girls do some pretty wild things.
How can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
ok im a guy in 8th grade and friday this new girl came to our school and she is little pretty...i have 2 classes with her..study hall and technology (1st hour and 4th hour) ok well i rly wanna get to know her and wanna be friends or maybe even go out if we become good friends...ok well she has facebook and i wanna get her number so can i get any advice on how to ask her that..if shes on fbook i wud like to get it before monday...also i think she already has a bf :/ but still if they break up i may have a chance but even if they dont i wanna be friends with her...how can i do this? all advice is acceptableHow can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
Don't do anything over Facebook dude that's lame. Walk up to her, introduce yourself, and say ';Hey, I noticed you were new and if you need help with finding your classes or getting around the school let me know.'; Just start out like your the friendly guy who helps new people adjust. Wait till Monday. I think she will see it as you not having confidence in yourself if you do anything over Facebook. Just talk to her in person. It'll probably make her really happy that someone is offering to help her.How can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
Try getting to know her. Did she make any friends that are girls that are also your friends? If so, ask them what she's into and, if (when) you get the chance, bring it up. Talk about her interests as well as your own but don't talk about anything that you are sure would gross her out (like scars and such). Get to know each other, find out your common interests with her. If she doesn't have as much friends yet, well, try talking to her during the two classes you have with her.
Hmm... technology huh, she might need some help since she's new to your school. You guys might be learning with something that she hasn't reached yet at her own school and she might need help. You know what I mean? Though, if she already knows the stuff, you might not and you might need help. She might be willing to help you and then... BAM!!! Instant chemistry, either as friends or more.
I'm a girl so I'm pretty sure that I know a thing or two on what a girl would like. Hope this advice helps you out :)
To get her number without being creepy, start a conversation on facebook (hey, how you liking school so far? How's class? etc...) and talk for a little bit. Try to get her to talk about herself or tell you some sort of story about her life (girls love to talk about themselves. Also try googling ';transference'; for bonus points) When you're in the middle of a good flowing conversation about her cat or whatever, say that you have to go (make up something like a dentist appointment or dinner with the family) but to text or call you at (your number) so that you can finish talking about her super interesting cat. Then log off and hope she texts you. If not, the next time you see her, don't push the subject. You don't know her well enough and it will seem stalkerish. Just start another conversation and steer it subtly toward whatever you were talking about when you logged off. Then be like ';Oh yeah, I remember you telling me about that this weekend. Hey, weren't you going to text me or something? Maybe you weren't, I don't have the best memory, I may have just made that up (haha)'; and see what she says to try and gauge if she was blowing you off or if she just didn't want to bother you at your dinner or whatever you made up. If she is blowing you off, its best to back off a bit and ease into the friendship thing slower.
Also, when you IM and text, try to talk with the same level of english or better of what she uses. If she types in complete sentences, capitalizes the beginnings of sentences, spells words correctly, etc., you better do the same. There is nothing that turns me off more than a guy who texts/types like an idiot (no offense intended). On the chance she might feel the same way, better be safe than sorry. Intelligence is a turn on believe it or not.
Don't do anything over Facebook dude that's lame. Walk up to her, introduce yourself, and say ';Hey, I noticed you were new and if you need help with finding your classes or getting around the school let me know.'; Just start out like your the friendly guy who helps new people adjust. Wait till Monday. I think she will see it as you not having confidence in yourself if you do anything over Facebook. Just talk to her in person. It'll probably make her really happy that someone is offering to help her.How can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
Try getting to know her. Did she make any friends that are girls that are also your friends? If so, ask them what she's into and, if (when) you get the chance, bring it up. Talk about her interests as well as your own but don't talk about anything that you are sure would gross her out (like scars and such). Get to know each other, find out your common interests with her. If she doesn't have as much friends yet, well, try talking to her during the two classes you have with her.
