he is my best guy friend...
U used to have a crush on him a while back,
it ended by a kiss, and didn't further, he didn't love me, he only wanted to make out.
I was devastated a couple of weeks, and realized it was pointless, so I forgave him and he became friends. He usually sits beside me in classes, and comes over to my house after school.
we are all comfortable with each other so we joke around a lot, we laugh and all.
After our ';kiss'; I had two boyfriends... both failed.
1. the first failed because of me, I didn't love him and he annoyed me
2. failed b/c he cheated on me
My best guy friend after each break up helped me through it.
I don't know why but I feel really safe with him... I never felt that way before.
He is very flirtatious, he flirts with everyone.
I denied to myself that I loved him all the time b/c I always was scared I would get hurt.
Yesterday we kissed again... but while both drinking.
and I felt something... yet again.
I don't know why but I can't give up on him... it's like he is the one...
I don't know but I feel so happy with him.
he told me about how he falls in love with girls...
that he doesn't fall just that easily, that it takes time for him.
etc...
It seems that it is hopeless
and that we will stay friends forever....
Should I give up ?Should I just forget about this guy?
yeahShould I just forget about this guy?
Well,there is a chance as long as he wants to be your friend.Don't force the issue.But on the other hand,it may just be conventient to have you around just in case he can't find ''some'' somewhere else.Think about that.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
How can I apologize to my BEST friend after all that! help?
ok, here is the story I am a 16 years old girl , my best friend and I have been VERYY close friends for 3 years and this year i had too many problems at home and i used to be depressed she used to try to stay beside but i sometimes lost control and shouted or spoke to her in a bad way once towice and tree time ... this leaded to problem after problem and our relationship has weaken now she has a new best friend I try to apologize for that and fix things but she keeps on saying she wont believe words anymore everything inside her is broken in addition to the problems she had with me she had other issues she codnt tell me I think this situation needs action and not only apology but we are on a study leave now and our IGCSE exams are after 1 week so i dont get to see her at school and there is no time to go out WHAT CAN I DOO I REALLY NEED HER and i want her back :( HELLLPHow can I apologize to my BEST friend after all that! help?
Maybe you should write her a nice apology letter explaining her how you feel. Let her know how much she means to you in your life and that you will never find another friend like her and that you don't appreciate what you have until it's gone. Now you realize how special your friendship is and you'll never take it for granted again. Ask her for another chance and that you promise to change. After all that and if she doesn't accept your apology, then it's time to find a new best friend. Good luck hun.How can I apologize to my BEST friend after all that! help?
Something like That has happen to me and my Friend Did the same thing as your Friend is doing to you and trust i have try and try and try to make things right again but she just wont listen to me and i left so mad but if she wont listen to you then maybe it's time to move on My friend and i been friends for 13 years now and i'm 16 years old...it hurts a lot to throw all of that away but i only think of the good times not the bad. or Maybe u can remind her about something u both use to do together something to being u close again.
send a text
i feel sorry about what happened. If shes really a friend, she'd understand.. you were in a situation where you need a friend and she was there for you. you were right when u asked for an apology but if shes really a friend she dont need any of that. there are some things that is not under your control anymore at least you did your part, u asked for an apology and i commend you for that. If shes really a friend then she would stay through thick and thin. if you cant fix the things anymore that maybe because its not under you r power anymore.
Tell her that you knew you were acting like a b---- and you are sorry that you were not there for when she need a friend with her probems and that you understand her feelings. Tell her that you miss her friendship and need her as a friend, that is all you can do.
Maybe you should write her a nice apology letter explaining her how you feel. Let her know how much she means to you in your life and that you will never find another friend like her and that you don't appreciate what you have until it's gone. Now you realize how special your friendship is and you'll never take it for granted again. Ask her for another chance and that you promise to change. After all that and if she doesn't accept your apology, then it's time to find a new best friend. Good luck hun.How can I apologize to my BEST friend after all that! help?
