How come guys lose interest in a girl after having sex with her a little too soon?

Is it best not to get sexually involved with a guy for at least 3 to 6 months ?How come guys lose interest in a girl after having sex with her a little too soon?
I guess the prize is boring after you win it so you want to find another one.How come guys lose interest in a girl after having sex with her a little too soon?
Depends, if the sex was great he'd probably be back.
Because sex was the motivation to getting you, if i like a girl i try not to have sex with her in the first few weeks because i know once i have sex with her there is a chance i want find her attractive anymore well at least until the next time i need sex,(booty call) this is the thought processes of 99% of straight men out there if you want to avoid this i suggest you tell your men that your not interested in sex earlier on in the relation ship see if they stick around.
Because there has not been a genuine connection established. Men can have sex and completely see it as physical- thats all. So, it's best to wait until they really know you and respect who you are.



and I disagree that that means it was all he wanted- from what I've learned, if they like you- they want to get to know you, but *you* pace that.
This is why you should not rely on your vagina as a form of currency. You used it as a tool to strengthen the relationship, or to deepen it, or the change it in some way, and found out that's all he wanted.





It is purely and totally your own fault. I feel no pity for you. Stop using your cootchie as a relationship tool, and you won't have this problem.
Females in genearal should have respect for themselves and their bodies,pre marital sex is a sin in itself.I have NO respect for females who have loose morals.A female as well as a male who practice premarital sex are sinning against their own bodies!
A guy did that to me before. Girl, just take it for what it was. The guy was a loser and you fell for his game. It happens to all women until we learn how to be strong and keep our vagina's to ourselves. Men are dogs and we must teach them a lesson!
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If he loses interest after sex, then sex was all he wanted to begin with.



ETA: Men are very simple to understand. They say what they mean and they do what they are told. I mean, they will do whatever you say you want them to do. They don't infer well, and they aren't mind readers. They don't feel things they way women do, but they do have feelings. They are very literal thinkers and not emotionally driven. These are all generalities, of course.
not all guys but most. you have to use sex as a tool, to attach him mentally, then hell be begging for more

-Mell
Sorry Ma, you were just tail. Gotta keep it real.
maybe you need to do Kegel exercises....



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You may be right. I usually lose interest or the relationship turns into just sex.
It's very easy for women to say this but it's not always the case.



Men I use to run with will be gone shortly regardless if there was sex or not. It's not like they'll stick around until you kick em down the sex.



In reality, it's not personal, its mental. As in mentally impaired on our part. When we don't know any better, we think sex makes us a man. We think sex from many different partners are like stripes on a uniform. When, errrrr, IF we grow up, perhaps have a daughter of our own, we learn the true beauty of a woman.



For the woman, from me being an ex ho bag and now a father of a daughter, I would say it's always best to wait. Don't give it to him for awhile. If he bounces, so be it. His lost. If he sticks around, make him wait for marriage. Let him get his stripes off some other chick with no integrity.
Sexually, too much, too soon, among the immature, lends itself to the notion that there must be something wrong here in the mind of the boy who is a pretender to manhood by scoring a chick. In the aftermath, he rationalizes his good fortune by riddling it in doubt and disbelief. One negative aspect of his confused thinking has him wondering if she so willingly slept with me, who else?



This is a predominating consideration if one realizes that when you sleep with someone, you are, by proxy, sleeping with everyone they have ever slept with. Think STD, HIV and Aids.



There is also the rationale that if I nailed her, I now know I am capable of doing the same with someone else. That feeling of conquest begins an epic effort for further encounters with anyone at every opportunity. Sex is no arena where retched excess should be encouraged.



Gettin' paid for bein' laid is one of the more dire consequences of too much too soon in the living of one's life. That is a hard lesson to be learned before one reaches a level of comfort with their own level of sexual maturity. Many don't and they live with the consequences of it firmly embedded in their memory banks for the rest of their lives.
Thank you for reiterating the stereotype about white females being easy. I guess now I know how you made such a generalization in the user ';flower'; s question.



LOL @ ';I waited a couple weeks or so';, yep that's still quick. If a person can wait a few weeks to get a paycheck Im sure they can also wait ';a couple weeks or so'; to get some as well. Next time go for the socially awkward guy who really likes you as opposed to the smooth talker who will tell you what you want to hear.
Because guys are looking for wife, mother material, on a sub conscious level, and if some one just gives it up early they get instant gratification and write you off as a young and sexually immature woman who wouldn't be mature and fertile at the same time of offspring.



A guy wants a mature and fertile woman to bear his children, that's why he's attracted to a virgin who has waited and is mature and responsible. He doesn't want to be with some one that he slept with on some random day, for some random reason. It just feels immature and like it was fun and now time to move on...



He's looking for a suitable mother and women are forgetting how to be ladies, motherly, and some have too little of a backbone and give it up too fast, way too easy.
Because white girls are more hornier than coloured women. Coloured women retain a lot of respect from coloured males. White girls are just too desperate and then BAM!! no partner.
obviously if he lost interest then he wasn't really interested in the first place, he just wanted to f*ck from the beginning.