ok im a guy in 8th grade and friday this new girl came to our school and she is little pretty...i have 2 classes with her..study hall and technology (1st hour and 4th hour) ok well i rly wanna get to know her and wanna be friends or maybe even go out if we become good friends...ok well she has facebook and i wanna get her number so can i get any advice on how to ask her that..if shes on fbook i wud like to get it before monday...also i think she already has a bf :/ but still if they break up i may have a chance but even if they dont i wanna be friends with her...how can i do this? all advice is acceptableHow can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
Don't do anything over Facebook dude that's lame. Walk up to her, introduce yourself, and say ';Hey, I noticed you were new and if you need help with finding your classes or getting around the school let me know.'; Just start out like your the friendly guy who helps new people adjust. Wait till Monday. I think she will see it as you not having confidence in yourself if you do anything over Facebook. Just talk to her in person. It'll probably make her really happy that someone is offering to help her.How can i get to be friends (or more) with the new girl at our school?
Try getting to know her. Did she make any friends that are girls that are also your friends? If so, ask them what she's into and, if (when) you get the chance, bring it up. Talk about her interests as well as your own but don't talk about anything that you are sure would gross her out (like scars and such). Get to know each other, find out your common interests with her. If she doesn't have as much friends yet, well, try talking to her during the two classes you have with her.
Hmm... technology huh, she might need some help since she's new to your school. You guys might be learning with something that she hasn't reached yet at her own school and she might need help. You know what I mean? Though, if she already knows the stuff, you might not and you might need help. She might be willing to help you and then... BAM!!! Instant chemistry, either as friends or more.
I'm a girl so I'm pretty sure that I know a thing or two on what a girl would like. Hope this advice helps you out :)
To get her number without being creepy, start a conversation on facebook (hey, how you liking school so far? How's class? etc...) and talk for a little bit. Try to get her to talk about herself or tell you some sort of story about her life (girls love to talk about themselves. Also try googling ';transference'; for bonus points) When you're in the middle of a good flowing conversation about her cat or whatever, say that you have to go (make up something like a dentist appointment or dinner with the family) but to text or call you at (your number) so that you can finish talking about her super interesting cat. Then log off and hope she texts you. If not, the next time you see her, don't push the subject. You don't know her well enough and it will seem stalkerish. Just start another conversation and steer it subtly toward whatever you were talking about when you logged off. Then be like ';Oh yeah, I remember you telling me about that this weekend. Hey, weren't you going to text me or something? Maybe you weren't, I don't have the best memory, I may have just made that up (haha)'; and see what she says to try and gauge if she was blowing you off or if she just didn't want to bother you at your dinner or whatever you made up. If she is blowing you off, its best to back off a bit and ease into the friendship thing slower.
Also, when you IM and text, try to talk with the same level of english or better of what she uses. If she types in complete sentences, capitalizes the beginnings of sentences, spells words correctly, etc., you better do the same. There is nothing that turns me off more than a guy who texts/types like an idiot (no offense intended). On the chance she might feel the same way, better be safe than sorry. Intelligence is a turn on believe it or not.
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