Something like That has happen to me and my Friend Did the same thing as your Friend is doing to you and trust i have try and try and try to make things right again but she just wont listen to me and i left so mad but if she wont listen to you then maybe it's time to move on My friend and i been friends for 13 years now and i'm 16 years old...it hurts a lot to throw all of that away but i only think of the good times not the bad. or Maybe u can remind her about something u both use to do together something to being u close again.
send a text
i feel sorry about what happened. If shes really a friend, she'd understand.. you were in a situation where you need a friend and she was there for you. you were right when u asked for an apology but if shes really a friend she dont need any of that. there are some things that is not under your control anymore at least you did your part, u asked for an apology and i commend you for that. If shes really a friend then she would stay through thick and thin. if you cant fix the things anymore that maybe because its not under you r power anymore.
Tell her that you knew you were acting like a b---- and you are sorry that you were not there for when she need a friend with her probems and that you understand her feelings. Tell her that you miss her friendship and need her as a friend, that is all you can do.
What should i do about this drama with my horse? NEEP HELP FAST!?
so i adopted an abused horse not too long ago (he was beaten kept in bad conditions and starved, hes very very skinny and boney) well i talked to my barn about it and they agreed to let me keep him there. a few weeks after a new girl came to the barn, saw him, and started flipping out on me about how skinny he was and calling me an animal abuser and all this nasty stuff, after she was done i calmly told her that he was abused but not from me and that i adopted him and that i was getting him back up to health. SHE TOLD ME I WAS LYING!!!! this was about a week ago from today. well yesterday i was training/working/lounging him, trying to get him reacquainted with the whip so that he knows its not a bad thing and that it wont hurt him (scary as hell to do by the way!!) and he throws huge tantrums when im doing it but its something that needs to be worked out so that he doesn't hurt someone else, and i know it will take a while and i only do it for about 5 mins before moving on. well she came in while i was doing it and started screaming and flipping out on me talking about how i needed to be arrested and my horse taken because i was ';beating my horse'; at the time she came in the house was off the lead and aloud to roam where he pleased as i was feeding him sugar cubes and prapraising him and only trying to get close to him with the whip. so today i get a call from animal services or what ever about a complaint that i was abusing a horse and they came down to the barn too look things over, after i explained that i recently adopted him and showed paper work and pictures from when i first got him and that he has started to put on weight they said ok and everything was cleared up by them. but now my issue is this damn girl what do i do about her!?!?! shes nuts! i need advice asap!What should i do about this drama with my horse? NEEP HELP FAST!?
Oh that is awful! Good thing it's you and not me, I probably would have broke down and punched her. :/ Calling animal services... ridiculous. If you want to put weight on him faster, maybe switch to a different feed regimen and try some weight boosting supplements. As long as things are cleared up with the cops, pretty much all you can do is ignore her. If you don't have a temper like I do, you could try treating her VERY nicely, and maybe she'll loosen up a little. Maybe even suck up to her by offering to let her help you work with him? If you don't mind her being around him, that is. Ugh, I hate these kinds of problems! Best of luck to you, my prayers as well. :)What should i do about this drama with my horse? NEEP HELP FAST!?
tell her to mind her own friggin business... and then just ignore her and go about your business...
and if she continues, calmly tell her to step away from you and your horse because she is upsetting him...
then if she doesnt quit, maybe call her parents and tell them to tell her to lay off- (or her husband if she is an adult) or the barn people who allowed you to keep this poor sweet horse there and have them explain to her how she is screwed up and harrassing you...
good luck, and good luck rehabing your horse.
haha, sorry hard not laugh, she sounds ummm a lil on the crazy side. But you should put a huge bright sign on his stall saying he WAS abused, and recently adopted by you. Put on there the whole story and put a photo of him the first day you got him, then every now and then put a new photo of his progress!
Good luck with her!
