Girl needs time/space to think? How can I get her back?

I was seeing this girl for about 3 months and things were going amazingly. She said she was crazy about me and I was too. She'd come over, we'd watch movies together, cuddle, kiss, all that jazz. Then there was a week where she got extremely distant from me. We didn't hang out for a week and a half and I knew something was wrong. We planned to hang out last weekend when I got a text from her saying ';I'm sorry but I really haven't been feeling it lately'; I asked her what was wrong and she said that her feelings for have have gone down dramatically. I dont know how this could have happened so suddenly...





I asked her if there was another guy and she said no. I asked her if she was lying and she said ';No, you know I would never/never have lied to you'; and she really hasn't. I believe her. I thought about it and realized that I was a little pushy about asking her to be my gf. She said she wasn't ready and I kept trying to convince her that it now was a good time. I feel like I gave her too much of me at once, and that might have scared her off. I was constantly asking her to hang out, but she rarely seemed interested and was busy a lot of the time. She said that she is extremely overwhelmed with school too so that might also be a factor.





After talking w/her about this she said she doesn't know what she wants and that she was so sorry she was doing this to me. We talked more about the situation and I asked her if she just needed some space and she said that would be nice.





I told her that I would still talk to her when I saw her in passing at school if she wanted, and she said that's ok. But I also told her that if she wanted to text me she had to text me first b/c she can't think if I'm always texting her when she doesn't want me to. And she promised me that she would tell me when she figures things out. Just seeing her in school makes me desperately want things to be the way they were again, but idk anymore. She said that ';we're more like friends again, but time will tell.'; We haven't really talked since then. We went 2 days w/out contact before she texted me again. She texted me yesterday saying how her and a friend went to a redbox yesterday and had seen all of the movies w/me. So she's obviously thinking about me, but this is extremely hard. I miss her so much...She asked if I hated her yet and I said ';Nope'; That's basically how the convo went before she gave me weird ';lol nice'; and ';oh hmmm'; responses. Then I just stopped texting her back b/c it seemed obvious that she didnt feel like talking any more.





This is incredibly hard for me. It sucks when you love someone and they don't share the same feelings for you anymore all of a sudden. She said she thinks it might just be a phase, but she really doesn't know. Everything reminds me of her. I can still smell her on my couch and I can't look/think of anything without thinking about her. I want to get her off of my mind but I just can't. It's better when I occupy myself, but it comes back as soon as I get home.Girl needs time/space to think? How can I get her back?
You have been dumped, she just doesnt want to hurt you - time to move on.Girl needs time/space to think? How can I get her back?
i've had the same thing happen to me before.


one day out of the blue, i might not feel the guy,


its just a mood swing i tend to get, and i try


to not make it obvious. however, the mood swing


apparently goes away and afterwards i'm really digging him.


its just a girl thing i guess. i hope she gets over her mood swing


%26amp; i wish you the best of luck :)
Ummmm. I've been through this before. I just say that you give her some time to be alone.


It may be hard for you, but just don't text her, don't talk to her at school..





Give her time to miss you, and I'm pretty sure she will come back to you. Just if she does, don't bug her about becoming your girlfriend and everything.


Just let it be for awhile. And stay busy.





Start doing a sport, or exercising. It works.
Dude, it was only three months! The best thing to do is just move on to the next person, ignore her (not like she doesn't exist, just say Hi and be formal %26amp; polite if you bump into her) for a short time, and then be cool and a friend to her while you're with someone else (if she even speaks to you). I know that you probably don't want to hear this at this stage of your grief, but there are really more fish out there...
Wow it seems you've fallen pretty hard. You have to give her space there isn't anything u can really do. If she comes back then good. If she doesn't and just wants to be friends move on
First off, how old are you? If you are a teenager, its puppy love, nothing serious, really, altho some plp do find that soulmate sooo mmmmm I say FIGHT FOR IT! If its true love.....................but you cannot force someone to love you either, I am a girl and I am very strange and unique, I can go cold, sometimes I have no feelings at all, I have no empathy for others too if I haven't felt something........so IDK about her, since you know her, how does this attitude come to you as? If you feel like she just doesn't want to be with you, let her go..........sometimes ignoring them will make them want YOU more so if its meant to be shell come back, but dont wait around, I had a friend wait for YEARS. He wasted all that time, for nothing. Life is beautiful to waste it on love in vain, its gonna hurt like hell, BUT, its hurting more waiting around isnt it? Give her the space, but also dont wait around too long hon. Peace
If your younger than 25, this will happen a few more times in life so get use to it.





This is part of the preparation process emotionally you have to go through to prepare yourself for your wife. And you'll need to be as emotionally solid as possible.





Great learning experience brother. Now try an asian or a woman a few years older than you...It'll BLOW YOUR MIND..