Sunday, December 11, 2011

I like this girl, but i don't want to date her (Attention whore) She is starting to get addicted to weed?

I like this girl, i fell in and out of love with her, she and I know each other very well, she is kind of a flirt with guys, i did not intend to fall in love with her, but no one has control over love.



I told her i like her, she likes me, but we don't want to date, she is kind of a big mouth, saying stupid stuff on the bus like ';my boobs are so big'; and everyone just looks and goes like ';wdf';. And she tends to lie a lot.



I try to denie to myself i still have feelings for her, but i still care for her.

she is hanging out with the wrong guys.



She started smoking weed and she loves it now, im afraid she is going to ruin her life, because she is the kind of person who will get addicted from the attention of smoking and being high around others.



I have seen close friends ruin their lives from getting addicted, grades going from 90 to 40 just because they can't control the addiction.



I do ocationally smoke weed when there is a party or what not, but i know how to control it (smoking on about 3 times a year) and Im afraid she doesn't know what shes getting into.



I am going to go smoke with her this week, to see how she acts and what she does.



should i tell her to stop? she thinks its just for fun and attention now, but i know for sure she will fall into the drug.



This is my last semester in school with her, she will still be in school for another year, and im kind of watching over her, but im afraid when im gone, she is going to end up like the 19 year old girls still in grade 9 classes.



what do i do? please help.I like this girl, but i don't want to date her (Attention whore) She is starting to get addicted to weed?
Dude, you guys should so have never gotten into smoking the stuff, but whatever.



You should really tell her you are worried about her because you care. Tell her how her life could be affected. How the effect could have her abused by men in the future, her having to rely on others for money because she cant go to school and get a decent job. I dont know.



And the love thing. It's just gonna hurt. When you eventually get a new girl, she wont be your focus. Either way when you graduate, you guys will probably grow apart sooner or later. Depending on what your plans are.



But really, if she woulda never got on the weed, she wouldve been SO much better off.





Mmm, good luck.I like this girl, but i don't want to date her (Attention whore) She is starting to get addicted to weed?
its been a while and ur right, i dont even care about her anymore lol

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WASTE OF TIMEEE
dont smoke weed, it'll attracct the wrong attention
she isn't worth your time.just move on to someone more suitable for your personality.





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yes you shuold tell her to stopp. she'll ruin her life.

she really needs a reality checkk.
practice what you preach and talk to her she does want attention and suffers from low self - esteem issues but once you are gone she probably will be a mess you are telling her not smoke dope but on the other hand you are a user of it
your dr frankenstien you 've created a monster u started her on weed
She isn't worth it at all. Don't lower yourself to her level just find someone way better.
well i can help you with the last thing all you have to is make some friends in the lower grades and they'll watch over her for you but the rest wtf when she says:my boobs are so big LEAVE HER.
No offence...but you have no right to tell her not to smoke it if your sitting right beside her smoking it too !!! I think you should BOTH quite before you ruin BOTH your lives.
If you're really worried about her, stop her, talk to her !



She really is gonna get herself hurt if she keeps it up like this.

And like you said...19 yrs old and still a Freshman ?

I'm sure she wouldn't really want that.


you need to move on
you cannot help someone without their wanting to be helped You can attend meetings to learn much more,call Narcotics anonymous and tell them you have a friend who is an addict and you want to attend meetings for friends and loved ones of addicts that's my best answer

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