Is there anyone at your barn who can help? Maybe an owner/manager who's opinion this girl trusts can help you out. It seems a little unfair that your on your own with this. I don't think it's great that she got to the point where she called animal services. People need to back you up!
If you can't find help, try to talk to her in a calm environment, away from your horse, and explain what's going on.
:( Good luck!!!!
You do not need help fast. That kind of attitude just adds to the drama. You got checked out. You got everything cleared up. Forget it. Your horse needs you to focus on him. You will run into whack jobs every where you turn. Select your friends with care and be polite to the rest. Love your horse. That's what's important.
If you are in the right, document everything. Do what you would normally do. And document everything. She is acting on emotion. Your documents will cover your rear. If this is a city girl who is reacting to what she dreams is reality the documents will let those who know she is over reacting. If you are in the wrong they will know this also by your lack of documentation. I am not there all know is what you have said. But as a farm raised girl who lives in the city I have met many city people who have some very unreal ideas of how life goes on the farm. If she is over reacting....her reports will be seen as such. Just make sure you are in the right...and do everything in your power to show so.
The last time I took on a neglected horse I made a big sign for his yard explaining his history. I also told the owner of the property and all the staff all about it to they could handle any questions from boarders or visitors. AND, I made him his own web page, so anyone could log on and see his whole story, and all the pictures of him as he progressed :-)
I've linked the old URL below - feel free to use the same format if you have a website you could put his story on for people to see!
Good luck!
Rachael
I think you are doing exactly right by this horse, and now animal control knows it as well. This gal clearly does not know what she is doing, In a year, you are going to have a well trained horse in good weight, and she will probably have a spoiled brat on her hands.
Keep documenting his improvement in case there are any more questions. But clearly, anyone who knows you and knows her will be able to figure out the real story for themselves.
I would go directly to the barn manager/owner. Don't talk to this girl because she obviously won't listen to you because she's already made up her mind that you are abusing your horse (ridiculous yes but that's what she's decided). Tell the barn manager about your interactions w/her and about the fact that you think she called animal services. This is something that the barn manager needs to address and it's their job to address problems in the barn. Just make sure that when you go to the barn manager, you state facts, not your opinion and you stay calm and don't reduce yourself to her type of behavior (yelling and acting irrationally, name calling etc.). The barn manager won't want to get involved if s/he sees it as a ';high school drama'; type situation, but if you approach the barn manager calmly and w/facts about what she has said and what happened w/animal control then s/he will be more likely to step in.
And when this girl approaches you in the future, just move away from her. Be polite but tell her that you are working w/your horse and you need to concentrate on what you are doing. I know it's hard to keep from screaming at her and telling her she's crazy but the high road is the road to take w/this type of person because NO MATTER what you say, she's already formed her opinion and she's going to shout it from the roof tops to anyone that will listen. Hopefully you've been at your barn long enough for the other boarders to know that what she is saying is wrong and they know the truth about you and your horse.
Good Luck!!! And thank you for adopting!!!
Oh that is awful! Good thing it's you and not me, I probably would have broke down and punched her. :/ Calling animal services... ridiculous. If you want to put weight on him faster, maybe switch to a different feed regimen and try some weight boosting supplements. As long as things are cleared up with the cops, pretty much all you can do is ignore her. If you don't have a temper like I do, you could try treating her VERY nicely, and maybe she'll loosen up a little. Maybe even suck up to her by offering to let her help you work with him? If you don't mind her being around him, that is. Ugh, I hate these kinds of problems! Best of luck to you, my prayers as well. :)What should i do about this drama with my horse? NEEP HELP FAST!?
tell her to mind her own friggin business... and then just ignore her and go about your business...
and if she continues, calmly tell her to step away from you and your horse because she is upsetting him...
then if she doesnt quit, maybe call her parents and tell them to tell her to lay off- (or her husband if she is an adult) or the barn people who allowed you to keep this poor sweet horse there and have them explain to her how she is screwed up and harrassing you...
good luck, and good luck rehabing your horse.
haha, sorry hard not laugh, she sounds ummm a lil on the crazy side. But you should put a huge bright sign on his stall saying he WAS abused, and recently adopted by you. Put on there the whole story and put a photo of him the first day you got him, then every now and then put a new photo of his progress!