Hmm... technology huh, she might need some help since she's new to your school. You guys might be learning with something that she hasn't reached yet at her own school and she might need help. You know what I mean? Though, if she already knows the stuff, you might not and you might need help. She might be willing to help you and then... BAM!!! Instant chemistry, either as friends or more.
I'm a girl so I'm pretty sure that I know a thing or two on what a girl would like. Hope this advice helps you out :)
To get her number without being creepy, start a conversation on facebook (hey, how you liking school so far? How's class? etc...) and talk for a little bit. Try to get her to talk about herself or tell you some sort of story about her life (girls love to talk about themselves. Also try googling ';transference'; for bonus points) When you're in the middle of a good flowing conversation about her cat or whatever, say that you have to go (make up something like a dentist appointment or dinner with the family) but to text or call you at (your number) so that you can finish talking about her super interesting cat. Then log off and hope she texts you. If not, the next time you see her, don't push the subject. You don't know her well enough and it will seem stalkerish. Just start another conversation and steer it subtly toward whatever you were talking about when you logged off. Then be like ';Oh yeah, I remember you telling me about that this weekend. Hey, weren't you going to text me or something? Maybe you weren't, I don't have the best memory, I may have just made that up (haha)'; and see what she says to try and gauge if she was blowing you off or if she just didn't want to bother you at your dinner or whatever you made up. If she is blowing you off, its best to back off a bit and ease into the friendship thing slower.
Also, when you IM and text, try to talk with the same level of english or better of what she uses. If she types in complete sentences, capitalizes the beginnings of sentences, spells words correctly, etc., you better do the same. There is nothing that turns me off more than a guy who texts/types like an idiot (no offense intended). On the chance she might feel the same way, better be safe than sorry. Intelligence is a turn on believe it or not.
My brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
so he got a girl pregnant, and she is wanting to give the baby up for adoption, he told her he wants the baby, and he wants to raise it, how can he do that, who does he need to talk too, can they just do all of this custody stuff at the hospital???? i need help! please help me, my brother lives with me and my husband, and i have a child also and am more than willing to help him with his baby, but how would we know for sure she would hand over the papers? is there something legal they could both sign or something? she wants nothing to do with the baby, not even see it when its born.... i know! but he does, want the baby. please help me???!My brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
hi the mother can not put the baby up for adoption unless both parents are willing to hand over there perental writes get a family loyer and talk to them about the situation so that u no where u stand make sure that u can prove that he can support this child good luck i hope everything works outMy brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
Despite the morals and ethics involved with the right a father has as far as custody of his child it really depends on the state as far as what the mother can and cannot due. For example in the state of Oregon in order for the father to have any real standing in the court the father must be providing for the mother at the time of consumption and the time in between and prior to the birth. In most cases that is financially such as living with her, paying for food, clothes, medical, etc. He must also PROVE he is the father by taking a paternity test which often costs SO much that the case will usually not be seen before a court because the father simply cannot afford it.
I advise you to check the laws in your state as far as custody rights. It might even be best to just call an adoption agency near you and ask because they are very up-to-date on the laws and regulation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
He needs to get a lawyer today. Tell him to not sign anything till his lawyer tells him to. Get the lawyer for himself not with her.
she can't give the baby up for adoption without his permission that would be illegal.
he should get a lawyer.
Im sorry I dont know the answer to your question- a lot of it depends on the state you live in.
I just wanted to commend your brother on the responsible decision he is making to step up and handle his responsibilities. %26amp; to you... You are such a wonderful person for helping him out!
May god bless yall and may things work out for you in the end!
Goodluck
She will not be able to unless he signs off. Tell him to get a lawyer and be ready for a fight
He has to get a lawyer before the baby is born. With the lawyer's help, he has to file with the Court to ask a Judge to order a paternity test, as soon as the child is born. The filing asking for the paternity test should also indicate that the mother of the child has expressed that she has no intention of raising the child, and if the paternity test shows the child to be your brothers then he wants full custody. If the child is his (don't be surprised if it isn't) and she doesn't want it, then he'll get sole custody. It will require a separate filing to ask the Court to award him child support to be paid by the mother, and even if she never wanted to keep the child, she'll have to pay child support, if he's the father and keeps the baby.
