How do I break up with him?

Im 16. I recently asked my bestfriend to find me a black guy and she did find me one (a little irrelevant) , because im highly considering breaking up with my boyfriend/fiance of eleven months. We fight ALL the time, every single day, and its always my fault (something i did). Im acting different, im not paying attnetion to what he's saying, i dont call him baby enough, blah blah blahhhh. I lost my virginity to him, I love him to death and I know he loves me but im tired of believing that things will get better. He gets mad when I talk to or text guys. He wont let me talk to em so in turn I wont let him talk to girls. Even though he sometimes does talk to em. I spend the wholoe week at my dads house until the weekend. Then I have to spend ALL my time with him. I hardly ever talk to my own mom anymore, I never hangout with my friends. he gets mad when I ask him not to come over because ';we hardly ever get to see eachother';. So I just dont tell him not to come, and then I end up spendin all my freetime with him. I know this isnt a healthy relationship. I wanna be with him but im not happy, because i miss my friends. How can I break up with him without breakin his heart? I dont wanna hurt him but this relationship isnt doing anything for me. How do I put it so that he'll understand?How do I break up with him?
Be honest. Tell him. Simple.How do I break up with him?
There's no easy way to do it if you care about his feelings. Just curious- why were you specifically looking for a black guy?
You are going to break his heart. Just be honest aboud how you feel and walk away.
Tell him how you feel, talk to him. If he object and doesn't co-operate then the next stage is to break up. U can't worry about what he thinks, either way your both getting hurt if your not happy
if ur not happy then u cant make him happy its better if u talk to him and let him know how u feel and end it there..
well your situation sounds very familiar, sounds like my ex. he got mad when i hung out with other guys, wanted to know exactly where im always at, and blamed everything on me.

i was miserable.

crying and screaming every other night.

i love him, and thought he loved me.

leaving him was THE BEST thing i ever did.



you have to realize that even though there are amazing times, theres more fighting then love.

he sounds like he is controlling you.

so what if you talk to other guys? your still with him, and thats who you are with, and he needs to realize that.

he is expecting waaay to much of you, and he shouldnt.

personally, you need to leave him.

and you dont HAVE to spend any time with him, its your life, and he is trying to take it away from you.

and you will find someone else eventually, but your friends are ALWAYS there.

and i think you should break his heart, it sounds like he is constantly breaking yours.

dont feel bad for him , think of all that he has done to you, taking your friends from you, controlling who you get to or not get to talk too.





just be like, ';im tired of this.

you wont let me see any of my friends.

you think im always cheating, when im not.

we fight all the time, and im sick of it.

i dont have any free time because your not letting me away from you';





i really hope i helped.

i hope everything works out.

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