How do i get over and move on?

hi. i am in a bad situation. i met a guy through a good friend of mine. since he was a frnd of my buddy, i trusted him. we started going around. i was sure that he is good and descent. but i was proved wrong. he used me,became intimate with me without my permission. i am still a virgin. but whatever happened, i din approve of it. i did tell him later. this guy has now broken up with me for no valid reason. n my buddy( a guy frnd) is feeling bad for it. i told him to keep this frnd of his away from other girls he knows since he is expert in use and throw. i can't tell him exactly what happened with me. and i fell for his frnd,and now i realize dat all this while i was being used. i am feeling terrible from within. my mistake that i trusted him. i am a pampered kid in my family,m feeling guilty and horrible that somebody used me just because he got attracted to me. please help me and tell me how do i get over it. i told this to my best friend,but can't share it with family. and do tell me that am i still a good girl or have i commited a sin?i know i am not the only girl who has been exploited this way. also i want to ask you how do i teach lesson to this guy who did so bad with me? should i do somethnig and if so what? or should i just leave it to God?How do i get over and move on?
Report this to the police. Seek some counselling / medical attention for both the physical and psychological aspects of your situationHow do i get over and move on?
I have been used by girls for my brain. Look I would just stay away from the guy. God showed you that the guy isn't a good guy so now that you know this just walk away and leave him alone.



I know you want vengeance and trust me I wanted it a bunch of times more than you can expect but it is best to let God handle it.



He will get what is coming to him we all do. Trust me.
that guy was a b*tch and so is your friend for trusting him. don't blame yourself. i'm sorry for you.



do you think you can help me?



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Im really sorry that happened to you. It doesnt mean that you're a bad individual. Its just that we're capable of commiting mistakes. We're just ';Humans';. In that case, im gonna leave it to God. He knows how to justify things. You may share it with somebody who's noteworthy of your trust. Or if you find it hard to vent out to a perosn then try to do an alternative. Go on shopping, movie marathon on ur couch. etc.. whatever makes you forget what had happened. move on. =)
Love is a feeling.Feelings fade-out Naturally.When you experience better feeling than him you will forget him.If you do not want this mess better go for marriage.But same situation may happen with your husband also.So understand the Naturalism in positive way.To love and being loved will increase any ones self confidence.The word virginity is meaning less,let us replace the word with character.Human should have character no matter the gender.

Be self confident,be independent in financial,emotional,social manner.

Then no guy will leave you.

As far as this guy is concern,move on,don't sit under shadow of one tree.Great paths are ahead,Just grow on.God bless you.
Most of us have the experience of heart break at some point in our life, this is unavoidable. Break ups are difficult and painful and we might believe '; I will never get over this excruciating pain';, ';I can never find love again'; Be patient with yourself. There is no instant cure for recovering from a relationship breakup especially when cheated upon.



%26gt; Be Nice To Yourself - Breakups happen - Actually, they're a normal part of life. It's important to cut yourself some slack when you're feeling vulnerable and rejected. Let yourself mourn the loss, and remember that you don't have to be perfect all of the time鈥攐r any of the time. Nobody is!



%26gt; Avoid your ex as much as possible - Some people cannot move on if they are constantly reminded of the heartache that they are going through. Your ex is the number one reminder of the heartache and you should avoid them as much as you can.



%26gt; Stop further argument with that person or the fantasy voice of that person about how they are wrong and you are right - Every time you catch yourself arguing your point in your own mind, just say stop and focus on something completely different.



%26gt; Don't Obsess About Why - Such things tend to happen when two people have been growing apart for a while. This isn't to say you shouldn't reflect on what you could have done differently in the relationship, but it's not helpful to dwell on the whys and wherefores.



%26gt; Don't Lose Faith in People - Stick to your friends and acquaintances and try to find joy in every facet of your day and things will get better. It's important not to lose faith in other human beings.



%26gt; Talk it Out - Bottling your feelings can make you depressed and complicate things for you even more. Confide your feelings in someone you really trust. It may be a friend or a family member. Letting out your feelings will also help in making new bonds.



%26gt; Think positively and Don't Stay Bitter - ';If you think you are beaten. You are';. ';If you think you dare not, You don't';. Success begins with your own will. It's all in your state of mind. Also Remember ';Not all Men are the same'; Being bitter is normal -- it's simply a stage you are going to go through. But move past it quickly.



%26gt; Get a New Hobby - Now you have a lot of freedom to try new things. Indulge yourself in some activities that didn't interest your ex, whether it's sport activity, bird watching, take a photography class, start writing poetry or join a club that interests you. You'll meet new people and feel good about yourself, which will attract both friends and admirers.



%26gt; Strictest Rule to Follow - ';No Sex With Ex'; - When this happens, keep one thing in mind: YOU BROKE UP. You will never get over your ex if the two of you have sex after the break up. Repeat to yourself: ';NO SEX WITH EX';.



%26gt; Learn to forgive Your ex - ';To err is human, to forgive is human as well';...A break up happens because both parties are at fault regardless how it may seem. They are part of the past now and holding the grudge will only do harm to yourself. Let go any resentment you may have towards your ex.



You've been hurt and left heartbroken. Life's been unfair to you and you can't take it anymore. Seeming like a familiar feeling? These cycles of ups and downs are all a part and parcel of growing up and evolving each day, to be a better and a wiser person than you were before.

Good Luck%26gt;r
it happens!life does not stops! u have to move forward no matters if some dog comes into ur life bla blabla

i can well understand wht ur feelin right now,my best friend lost her verginity to her own brother can u believe it! to hr own brother

but that f@**** he ditched her i have seen her sheding tears for that butcher he was already in a commited relationship still he did this to her!

u kno y m i telling u all this?????? its simply to make u feel that all what happend is normal and all the boys are same no matter if that dog is ur brother

u kno wht hav i lernd in my life yet-all mens are dog. making friends(i mean guys) is fine bt stay away they kno only to ruin

simply 4gt wht happend nd sho him that u nvr needed him!!!!!