Im at university and the boy that i have been confused about for months and i finally had a conversation about where this was all going.
we have fun on nights out, kiss a few times, watch films with each other and stay over (but i have not slept with him) .. however, it really confuses me because he still gets with other girls.
talking about it yesterday, he said that he doesn't want commitment because it 'wouldnt work' and he 'doesnt want take risks'. apparently i am 'different' to other girls that he's done this sort of thing with because he doesn't want to cut me out/likes my company.
he said we should see how it goes because he does like me, but it's just confusing me too much so i said we should stop altogether. we both said we didnt really want to do that but i had to put my foot down.
i feel a bit sad that i'm not going to be able to be how i was with him before .. but stopping it now was the right thing to do wasn't it? and i've no idea how to act with him now ..
help?
thank you!Just a bit of advice on this would really help me out a lot?
He sounds a really nice guy, he hasnt slept with you but likes your company. Who knows what the future holds, he may realise he wants you more and more once he is not seeing you so often. When you do see him, dont kiss him like before, it will be hard but then he will remember what fun you had. Some guys would have just had sex and used you and broken your heart, so I shall keep my fingers crossed for you.
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