Sunday, November 14, 2010

There's this girl that I REALLY like but I have trouble trying to talk to her because of fear, help anyone?

Okay, I'm currently a junior in high school right now and I REALLLLLLY like this girl who is a year younger than me in her sophmore year. I fell for her way back in the beginning of this school year in like September when i made eye contact with her by accident at lunch and she looked at me and it felt like i was in Romeo and Juliet. Something just snapped at that moment we made eye contacht and i realized i was looking at the most beautiful and adorable girl i have ever seen in my lifetime. She is so amazing in so many ways to me, i can't even explain how passionate i feel towards her.



Well as time went on after that, i kept seeing her like at her volleyball games and we kept making eyecontact over and over again and i can felt a connection like i never felt before in my life with a girl. i would then also start seeing her all the time in school and we would still continue to make eyecontact. My heart would fludder everytime it happened, it felt great, she's absolutely amazing. well the only problem is that i'm so afraid to talk to her!

i cant find the courage enough to just talk to her. i'm afraid i'll seem like a creep since we always make eyecontact or ill say something completely stupid. It's almost the end of the school year right now, and i STILL havent been able to talk to her. IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS!

i made a vow to myself back in September that i was going to ask her to my junior prom but now its May and its too late! (now im just going with a friend of mine.) That's really disappointing to myself that i couldnt keep a really strong vow i was trying to make for myself. how can i find the courage to talk to her and tell her how i feel about her. I've always been a pretty shy guy around girls, im not as bad as i used to be, but still pretty bad. I have a hand full of friends that are girls but not to many and i have trouble talking to any girls that arent friends with me, its wierd.



do any girls out there no wat i can do to talk to her!? i need her, i've never felt this way towards a girl. I'm also starting to get really mad at myself now too cuz ive stopped myself from looking at her or making eyecontact with her anymore cuz now i just feel like a creep. but since ive done that, i think she thinks ive stopped liking her, which is not true at all! and now i have a feeling shes starting to stop looking at me now. If she completely stops looking at me, im gonna smash my face with a hammer with frustrastion, i like her way too much to give up on her.

Another great thing about her from not only being absolutely beautiful to me is that shes low-key yet hilarious in her own way, she's in no way a flirt ( i hate flirty girls), and shes gotta very loyal personality and can be very humorous. She PERFECT for me, I cant even explain how much i need her for myself, im going nuts! HELP or SUGGESTIONS anyone!!!? please?There's this girl that I REALLY like but I have trouble trying to talk to her because of fear, help anyone?
Ok buddy, read carefully:



You have to talk to her. If you want a miracle, then it isnt going to happen. You like her, then approach her, smile at her and start a convo. Next, compliment her appeareance or something, but just talk to her without expecting something from her. She could have a bf, or she could not be interested in you. So please, just make friends. Also, don't torture yourself, you're still young and the definition of perfect does not exist.



I hope that you feel better and stop thinking about her.There's this girl that I REALLY like but I have trouble trying to talk to her because of fear, help anyone?
first that is very sweet of you to say that she's amazing and beautiful, most girls don't get told stuff like that and i am a girl and i have never been told something like that. you should just tell her what you wrote and and then ask her if she would like to go on a date. even if your shy you need to get over that or you could be letting her slip away from you, metaphorically stating. so take a chance and tell her.
Go up to her and say 'hi' because you have absolutely nothing to lose. She's not going to laugh at you or act rude, and if she does, then consider yourself fortunate that you found out who she really was sooner rather than later. Don't just not say anything out of fear of rejection or fear of the unknown, because nothing ventured, nothing gained, plain and simple. I know it's easier said than done, but I'm rooting for you! You can do it! You'll be so proud of yourself once you do.

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