Good luck with her!
Is there anyone at your barn who can help? Maybe an owner/manager who's opinion this girl trusts can help you out. It seems a little unfair that your on your own with this. I don't think it's great that she got to the point where she called animal services. People need to back you up!
If you can't find help, try to talk to her in a calm environment, away from your horse, and explain what's going on.
:( Good luck!!!!
You do not need help fast. That kind of attitude just adds to the drama. You got checked out. You got everything cleared up. Forget it. Your horse needs you to focus on him. You will run into whack jobs every where you turn. Select your friends with care and be polite to the rest. Love your horse. That's what's important.
If you are in the right, document everything. Do what you would normally do. And document everything. She is acting on emotion. Your documents will cover your rear. If this is a city girl who is reacting to what she dreams is reality the documents will let those who know she is over reacting. If you are in the wrong they will know this also by your lack of documentation. I am not there all know is what you have said. But as a farm raised girl who lives in the city I have met many city people who have some very unreal ideas of how life goes on the farm. If she is over reacting....her reports will be seen as such. Just make sure you are in the right...and do everything in your power to show so.
The last time I took on a neglected horse I made a big sign for his yard explaining his history. I also told the owner of the property and all the staff all about it to they could handle any questions from boarders or visitors. AND, I made him his own web page, so anyone could log on and see his whole story, and all the pictures of him as he progressed :-)
I've linked the old URL below - feel free to use the same format if you have a website you could put his story on for people to see!
Good luck!
Rachael
I think you are doing exactly right by this horse, and now animal control knows it as well. This gal clearly does not know what she is doing, In a year, you are going to have a well trained horse in good weight, and she will probably have a spoiled brat on her hands.
Keep documenting his improvement in case there are any more questions. But clearly, anyone who knows you and knows her will be able to figure out the real story for themselves.
I would go directly to the barn manager/owner. Don't talk to this girl because she obviously won't listen to you because she's already made up her mind that you are abusing your horse (ridiculous yes but that's what she's decided). Tell the barn manager about your interactions w/her and about the fact that you think she called animal services. This is something that the barn manager needs to address and it's their job to address problems in the barn. Just make sure that when you go to the barn manager, you state facts, not your opinion and you stay calm and don't reduce yourself to her type of behavior (yelling and acting irrationally, name calling etc.). The barn manager won't want to get involved if s/he sees it as a ';high school drama'; type situation, but if you approach the barn manager calmly and w/facts about what she has said and what happened w/animal control then s/he will be more likely to step in.
And when this girl approaches you in the future, just move away from her. Be polite but tell her that you are working w/your horse and you need to concentrate on what you are doing. I know it's hard to keep from screaming at her and telling her she's crazy but the high road is the road to take w/this type of person because NO MATTER what you say, she's already formed her opinion and she's going to shout it from the roof tops to anyone that will listen. Hopefully you've been at your barn long enough for the other boarders to know that what she is saying is wrong and they know the truth about you and your horse.
Good Luck!!! And thank you for adopting!!!
How to lose weight at age 12?
I am 12 years old (almost 13) girl and I have a sorta fat stomach, legs, and arms. Im not fat, im just a little overweight and i want to get rid of it as soon as possible. I am 4 feet and 6 inches tall (im short) and i weight about 94 pounds. Also im really shy about this. i stopped eating chips and some junk food. summer is coming up soon so i wanna get skinny for my bathing suit and all. also will swimming make me skinner? cause i have a membership to a gym place and im going to swim there soon and few times a week with my mom. PLEASE HELP!!!How to lose weight at age 12?
ONLY DRINK WATER! soda and juices make you gain weight like crazy.
