MtF (me..) question on sex?

Im a Male to Female transsexual, pre-op but full time (have been for just under a year).

Im of the lesbian persuasion and it dawned on me earlyer today that obviously humans are very sexual beings... see now, this is a problem for me. I wont deny my sexual urges and all that, but i have no idea how to act on them with another girl considering my downstairs parts arnt matched up to what im willing to use.



Im basically asking, is there anything me and my future girlfriends can do to enjoy a healthy sex life that WONT involve me having to use the genitals i was born with? Im a few years from SRS and i dont think the unlucky girl whjo gets stuck with me will be willing to wait that long for a decent sex life.



Kinda longish and im not sure it makes sense but i really want to know how to work around this issue.MtF (me..) question on sex?
The best thing I can suggest is called a Vee-String. I knew a t-girl once that used one. They don't look or feel perfect, and of course it won't taste right (if you 'scissor' or something for awhile first it helps), but it's better then nothing.



If you do a search for it you will get several hits, including YouTube videos. Here's one link:

http://www.thefantasygirl.com/bodyshapin鈥?/a>



Hope this helps you Ashlee.MtF (me..) question on sex?
You're not going to like my advice. I always advise not dating until you're finished transition. Being pre-op makes relationships much more complicated, not to mention safety issues. It's also a great way to derail your transition so that you may never finish. Short-term sacrifice = long-term gain.
wow, I haven't heard about the V-sting in a long time, LOL but that aside from the point. Honestly I agree with the clones in that it better to simply not date.. but if you must I鈥檓 sure your prospective partner and yourself can figure out different options, remember sex isn鈥檛 always about penetration. Personally some call me weird, but to me sex is about expressing one love for the other person.



But honestly relationships can confuse and complicate things during your transition..