How common is girl on boy bullying?

One of my cousins was fighting with her little brother. I tried to pull her off of him, and she turned on me. She got in my face and was like, ';come on... let's fight.'; She had me backed up against a bed, and then totally made me look like a b*tch by pushing me down onto the bed and standing there like ';come on, get up, are you afraid to fight a girl.'; I got up and she pushed me down again and kept egging me on ';come on, get up, let's fight.'; I just kept saying I wouldn't fight her. She finally slapped me in the face and left me alone. We were both 15. I know sometimes younger kids get beaten up by girls, but I was surprised that a girl thought she could beat up a 15 yo guy.



a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy?

b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl?

c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up?

d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl?How common is girl on boy bullying?
i would say 3/4 all men secretly bully there wife/girlfriend. especially the ones that bully other guys in public.How common is girl on boy bullying?
a) more common than people realize. This happened to me a lot in grade, middle, and hs.

b) sometimes they really are ready to fight. sounds like she was just by the amt of physical contact (pushing you down twice, slapping you in the face)

c) Yes, a really tough girl can beat up some boys (your cousin sounds pretty tough, so if you are not so tough, there's a pretty good chance she can kick your butt)

c) Yes and no. A lot of guys wouldn't admit it, but faced with your cousin, I think a lot of guys would be pretty intimidated. She sounds tough and mean. I would probs be a little scared.
a - it isn't common but it is not rare - i think that there are some fairly angry girls out there



b - i think that she wants to cause harm and to hurt but if she would get hit she would be a cow about it



c - yes



d - no. it would've been very hard not to slap her back so therefore you restrained yourself and you did the right thing - good for you.



Perhaps talk to her mum or your even better your mum and dad and say that you are concerned for her. She has some sort of anger issue that will hurt her so the sooner she deals with it the better
A) Although it is unlikely for girls to bully boys it does happen.

B) I dont think she actually wanted to fight but was using the fact that she was A; jacked up after being in a fight and B; yes using that you were a boy and therefore wouldnt hit her.

C) If you let her then yes she could.

D) No you are not a 'wimp' it happens and your allowed to feel afraid. Just know that you could deck her if needed.
If you count ';shaming tactics'; and guilt trips, I say that girl on boy bullying is very common.



Female bullies don't grow up; they just become politicians.
First of all, she's is probably fighting you for a reason. She might be angry about something. Maybe she's just crazy. You never know.



a) I don't think it is that common, like I said it could have happened for a reason.

c) maybe, only one way to find out and that's having a fight.

d) you must have been suprised, so no.
100% have you ever seen a married guy who stands up to his wife, manipulation using violence, sex and emotional blackmail are all they do.



It's a power trip because even if she starts it and you win, you get hammered by the double standard the C**** hide behind.



Are you a total wimp? Do you know how to fight? When push comes to shove women always lose at hand to hand with men. We are build for it, they are not. That's why they attack men in their sleep, because in a stand up fight they get crushed.



YES.
i dont have specific answers and apparently neither does anyone else, but i do know that physical strength is not the issue necessarily. one well-studied phenomenon in biology is the intimidation of a stronger animal by a weaker one if the weaker one is willing to risk more serious damage. this applies to the behavior of nations as well, e.g., the vietnamese victiory over the u.s.
You need to grow a pair seriously if you are getting bullied by girls then you got problems.



She wants to fight, beat her up swiftly and she won't bother you again, this works on boy bullies as well, beat the crap out of those that try to bully you it's all about status.
a) Who knows?

b) She is probably just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl

c) Probably not

d) Yes
a) How common is it for a girl to actually try to bully or intimidate a guy? It probably happens more than we think. The stats likely say otherwise but it is a fact that guys don't report things of this nature as much as girls do.



b) Do you think a girl like this really wants to fight, or is she just doing it cuz she knows most guys won't fight a girl? She is playing on the fact that no matter if she beats you up or you beat her up you will be the one who looks stupid.



c) Is it really possible that this girl could beat me up? Sure she can but that doesn't matter as you lose either way.



d) Am I a wimp for feeling intimidated by this girl? No she has you in a tight spot and you will be the one who suffers in any outcome. UNLESS you report it now before it snowballs any further. This will still make you lose because your guy friends will make fun of you for being afraid of a girl. So she wins again.



Male bullies are scary but usually stupid and easy to expose. Female bullies are scary but smart. We cover our ases.
a) Girls doing physical bullying is of younger brothers is pretty common. Girls doing it to boys their age is less common, but it is increasing as some girls feel less constrained by traditional roles and experiment with physical aggression.



b) Some girls do want to fight and some of them have the strength, skill, and aggression to fight and beat up boys. A friend of mine was like that, but she wasn't really a bully. If someone is bullying, there is usually some underlying issue. It sounds like your cousin really wanted to fight.



c) Its hard to know if she could beat you up without more information. The average 15 year old girl couldn't beat up a boy her age. But athletic girls, particularly if they have grown up fighting, can beat up a boy who isn't experienced at fighting.



d) No, you're not a wimp - you're a decent kid who found himself in a difficult situation and handled it the best he could.