You're young, so don't wait!! Just stay active, play with friends, play sports, and make sure to not snack when you're bored. thats what got me.How to lose weight at age 12?
I'm stuck in the same place you are. I am 11 though. I run around my neighborhood everyday with my friends to exercise. I try to eat healthy as much as I can. I eat a lot of fruits and vegetables. If you have a game system like the Wii, you can try Wii Fit with the balance board. It's fun and you also get to exercise!
I hope this will help you!
**((SANDRA))**
start going to that gym. swimming will help. any form of cardio (swim, walk, run, cycle, aerobics, dancing will help you lose weight. try eat a healthier diet. take weight loss slow or you will do your body and hormones some harm at 12.
If it makes you feel any better you are actually within the normal range for your height and weight (see link below).
You have made the step in the right direction by stopping or slowing the junk food you should also increase the amount of fruits and veggies you eat. Swimming is wonderful for weight management and overall health. Another great activity to tone the body (stomach, legs, and arms) is yoga. You can probably find a class at your gym or pick up a DVD to get started it will not only tone your body but increase flexibility, strength, and makes you feel great! Helps you to deal with stress and focus too a bonus for school.
You are on the right path keep it up!
I tried to lose weight for months before I was able to find a way to successfully lose weight. Instead of rewriting the article I found, you can read it here. http://ow.ly/1tU9l
ONLY DRINK WATER! soda and juices make you gain weight like crazy.
You're young, so don't wait!! Just stay active, play with friends, play sports, and make sure to not snack when you're bored. thats what got me.How to lose weight at age 12?
I'm stuck in the same place you are. I am 11 though. I run around my neighborhood everyday with my friends to exercise. I try to eat healthy as much as I can. I eat a lot of fruits and vegetables. If you have a game system like the Wii, you can try Wii Fit with the balance board. It's fun and you also get to exercise!
I hope this will help you!
**((SANDRA))**
start going to that gym. swimming will help. any form of cardio (swim, walk, run, cycle, aerobics, dancing will help you lose weight. try eat a healthier diet. take weight loss slow or you will do your body and hormones some harm at 12.
If it makes you feel any better you are actually within the normal range for your height and weight (see link below).
You have made the step in the right direction by stopping or slowing the junk food you should also increase the amount of fruits and veggies you eat. Swimming is wonderful for weight management and overall health. Another great activity to tone the body (stomach, legs, and arms) is yoga. You can probably find a class at your gym or pick up a DVD to get started it will not only tone your body but increase flexibility, strength, and makes you feel great! Helps you to deal with stress and focus too a bonus for school.
You are on the right path keep it up!
I tried to lose weight for months before I was able to find a way to successfully lose weight. Instead of rewriting the article I found, you can read it here. http://ow.ly/1tU9l
So there's this girl I want to get to know, but...?
So here's the story
I've seen this girl around all of High School and have been interested in her, but I haven't been able to be around her for long periods of time up until now
So I'm a senior and she is in my english class (and she'll be going to a college close by to where I'll be)
so I got her number and I've tried talking to her
I had one or 2 really good conversations with her then it almost seems like she doesn't want to talk
and it all seems one sided to me like she doesn't want to participate
How should I go about this? (I want to still get to know her though)So there's this girl I want to get to know, but...?
well get to know her better without talking to her. ask people close to her things like whats her favorite color, her favorite animal, ya know; the basics!
don't talk about nothing. talk about something she would want to talk about.
if she doesn't want to talk to you she will show massive body language hints. pay attention to what she is concentrating on: your face(good) or everything but you(bad).if she doesn't want to talk to you she will also say thing like uh-huh and ya. if it seems like she doesn't want to talk to you, don't force her to! that will only make things worse.if she's in you class, offer to do things for her AND the people around her (like throwing away their trash) if you only offer things to her she may become uncomfortable and this would be the opposite reaction. in helping other people around her, this will make her more comfortable and will help her not to think that people will start to gossip about her and you being together.(something she may be terrified about)
good luck!advice your mother gave you
I've seen this girl around all of High School and have been interested in her, but I haven't been able to be around her for long periods of time up until now
So I'm a senior and she is in my english class (and she'll be going to a college close by to where I'll be)
so I got her number and I've tried talking to her
I had one or 2 really good conversations with her then it almost seems like she doesn't want to talk
and it all seems one sided to me like she doesn't want to participate
How should I go about this? (I want to still get to know her though)So there's this girl I want to get to know, but...?
