Trying to get over a jerk?

hi, one of my coworkers is a guy and he is really nice and cute....however he flirts with every girl he meets....u can kind of say that he knows he is cute and he knows girls like him.

I also took a course and he was in it(unexpectedly)....we were in the same group for the project and he would flirt with the other girl....and once even kinda had an argument with me for her. He has been a jerk few other times as well.

I know i have a crush on him and i get jealous when i see him flirting with other women...but i know he is one of those guys who is good to crush on but i know i cant have a relationship with him. what should i do? I dont know how to see him as just a friend....atleast at this point......if i change my work hours then he may think i hate him or something....if i dont change my hours he may wonder why i am not talking to him or avoiding him



please help me!Trying to get over a jerk?
I think you shouldnt change your hours. I would just concentrate on how big of a jerk he is. Why would you want to date someone thats like that. Even if he is cute?Trying to get over a jerk?
yer well at least u have a crush on a close to decent guy. my crush was nearly aboput to punch me in the face and i couldnt get over it for ages but dont change ur work hours at least this way u can look at him and maybe try and have a conversation. maybe u could be like friends. hope this helps.
hi! i think you can either avoid him a little... not too much to look like you are but enough to do what you gotta do without him distracting you. you just might have to deal with it. and after a while you might find him to be annoying and not cute anymore. some guys are just like that... jerks!! we girls have to deal with it! who knows, since you ended up working together and were in the same group, maybe there's a reason for that!! but just in case, don't set yourself up for disappointment!! also when guys see that you give them less attention than usual or less than other girls and if you act like his charm doesn't work on you... he might wonder why and try to be more serious with you!!

GOOD LUCK!! :)
Okay- I'm going to start from the top on this one.



First, your title. It sounds like you have already had some sort of thing with him if you are trying to get over him. If you cannot be in a relationship, then your title is misleading. Sounds like you have already attempted it.



Second, getting jealous over a guy who flirts with every girl he sees. Sounds like he is just looking for any potential booty call he can find. The more notches he makes in his belt, then the higher the likelihood of him finding someone he can screw...or really as the saying goes: **** em then forget em.



What should you do? I say find someone better to crush on. There are so many guys that would do anything to treat a girl decently but get overlooked because of douchebags like you have mentioned. Find someone who can treat you like the woman you are, and go after them. You know, the quiet cute guy who doesn't say much and is NOT creepy while being silent.



Finally, him hating you...for what? Showing that you aren't going to put up with his bull ****? That's actually more kudos for you if you show you don't give a rats *** about some guy who thinks he is God's gift to women. If you can show you can live without him, he will probably want you even more. Which then proves to you that he isn't worth it because he should have wanted you solely from the beginning.
Eat junk food, listen to taylor swift and call it a day. Thts life man. U will eventuall notice how dumb you were for stressing over him but tht wont be for a while. So just let it go, guys like dont deserve girls who will be there for them always
Is it possible that he is the shy person and needs to flirt to make himself feel good around the opposite sex?

Next time you have that crush feeling, ignore him and don't give him the time of day... I'll bet he won't get much sleep that night. If he comes back stronger than he likes you more than you ever had thought.

I'll mark this as interesting as I would also like to know the outcome.
Oh, this is a fun one! Beat him at his own game. Flirt with him outrageously, and all the other guys too. I don't care if they are 75. Then, when he asks you out,turn him down flat. Refuse to budge. Why? because he is just a toy person. Superficial and stuck on himself. Not one to waste time on,really.