What's the best way to get over a bruised ego after getting shot down?

I told someone I had feelings for him, he didn't feel the same (not enough to do anything about it anyway) despite our romantic history and friendship and promptly began spending a lot of time with someone else.



I know deep down we probably wouldn't work out, and when we were together I had my doubts, but I think my ego is what is hurting now. How do I move on seeing him with another girl and thinking I'm not good enough for him, even though we probably aren't compatible in the long run?What's the best way to get over a bruised ego after getting shot down?
you just gotta plow through the pain. nothing in life is fair and just, something will always be messed up.

live your life like you always wanted to, lean back on your friends and family and try the crawl, walk, run phase again and again till you get back up.



things like these take time but you gotta have the motivation to move on no matter how hard you look back on your times together.

if somebody asks ';I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH MILDRED..CRAWL IN WITH US!';

then just go for it!What's the best way to get over a bruised ego after getting shot down?
A trillion other fish in the sea. Just move on. When I get shot down, I accept it, laugh about it, and then tell myself that the girl just made the biggest mistake of her life. Be more confident knowing there is always someone else out there for you!
Just get up and get on with life
Find someone way better than him.
If it comes to you sometimes that you may not be good enough for him, then you may work on bettering yourself.Don't do it because of a guy, but do it if you want it.It' s not about changing the one you are either.



Think of it that way, you most probably don't belong together.You are meant to be with someone whom you love , and he loves you back.He is not yours, so why should you bother yourself about him being with another.You too will be get to be with someone who loves you adoringly, and the other way around.Stop the negative emotions, so that you don't miss your chance.
Just give up having an ego. Kick it to the side and say, ';I am human. I have good qualities and I have faults. Other humans have good qualities and faults.'; That being said, he probably did have feelings for you, but was forced to choose between you and the other woman because of the cultural constraints of monogamy. You are good enough for him and compatible in the long run, but he is worried about what his family and friends would think if he dated both of you at the same time.



Also, there are millions of other eligible men for dating in this world. Go find yourself a few and appreciate them for who they are. You will still have feelings for your ex, so don't try to fight your feelings or compare your ex to your new guys. Just love who you love and let yourself be loved by whoever is willing to love you. Celebrate and share your love without trying to hide it or hold back because of fear.



If you are religious, God loves you %26lt;3
The fact is, you will meet someone else and this person will no longer be in your life.



Its how life works out.



So your ego, wont be bothered by it.