well get to know her better without talking to her. ask people close to her things like whats her favorite color, her favorite animal, ya know; the basics!
don't talk about nothing. talk about something she would want to talk about.
if she doesn't want to talk to you she will show massive body language hints. pay attention to what she is concentrating on: your face(good) or everything but you(bad).if she doesn't want to talk to you she will also say thing like uh-huh and ya. if it seems like she doesn't want to talk to you, don't force her to! that will only make things worse.if she's in you class, offer to do things for her AND the people around her (like throwing away their trash) if you only offer things to her she may become uncomfortable and this would be the opposite reaction. in helping other people around her, this will make her more comfortable and will help her not to think that people will start to gossip about her and you being together.(something she may be terrified about)
good luck!
How can I get this virgo boy?
I'm pisces girl living in a coed house with virgo guy. he is soo sweet and nice and well mannered. he is very hard to get to know, since we are both so shy. the thing is i always catch him staring at me! he does things for me, like open doors and donates to my charity, and finished a piece of chocolate i didn't want, but i thnk he's just being nice? we have hung out more and now he's seems a bit more comfortable coming up to me and starting a convo. he always seems to be around me (even if not directly talking to me). what should i do? flirt? the only thing is he hooked up with my capricorn friend last year, but doesn't seem interested in a r/s. They made out again two nights ago, so i'm guessing he doesn't like me then...How can I get this virgo boy?
I';m a virgo we are naturally shy even if we like the person. We are nice to everyone cause that is in our nature. You need to give him sign like flirt with him so he can know that you are feeling him. We don't know if someone likes us. And we don't want to make a move and get hurt. So I say go for it and tell him that you like him. It would be much better so that he knows and can give you all of his time.How can I get this virgo boy?
If he hooked up with your friend you back off. Period.
I';m a virgo we are naturally shy even if we like the person. We are nice to everyone cause that is in our nature. You need to give him sign like flirt with him so he can know that you are feeling him. We don't know if someone likes us. And we don't want to make a move and get hurt. So I say go for it and tell him that you like him. It would be much better so that he knows and can give you all of his time.How can I get this virgo boy?
If he hooked up with your friend you back off. Period.
There may be a girl that I know who...?
Okay, so i am asian. I love black girls, the way they head bang makes me tickle in the you know what areas tehe. Anyway, I am a girl like many of you girls but except for one difference. For some reason i like police booty? I wear those outfits all the time and turn the lights off (my sister sometimes says ';Hey, where the light?'; haha) and pretend I solve a mystery of drugs and I get capture with my gun and I just need to know if it is normal to want a black girl to help my fantasy, because theres a girl at school who hints that she likes it (how i got into it in the first place) and she wants to come over next thursday when my parents aren't home. My mom says black girls are trouble, but I don't believe her, what should I do?There may be a girl that I know who...?
Black girls are trouble? Race is a social construct. The color of a person should not matter in anything. If that's what you like, hey, that's what you like.There may be a girl that I know who...?
Uhm, ignore the racist bigot?
Obviously sneaking this girl in will help your mothers racist view of African Americans. Its an excellent idea
this is the best answer
Black girls are trouble? Race is a social construct. The color of a person should not matter in anything. If that's what you like, hey, that's what you like.There may be a girl that I know who...?
Uhm, ignore the racist bigot?
Obviously sneaking this girl in will help your mothers racist view of African Americans. Its an excellent idea
this is the best answer
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