Right well here's my dilemma.
First off, I am 21 and in a wilting relationship and I think he is 31 or 32... please don't mention the age gap, it doesn't bother me...
I have started work experience at my former secondary school in the music dept. and one of the teachers is so sexy. Let's call him Mr. E
Over the easter holidays, I got a mutual student to give him my mobile number so I could ask him if I could go in and record my EP. Mr E replied to me almost straight away to say yes and sent a smiley face in his message.
Anyway, I went in and he seemed really interested in what I was doing and kept taking short breaks throughout the day to come and talk with me and he was complimenting my singing voice a lot. One day when i wasn't feeling too great... he just sat with me for 3 hours and we chatted like we'd known each other for years.
During term time, I am not always in his lessons but when I am I will catch him looking at me and when i look back he will look away or to the floor. Also other teachers in the department have noticed a change in his behaviour and have said that he is quite flirty with me..
Last friday a group of us went to the pub, some left and it was just me, him and another teacher and we got rather drunk and we ended up walking part of the way home together... Nothing happened but it felt like it should have done (we hugged to say goodbye). We tend to walk home most days and one day he walk quite close to me (arms were practically touching)
The only problem is, he is quite secretive about his love life and I think he may have mentioned a girlfriend (i think his words were 'a girl I'm seeing tonight' (he's mentioned ex's too))....
He also bought me a birthday present which I thought was a nice gesture.
To set the record straight, he is NOT my teacher and we are both above the age of consent.
I want to tell him that I like him but don't know how! What if I get rejected?
What should I do...Please help! xI'm In love!... with a teacher!...10 POINTS!?
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Go ahead and tell him. The direct approach works best with guys. He's definitely in to you.
It seems like he likes you. He's A teacher not YOUR teacher so I think it'll be okay. I'm sure he's worried about the other teachers and what they would have to say which might be why he hasn't made a move but is still a little flirty. I'd not rush anything and keep at the pace you're going on. Don't push it! and good luck!
Hmm..I'd be careful if I were you. If you do ask him out, just ask casually like if he'd want to grab a cup of coffee one time. It doesn't have to be too formal so you can get to know each other a bit more and it won't hurt so much if he rejects you.
By the looks of it, he does seem to have an interest in you. So if you really do like him, then go for it!
You were 100% wrong to use a student to pass along your cell phone number. It's unprofessional and completely inappropriate. I realize by your age that although you are working at a school, you are too young to be a certified teacher.
You are behaving very immaturely. You have to consider that you and this guy are coworkers, and that you work in a school, which is a special type of workplace. I've worked in schools, as a teacher aide and then as a teacher, for many years. You have to be very careful. Your coworkers are noticing something, and if you think the students aren't noticing,too, you're wrong. Think of what this does to your reputation and the reputation of this teacher, if you are going to carry on like a lovesick teenager.
Back off. It seems like this teacher realizes the problems with this ';relationship'; a lot better than you do. You're risking your job, and his, too.
I am not an expert or anything in relationships but... When you sent him your phone number with a student, and he didn't find that thing quit wrong, then if i were you, i would think that'sis he's the kind of guys who are, don'tnt know how to describe him :S, just looking for a relationship.
Anyway, its not me who decides and i never met the guy :D So its up to you to choose your own answer, not Yahoo, and i say, GOOOO!!! Tell him you like him! But not just yet!!!! NOT YET!!!!!! Spend more and more time with him, he might have a girlfriend D: and you might look silly, or he might hide her from you and be cheating on you behind your back or something... O_O, BUT NOT JUST YET! DONT TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM UNTIL THE TIME COMES!!!!!!!! After 4 weeks or so, or when you think the thing between you is evolving. Good luck %26lt;3
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