There are these three girls in my school who seem to fit to my style and they're the only with whom I'd hang at school. The others are just mean and boring. I'm not some kind of creepo or stalker or smth, I am the same style like them. I hang with everyone from my school and make them laugh but I can't find a way to hang with these girls. They are too private between three of them and I feel like bothering or smth. Previously one of them was looking at me always and I started to pretend that she doesn't exist. I love their style, they are like totaly me even watch this: one of them had the same blouse as me.. and I started wearing it first at school... + with the other girl once casually ended up shopping and she told me that purse in the store was cool but I said smth like no and later went shopping with my mum and happened to adore that purse and bought it and the other day i went to school with the purse and the girl said i had very good taste only to find out days afterwards that she had same purse and i got little mad... but since i dont meet her and talk and I started to pretend little bit like ';not too available for them'; ... and I seem like lost when walking in hallway... but I always dress the nice like their style. so, I started like avoiding and pretending they don't exist for some time and pretending i have much fun with the other guys which is not true.
Now, I ended up alone. I don't like these people i am with- they are mean and not my style.
I don't know what these girls think about me anymore but they have become much much better friends between 3 of them and it seems like life is finished for me. I am sad and bored at school. And dont tell me to hang with the other guys cause they're mean and these girls are more like pretty and maybe rich but they're kind between them 3(not kind with everyone). And they dont make friends with just about evryone but thats what i like cause theyre picky and thats good.
I wanna be closer with them. how?How do I make friends with these girls at school?
why don't you go up to them at lunch or in the hallway and compliment them on something they are wearing? you can say that you love their clothes and stuff and you were wondering if you could go to the mall sometime with them so they can show you their favorite stores. or just invite them to a small party or to the movies some time.How do I make friends with these girls at school?
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Dont be friends with somebody just because they are rich.
Keep looking because I can bet you that you will find nice freinds
just go to them,smile andsay hello
Compliment them on something (Hair, clothes, shoes, makeup, ect.)
I notice when I compliment another girl, they automatically want to be friends with me. It's worth a shot.(:
Plus, if they're style is similar to yours, it shouldn't even be a problem, you'll fit in fine.
Take it easy.
Walk up to one of them and be truthful. Say something like, ';You know, I've been watching how you and your friends handle yourselves and I have to admit that I admire how close you are and how cool you all seem to be. A lot of people probably hate on you for this, but I just wanted to let you know that I like your style.'; Smile and keep an upbeat, confident attitude as you pay the compliment. Then, politely end the conversation and go on about your business. From then on smile at them and politely say hello when you see them. Sooner or later you all will grow more comfortable in each other's presence and, hopefully, be able to segue that into a friendship. And, if the others you hang with are mean, stop hanging around them pronto. That kind of reputation easily rubs off and it's better to go it alone until you have more friends than to continue to hang around people that you don't respect or that you have little in common with.
Ok first of all start a conversation like talk about something interesting or complement them on their cloths and make them laugh you will never get to know them if u dont start a conversation so when they are talking about whatever sports like cheer or dance share your expernces with them. And if they go somewhere like modeling,cheer,dance or soccer, etc. Be with them, alot of girls have friends because they can relate to other people and so relate to them find something you both like. And something that allows works is having something anouther girl wants like gum lol when u give gum everybody wants a piece and thats a great way to start a conversation. And envite them 2 ur house and do something interesting like go to the mall or the movies or play truth or dare be really fun and outgoing!!!
well, not that i agree with all your reasons.. but i can tell you're young so it's something you'll grow out of. the compliment thing will work. that's normally how ms/hs friendships start if you think about it. either that or you ask them about an assignment or some random question (that you normally know the answer to already lol) that can lead into other conversation.
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