He needs to legitimize the baby as soon as possible. Legitimizing the baby is like telling the state ';I'm the father of this baby, I'm going to be responsible for him/her and there's no way in hell anyone is taking them away from me.'; To do that legally, he needs to contact a lawyer.
He should see a lawyer, as soon as possible. You never know how things are going to go with this girl. She may cause a lot of problems if she wants to give it up, yet doesn't want him to have it. Also, before he goes through with full custody, he needs to have a paternity test done, just to be sure it's his (you never know).
lawyer and make sure he signs the birth certificate when the baby is born
she can't give the baby up for adoption with out his permission and/or him signing adoptions papers. which means someone is going to have to contact him..an adoption person or lawyer on her side.
he could ask her parents how they are going about things and contact those people or he could wait until they contact him..
hi the mother can not put the baby up for adoption unless both parents are willing to hand over there perental writes get a family loyer and talk to them about the situation so that u no where u stand make sure that u can prove that he can support this child good luck i hope everything works outMy brother got a girl pregnant,she wants to give it up for adoption, he wants it how can he get custody?
Despite the morals and ethics involved with the right a father has as far as custody of his child it really depends on the state as far as what the mother can and cannot due. For example in the state of Oregon in order for the father to have any real standing in the court the father must be providing for the mother at the time of consumption and the time in between and prior to the birth. In most cases that is financially such as living with her, paying for food, clothes, medical, etc. He must also PROVE he is the father by taking a paternity test which often costs SO much that the case will usually not be seen before a court because the father simply cannot afford it.
I advise you to check the laws in your state as far as custody rights. It might even be best to just call an adoption agency near you and ask because they are very up-to-date on the laws and regulation.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
He needs to get a lawyer today. Tell him to not sign anything till his lawyer tells him to. Get the lawyer for himself not with her.
she can't give the baby up for adoption without his permission that would be illegal.
he should get a lawyer.
Im sorry I dont know the answer to your question- a lot of it depends on the state you live in.
I just wanted to commend your brother on the responsible decision he is making to step up and handle his responsibilities. %26amp; to you... You are such a wonderful person for helping him out!
May god bless yall and may things work out for you in the end!
Goodluck
She will not be able to unless he signs off. Tell him to get a lawyer and be ready for a fight
He has to get a lawyer before the baby is born. With the lawyer's help, he has to file with the Court to ask a Judge to order a paternity test, as soon as the child is born. The filing asking for the paternity test should also indicate that the mother of the child has expressed that she has no intention of raising the child, and if the paternity test shows the child to be your brothers then he wants full custody. If the child is his (don't be surprised if it isn't) and she doesn't want it, then he'll get sole custody. It will require a separate filing to ask the Court to award him child support to be paid by the mother, and even if she never wanted to keep the child, she'll have to pay child support, if he's the father and keeps the baby.
He needs to legitimize the baby as soon as possible. Legitimizing the baby is like telling the state ';I'm the father of this baby, I'm going to be responsible for him/her and there's no way in hell anyone is taking them away from me.'; To do that legally, he needs to contact a lawyer.
He should see a lawyer, as soon as possible. You never know how things are going to go with this girl. She may cause a lot of problems if she wants to give it up, yet doesn't want him to have it. Also, before he goes through with full custody, he needs to have a paternity test done, just to be sure it's his (you never know).
lawyer and make sure he signs the birth certificate when the baby is born
she can't give the baby up for adoption with out his permission and/or him signing adoptions papers. which means someone is going to have to contact him..an adoption person or lawyer on her side.
he could ask her parents how they are going about things and contact those people or he could wait until they contact him..
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