I recently split up with my girlfriend of three years because I keep sleeping with other women. I love my girlfriend dearly, I really do but I just cannot seem to stay faithful so I finished it.
Everyday all I think about is sex, its like a drug, I need it and I crave it but here is the thing, once I have sex with a girl, no matter how beautiful she is or how goo it may have been, i;m just not interested anymore. Its almost like I love the trill of the chase so to speak. The adrenaline I get from being in a bar and chatting up girls and taking them home for a one night stand is after costing me my relationship. If she found out what I have being doing it would kill her. I just cant see myself stopping anytime soon
Please HelpAm I addicted to sex?
we're all addicted to sex, so don't beat yourself up, but don't be a retardAm I addicted to sex?
Yes. Now go get help.
i bet you're a virgin. it sounds more like you're addicted to your hand
Sex before marriage is widely considered to be a sin in the modern world.
It's natural to be attracted to that which is sinful.
Stay pure, Jesus believes in you.
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I'm just putting this straight out there..
If you truly love her, you can overcome anything to be with her.
Including your ';addiction'; to sex.
If you dont truly love her... well, you will continue on with the one night stands, and break her heart further.
Just think.
Wow. No offense, but you need help.
Also, maybe you should tell your girlfriend the truth. I'm sure if she was doing it to you, you would want to know. Just a thought.
you need proffesional help actually you need to find something better to do
get a hobby
i dont think you can truly love a person and
do something horrible like that
guys like you disgust me
I say yes you are but dude that is not healthy or good for you. Yes sex is a healthy thing when it is with one partner but maybe you need to go somewhere and be by yourself away from everything and really think about it or find a fetish and not a dangerous one either like mine is dessert (eating it off the other persons body like chocolate syrup and stuff or ice cream strawberries you name it). I think you should read and take time off from technology and people and figure out somethings in your head.
i think you have a serious problem and you need to get help. you sound like a good person that means well and i feel like you don't do this because you want to. I think you need to see a therapist. I think also that you should call you ex and tell her everything that has gone on. Maybe, if she still cares about you, she'll even come in for a session. You need to accept that you have a problem and then seek help. admission is the first step and then talk to someone who understands
Best of luck,
jon
No your not addicted to sex. yes im sure your in love with the thrill of the chase...when a real relationship becomes important to you..you will stop .if a disease doesnt stop you first..had you really loved the girlfriend you would have stopped...sorry
If you can't quite for the one you love then I don't think you love her at all. if you did she alone would be enough motivation for you to stop. anyways why don't you avoid getting yourself into situations like that. stop doing things and going to places where you know you can't control yourself
Sadly I think you are addicted but it's only because when you see women you're trying to make them into something else. Meaning that you cannot be satisfied and it may be because of a loss of a special person (not you girlfriend) or some life crisis and you're trying to replace it with sex to keep you occupied. And this is harsh, but you should tell you're girlfriend what you've done if you plan on getting back with her because if you get back with her and DON'T tell her, things will catch up with you in the future. But next time you feel the urge to sex a woman ask your self ';Is it worth it? and What makes you wanna do it?'; And don't give yourself the answer just because you're horny, dig deeper and really think before you actually do it the NEXT time. But hopefully it wont be a next time.
okay heres the thing sex isnt an addiction its a craving its a choice you choose weather you want to have sex or not its not an addiction!!!! if you truely love your ex girlfriend and see a future with her then you would stop sleeping around, get your act together and stop hurting this girl its not right, carmas a b**** sweety, what goes around comes around, take a second and think about that, picture your ex that you claim to care about, going and haveing sex with different guys, taking guys home, sleeping with them, drinking with them, and partying with them, now ask yourself if she did that would it break your heart?? if not then let her go you go your way and let her go her way dont waster her time, however if you will be heartbroken if she cheated on you the way you cheated on her then stop with you bullshit get up off your *** and go tell her you love her and appologize to her, admit to you faults and prey for her to forgive you, you only get one life to live dont mess it up with this girl if you believe shes the one for you, stop sleeping around, if you really love her then after reading this you will get off your a** and go up to her and appologize like you should, but if you dont really care for her then go do whatever you want to do, and have sex with who ever you wish to have sex with, and remember CARMAS A *****, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND sweety, so let go of this lifestyle and find yourself what your looking for.
Yes, you are the very definition of a sex addict.
Get professional help.
ur ment to hav sex with ur partner not a rubber doll s :)
Saying you're addicted to sex is just an excuse to make cheating sound better.
You're probably very young and want to play the field and are probs not in love if you can do something so heartless behind her back. The best thing you could have done for this girl is break up with her.
Just continue as you are till it bores you and make sure you have safe sex.
Then when youve matured a bit then go with a girl but do not form another relationship until youre ready or you will let another girl down.
Its better for the female race that a guy like you is not on the market
If you truly love her, you wouldn't want to sleep with anyone else.
So maybe go to a psychologist and see if they can sort it out for you.
While a loving commitment is actually scientifically proven to improve the health and longevity of both men and women, many people have a conflicting urge to ';play the field'; (for lack of a better term). Depending on your age, that's healthy too (not the sex part, which can lead to problems you'd need to take care of in a clinical setting if you're not safe); you don't want to leap into a committed relationship without knowing the type of person you truly feel you can commit to.
If you're sleeping around, perhaps it's a sign that you weren't getting what you wanted out of that physical relationship. It's a difficult thing to consider if you love her and are emotionally connected, but physical and intellectual connectivity and compatibility are important in any good relationship. Your ex may just end up being a really close friend.
The next time you feel the uncontrollable urge to go for it, take a cleansing breath and try to consider what's motivating you. It might not be an abnormal sexual urge (though it may feel like one because you feel guilty for cheating or because you've grown self-conscious about it in general).
NOT to say that it's okay to cheat, mind you! Everyone deserves a committed relationship since it's a sign of mutual respect for the love and compatibility the partners share with each other....
Good luck.
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